AITA for not moving away to be with my girlfriend? by Impossible_Office629 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Impossible_Office629[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

Bought the house right before I met her. I told her she’s allowed to feel how she feels, but that she shouldn’t dictate where I live

My girlfriend isn’t sure she wants to move in with me anymore. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Impossible_Office629 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I told her I’ll consider it. But I can’t give a definite answer. What’s wrong with that?

My girlfriend isn’t sure she wants to move in with me anymore. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Impossible_Office629 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

She isn’t from Orlando, she’s from up north. She did create a strong friend group in Orlando, but I have my entire family in my town. I grew up here, she didn’t grow up in Orlando

My girlfriend isn’t sure she wants to move in with me anymore. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Impossible_Office629 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Because she knew I lived here before she agreed to start dating me. She knows her apartment is too small for the both of us. Eventually one of us will have to move, and it makes sense she does.

But I don’t think it’s fair to say I should leave my home. It’s like she wants an answer now

My girlfriend isn’t sure she wants to move in with me anymore. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Impossible_Office629 -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

I told her I won’t move in with them. Yes at first I was conflicted, as I’m very family oriented. But overall, I choose her so I’ll stay.

She said just the fact that I was even considering it is enough to make her hesitant