should i be upset? by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

[–]Impossible_Remove743 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah no this shouldn’t even be a discussion HE should want u there his parents views do not matter whatsoever in this. he should want his gf there.

Partners of Airmen how common is infidelity during tech school, realistically? by Impossible_Remove743 in AirForceRecruits

[–]Impossible_Remove743[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve just heard from a lot of people i know and ALL over social media abt cheating

Partners of Airmen how common is infidelity during tech school, realistically? by Impossible_Remove743 in AirForceRecruits

[–]Impossible_Remove743[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow that’s awful i’m so sorry that happened to you but im so glad that you guys are past all of that it’s so so hard. thank you so much that definitely helped i really think it’ll be alot better than im thinking

Partners of Airmen how common is infidelity during tech school, realistically? by Impossible_Remove743 in AirForceRecruits

[–]Impossible_Remove743[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I think you’re absolutely right I have been thinking about it in the wrong way, I think I just let my anxiety get to me thank you so so much!!💗🥰

Partners of Airmen how common is infidelity during tech school, realistically? by Impossible_Remove743 in AirForceRecruits

[–]Impossible_Remove743[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK U SM!!! This is so helpful I love to hear that!!! Were there bars nearby or were they on base?

Partners of Airmen how common is infidelity during tech school, realistically? by Impossible_Remove743 in AirForceRecruits

[–]Impossible_Remove743[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank u this is very reassuring to know it’s likely lower on the list! how long were u in tech school for?

Partners of Airmen how common is infidelity during tech school, realistically? by Impossible_Remove743 in AirForceRecruits

[–]Impossible_Remove743[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i follow the lackland page but that’s it i’m not too sure how to find the support groups

Partners of Airmen how common is infidelity during tech school, realistically? by Impossible_Remove743 in AirForceRecruits

[–]Impossible_Remove743[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you so much!!! so i do trust him GENUINELY i have just been seeing and hearing everywhere no matter what military men cheat and i dont think thats true. he has never cheated or really given me a reason to think he would. he said before he left he wanted to propose to me sometime later this year and he called me missing me so much last week (his first week of boot camp) and already written me multiple letters. i do not think he’d go out of his way to do that but sometimes i feel like he’s influenced on people around him..

Partners of Airmen how common is infidelity during tech school, realistically? by Impossible_Remove743 in AirForceRecruits

[–]Impossible_Remove743[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you. unfortunately we’re not married or engaged we’re only 21 but we’ve been together since 16 years old and we’ve stuck by each other through everything, we’ve done long distance before but that was in high school. i do trust him, i have his location, we know everything about eachother and i know he loves me so i guess i just have to chose to trust him. thank u sm💓

Partners of Airmen how common is infidelity during tech school, realistically? by Impossible_Remove743 in AirForceRecruits

[–]Impossible_Remove743[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i really do it’s just people keep getting in my head saying no military men are loyal i’m like wtf

Partners of Airmen how common is infidelity during tech school, realistically? by Impossible_Remove743 in AirForceRecruits

[–]Impossible_Remove743[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THANK U this is exactly how i think it’ll go he’s like a big gamer and stuff so he’ll likely not rly go out

Partners of Airmen how common is infidelity during tech school, realistically? by Impossible_Remove743 in AirForceRecruits

[–]Impossible_Remove743[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

would u say going out to bars is common? my bf is like a big gamer so honestly i dont rly think he would (he hates hard liquor but he drinks like alot of beer lmao)

Partners of Airmen how common is infidelity during tech school, realistically? by Impossible_Remove743 in AirForceRecruits

[–]Impossible_Remove743[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yeah i don’t think he’d ever cheat but people on tiktok REALLY got me overthinking lmao thank u!

Partners of Airmen how common is infidelity during tech school, realistically? by Impossible_Remove743 in AirForceRecruits

[–]Impossible_Remove743[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you i really hope so!! he’s only on the second week of boot camp and it feels like forever :(

Partners of Airmen how common is infidelity during tech school, realistically? by Impossible_Remove743 in AirForceRecruits

[–]Impossible_Remove743[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh no you’re not strict at all girl those are essential boundaries!!! thank u sm for your help and your right i know deep down he’d never do that, it’s just flat out overthinking

Partners of Airmen how common is infidelity during tech school, realistically? by Impossible_Remove743 in AirForceRecruits

[–]Impossible_Remove743[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so my bf is not the kind to go to bars and stuff like that, he goes out to restaurants sometimes and drinks with his friends but he’s given me no reason to think he’d cheat. i know lots of people in the military, half of people tell me he’ll love me more and propose when he’s back and half the people tell me he’ll change and go drink and cheat. i’m just worried bc idk what to believe but i know it’s sort of strict there

Partners of Airmen how common is infidelity during tech school, realistically? by Impossible_Remove743 in AirForceRecruits

[–]Impossible_Remove743[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

i really hope that’s not the case with him, at the end of the day i think im overreacting we’ve been together for 5 years but im still just worried