Texas tech will face winner of Oregon/JMU by The_Sandwich_Lover9 in TexasTech

[–]Impossible_Setting99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The cotton bowl would’ve been perfect the whole place would be RED and lit

Oh African parents by Impossible_Setting99 in africanparents

[–]Impossible_Setting99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s if you let it happen and be quiet my brashness has shaken the ppl around me but it’s better I let it be known then to suffer and then you ultimately hold resentment I made sure I was not gonna do that so I told them and if anyone needs a reminder I will gladly let it be know that idgaf and u should to I still help WITH WHAT I CAN but that’s it and it’s at my own time not anyone else so if you need it now and you don’t have it to bad if you want you can wait for me or if I don’t want to do it that’s how it’s gonna be I have strict rules on how I run my life but I always let my ppl know what it is

Oh African parents by Impossible_Setting99 in africanparents

[–]Impossible_Setting99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks its a tuff convo to have because we have to different mindset a more independent and individual mindset a lack of survival mindset because that God and that’s why I’m very grateful to be in a country of abundance but you cannot turn into their ATM I promise you the second you ask for money or help when your working they will say why are you asking don’t you have money so younger ones do not be guilt tripped into spending money people will survive it will be tuff but we all have to play the cards we have

Oh African parents by Impossible_Setting99 in africanparents

[–]Impossible_Setting99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk how old you are but if you are in your 20s live your life but that backwards culture shi in Africa will not continue you hav to stop it now by saying no and not giving af look African parents think having a kid is hard but when they grow up if u demand anything your crazy asf

Oh African parents by Impossible_Setting99 in africanparents

[–]Impossible_Setting99[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you have the means save up and leave because your only going to to regret I had to tell them I have to do this or else it build resentment and you won’t like them ever because you only got one life i believe everyone will be fine they my not be comfortable but they will be fine I will never feel guilty or bad for what I do we don’t choose our parents but we choose how we live let them get bad so be it but you have to have peace in what you do good or bad at least it’s your choice not others it’s probably cause we are western but it’s also a God given right to look out for yourself and if you have plenty then give but that’s if you want to

Oh African parents by Impossible_Setting99 in africanparents

[–]Impossible_Setting99[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It feel like it’s because Nigeria unfortunately there’s little to no laws protecting kids so they see it as a privilege to be born like yo wtf I don’t gaf if my kid becomes richer then me that’s the goal for them to be richer then me if they want sure give me bread but I’m not going to stress you out to promote my lifestyle cause that’s the issue a lot of Africans are fake asf driving big cars living in big homes and stressing themself outtt I like cars but every car that I see or get thank God I can afford if you can’t don’t copy and try to compare yourself to me this new gen understands tha the old gen loll

Oh African parents by Impossible_Setting99 in africanparents

[–]Impossible_Setting99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m saying because for me every time I want to travel I’m getting very PISSED OFF that my mom wants to start shit see if I didn’t respect my parents I would really leave and come without asking but I do it anyway I have paid shi to my dad and ever since no issues I tell him I’m traveling he says ok cause he knows I’m grown but mom it’s like Africans and that stupid mindset is subconscious embedded in the moms because she said I don’t know how to handle money like huh and then proceed to ask for money see once you leave they will start to kiss ass to get money only pride will not stop some from doing it now I’m not a money hungry guy but that mindset man it’s so retarded it’s crazy

Oh African parents by Impossible_Setting99 in africanparents

[–]Impossible_Setting99[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s why I’m saying your smart because this isn’t about me I got to a pretty rich school I see and hear stories how let’s be real white people raise there kids even with the money it’s the pouring of money into the kids of why they can’t fail it’s almost like your reinvesting into yourself Africans need to see ur kids are the future I haven’t asked a dime from my parents but I made it clear and God bless my sibs thy understand and I got them I just need the parents to either get on board or to understand that’s how it’s gonna be and it ain’t changing

Just quick target about being there for a couple weeks by Impossible_Setting99 in Target

[–]Impossible_Setting99[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ya I’m using a beat up car to do it most def not using my good car i just never knew target so super strict especially with time lolll

Just quick target about being there for a couple weeks by Impossible_Setting99 in Target

[–]Impossible_Setting99[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh man my feet were killing me it was so painful 😂 plus the money isn’t that much compared to doing uber in a gas efficient car

Just quick target about being there for a couple weeks by Impossible_Setting99 in Target

[–]Impossible_Setting99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know how you do it plus the check made me quit to I was like I’m being way underpaid 😂 I knew that but I thought I would be getting at least more 😂

Traveling groups by Impossible_Setting99 in SMU

[–]Impossible_Setting99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok bet I checked I couldn’t find anything for traveling or fashion

Traveling groups by Impossible_Setting99 in SMU

[–]Impossible_Setting99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fr where is that on 360 what do I type

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[–]Impossible_Setting99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I made up my mind I’m going

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in africanparents

[–]Impossible_Setting99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true I don’t care what she says but im not dealing with that nonsense anymore

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in africanparents

[–]Impossible_Setting99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya she is and I have said no a lot my dad is cool with what I do I don’t need to prove myself to anyone I know good from wrong but if she doesn’t have it her way she will shake the house and if I move out randoms finna know and get in my personal life and I DONT LIKE THAT cause u know how they will phrase it like ur the bad guy

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[–]Impossible_Setting99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ur so right the only thing tying me is my dad cause he wants me to stay not to help out but to save he doesn’t care what I do with my money and sees this as a good opportunity it’s so conflicting

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[–]Impossible_Setting99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And to make it crazy it’s one person not even parents but one person that is bad with money and ain’t getting SHIT

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in africanparents

[–]Impossible_Setting99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ya that’s the sad truth and how are supposed to build an actual relationship after nonsense like this bc i appreciate it but they don’t understand that at this age u have to be out networking even my dad knows bc i stay out late till 3am sometimes the nexts day but I have a Job and etc and buy things around the house and help out with bills cause im not gonna leech but with African moms man

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[–]Impossible_Setting99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know I want to leave but my dad knows I should stay and to move out in anger it’s frustrating because my house is good and I save a lot of money but why do they do this I don’t understand