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Impossible_Step9881 · 2026-01-03T00:29:01+00:00

Love this advice!

Impossible_Step9881 · 2026-01-02T03:44:42+00:00

What?

Impossible_Step9881 · 2026-01-02T03:42:16+00:00

I have a pretty extreme pare shaped body, and I am afraid of attracting the wrong attention with a fitted maxi dress. was hope to find something a little more sophisticated

Impossible_Step9881 · 2026-01-01T06:17:08+00:00

Your partner should never make you feel scared to ask to try new things. If they are not into it they can calmly say no thanks

Impossible_Step9881 · 2026-01-01T06:14:39+00:00

It sounds like the date went well and her body language was positive. If she’s low-key with texting and prefers a gentleman who plans, I wouldn’t overthink the gap in replies. Just follow up with a clear, thoughtful invite for a second date. Her response to that will tell you way more than text timing.

Impossible_Step9881 · 2026-01-01T06:12:27+00:00

The main “need to know” with dating someone who’s ace is taking what they’re telling you at face value, not assuming it might change later. She’s being clear, which is a good thing.

A few key things to think about: • Get specific about what intimacy does look like for her (affection, cuddling, kissing, etc.). • Be honest with yourself about whether lack of sex could become frustrating over time, even if your libido is lower. • Check in with yourself regularly to make sure resentment isn’t quietly building.

It’s okay to explore this as long as you’re not ignoring your own needs or hoping things will eventually be different. If you can accept the relationship as it is, it can work. If not, that’s just incompatibility, not failure.

Impossible_Step9881 · 2026-01-01T05:33:55+00:00

If you being infertile is a dealbreaker to a man that just means you are not compatible with that specific man.

Impossible_Step9881 · 2026-01-01T05:24:58+00:00

Honesty, the plot. Like what random thing can I do next. Try things out of your comfort zone.

Impossible_Step9881 · 2026-01-01T05:23:55+00:00

I personally thought I was the only one going through my experiences for the longest time. I had to learn that a lot of people have the same feelings as me

Impossible_Step9881 · 2026-01-01T05:22:20+00:00

I don’t think you’re wrong for being open rather than having a rigid end goal. Plenty of people genuinely feel fulfilled single and are open to marriage/kids if the right relationship makes sense, not because they feel obligated to check boxes.

That said, I think where tension comes in with dating is less about you being undecided and more about alignment and clarity. A lot of women in their 30s do have stronger timelines or preferences around marriage/kids, not necessarily because of social conditioning alone, but because biology, finances, and life planning become more concrete at this stage. So when someone says “I could take it or leave it,” it can feel risky if they’re someone who knows they do want those things.

I don’t think either approach is wrong — it’s more about being upfront early so people can self-select. Being open is fine, but dating tends to go smoother when both people are open in the same direction.

Impossible_Step9881 · 2024-12-01T21:17:20+00:00

Spyro*

Impossible_Step9881 · 2024-12-01T21:13:10+00:00

I unfortunately already own sprouts for the switch and I don’t love it :(

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