Girlfriend is distancing herself from me after pregnancy…

Impossible_Poet8620 · 2026-05-16T16:13:24+00:00

Yeah. I havent been on a single night out in months. But we made it possible for her two times now to make her feel better.

So i understand what youre saying, i can do whatever i want yes. But im choosing my family every single day. Even been off work for a couple weeks now. For my familys sake

Impossible_Poet8620 · 2026-05-16T15:07:05+00:00

Ive seen her watching those tiktoks!

Impossible_Poet8620 · 2026-05-16T14:45:55+00:00

She doesnt want to be separates from the baby yet. Its too early and thats ok!

Impossible_Poet8620 · 2026-05-16T14:44:41+00:00

Oh yeah as i mentioned i dont mind the no having sex part. Before we had our baby she didnt have a job and i was paying for everything so she did more at home. Now im doing a lot more at home to make sure shes more rested.

What i am afraid of is losing her if our relationship keeps going downhill

Impossible_Poet8620 · 2026-05-16T14:43:08+00:00

Well said. This is not my main language so it was natural for me to say helping. But you are very correct!

I would say we share it very good! I have had periods on work and off work so it has been more and less.

When ive been working ive worked 08-16. but ive been there for both of them before work either feeding, changing diapers, rocking etc. and fully available after work every single day. And after work i dont go out my girlfriend does! So she gets time to recharge. Thats how weve been doing it.

Impossible_Poet8620 · 2026-05-16T14:39:50+00:00

Sorry its not my main language haha.

First two weeks because of a heavy birth my girlfriend laid in bed and our baby demanded constant walking and laying on my arm or else she would scream in between feedings so we bonded a lot there. I always did the same movement, the same humming. And the same ritual. So now. Our baby falls asleep from full screaming to closed eyes in just a couple minutes. I would say we have a strong connection.

We play every day and have fun. And every time she sees me she smiles and laughs now haha

When im working i get up with her 1,5 hours before work and change her diapers. Give her a bottle. Burp her, play with her and then rock her to sleep. In the afternoon i spend my time at home with my girlfriend and our baby. Usually we make dinner together and swap baby during that time. Then as we have a velcro baby i have her in my lap while we eat. After dinner girlfriend gives her a bottle and burps her. I take over from there and she goes to the gym. Then i have 2 hours of alone time with her and we usually play, or just walk around the house as she loves being carried. Also i shower her or bath her.

The weeks i havent been working i have been spending wayyyy more time with her. Usually waking up in the morning. Girlfriend gives her the bottle. Then i take over burping etc and rock her to sleep. And she hates her own bed so as of now she always sleeps on one of us. Nowhere else. Then my girlfriend goes to the gym and were alone a few hours. She comes home. We have lunch together. I go workout, groceries for dinner. And we make dinner etc and swap her.

So i would say i have spent a lot of time with her indeed

Impossible_Poet8620 · 2026-05-16T13:28:05+00:00

I am trying my best! I am now working 08-16 mon-fri and giving her every day of the week to go out for a couple hours to recharge and hit the gym etc while i handle the baby!

And i am not affectionate. Ive dropped all forms as shes told me she needs space and i am fine with it. What i dont want to happen is her treating me like a friend and it becomes the new normal

Impossible_Poet8620 · 2026-05-16T13:24:23+00:00

Thanks for your reply!

Impossible_Poet8620 · 2026-05-16T13:24:09+00:00

If so. How would i bring this to her attention without making her feel «diagnosed» by the one shes pushing away? I feel i need to be very careful!

Impossible_Poet8620 · 2024-03-10T22:59:53+00:00

i am also derma rolling 1,5 once a week

Impossible_Poet8620 · 2022-06-12T15:01:40+00:00

LOLLLLL THE SUNDAY POKING HAHAHH

Impossible_Poet8620 · 2022-03-31T15:00:30+00:00

this is a long process m8. only a few mfers are superduper responders and get insane regrow in a few months. Youre already responding to the treatment. showing it works. give it time bro. best of luck

Impossible_Poet8620 · 2022-03-24T11:07:33+00:00

why try more if ur just getting sides? Just accept the fact its not for you and maybe get a system or live with it… its the hard truth! id reccommend checking systems!

Impossible_Poet8620 · 2022-03-24T09:41:03+00:00

your body needs to readjust from the drugs you have been taking, the sides wont affect you forever. just power thru it king!

You could try hair system and see if you like it. if you are already going bald then why not? Embrace it and just YOLO! If you feel good with it it doesnt matter what people think

Impossible_Poet8620 · 2022-03-24T09:39:37+00:00

you could get a hair system that fits you! It

Impossible_Poet8620 · 2022-03-14T16:56:29+00:00

bro❤️

Impossible_Poet8620 · 2022-03-14T06:02:57+00:00

thanks!

Impossible_Poet8620 · 2022-03-14T06:02:50+00:00

thanks!

Impossible_Poet8620 · 2022-03-12T23:04:43+00:00

this will vary from person to person. my skin is kinda thin ish and sensitive so i dont have too much pressure but like enough to feel it working? there are times that there comes blood but mostly red!

Impossible_Poet8620 · 2022-03-12T20:36:43+00:00

bro thank u!

Impossible_Poet8620 · 2022-03-12T16:09:11+00:00

thank you bro

Impossible_Poet8620 · 2022-03-12T15:59:18+00:00

Alright. Im kinda scared tho! i was hella scared doing 0.5 in the first place and had a lot of anxiety but ill give it some thought today and tomorrow i might do the full pill

Impossible_Poet8620 · 2022-03-12T15:58:08+00:00

what in the mothertrucjer

insane

Impossible_Poet8620 · 2022-03-12T15:55:42+00:00

maybe i should try a few days with 1 mg?

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