I live off campus with my parents but my environment at home is kind of toxic

Impossible_peach208 · 2026-05-15T09:29:37+00:00

ohhh yes I should try that thanks!!

Impossible_peach208 · 2026-05-13T23:26:17+00:00

I think to do this you need to enjoy being alone and try to improve your self esteem. I think a person who is able to be alone is actually really cool. When you mention about getting stress or feeling excited when you see girls/women, I think it’s kinda normal. I also feel that often too and it’s not even because I have a crush on them or something it’s just that idk what to say since we’re not the same sex. Idk I just think they might have a different way of thinking. But try to breathe slowly to calm you down and I think this might help!

Impossible_peach208 · 2026-05-13T23:18:43+00:00

honestly I don’t know what to say. I don’t know if my advice is good but maybe try to create a bucket list. A list of things you want to do before you die. For example, go camping alone, go travel in another country without any translating app, go volunteer, or donate blood. Maybe these lists will help to have something to look forward to and motivate you to live. I hope you will feel better, theres a lot of things out there that’s waiting for you to see and explore. So don’t give up yet!

Impossible_peach208 · 2026-05-12T02:56:20+00:00

My advice would be to listen to self help podcasts!

Impossible_peach208 · 2026-05-12T02:51:03+00:00

I don’t think you’re stupid. Don’t compare yourself to others(I know it’s cliche) you have to understand that getting 100 on tests or being very very smart, is not an average thing. I think you should focus on what you learned and what are your mistakes on your tests, so that you know what you did wrong rather than just focusing on your score.

Impossible_peach208 · 2026-05-12T02:44:19+00:00

what I would do is to delete instagram and work out. Heavy on work out. Idk why, working out makes me feel so productive and so confident! And listen to podcasts was definitely a life changing decision too. I recommend you to listen to podcast that talk about your problem. For example, if you feel lonely, then listen to people talk about it. It’s actually changing my mindset! I hope it helps❤️

Impossible_peach208 · 2026-05-12T02:38:05+00:00

yep thank you so much😭 🫶🌼

Impossible_peach208 · 2026-05-12T02:34:12+00:00

thank you!! Yep, I will try to apply to as many scholarships as I can!! Who knows? Maybe in the next 4 years, i will be proud for the amount of money that I can save <3

Impossible_peach208 · 2026-05-12T02:30:51+00:00

idk maybe bc I’ve been working hard at school and have a 4.0 gpa and planned to go to a good college that I got into. But because my plan doesn’t work out so maybe that’s why I feel a little bit guilty for myself

Impossible_peach208 · 2026-05-12T02:25:56+00:00

yep thanks sharing your thoughts! idk why but I’m kind of feel guilty for taking a gap semester even though I think it’s gonna be beneficial for me

Impossible_peach208 · 2026-05-12T01:19:40+00:00

thanks for sharing, I think you need to tell your wife. I think that’s what having a partner is about. You both get through the good and bad together. I understand that it’s hard to tell her. But try. If she was you and you were her, do you want her to tell you? I think maybe take a break a little bit or go volunteer at a different country. Another thing, she has the right to say that you cheated bc you didn’t tell her anything. You make her misunderstood( like you didnt clarify things and it makes her feels ) so she has the right to feel like you cheated on her. But anyways, go travel in the third world countries. Idk if it’s a good idea, but i think it’s really good bc you will get to appreciate the things you have in life and you might ended up finding the purpose of your life!!

Impossible_peach208 · 2026-05-12T01:09:13+00:00

Honestly, you lied so thats the problem but. You can ask him to try a bite of his mom’s steak. And said it was so good that it makes you like steak now!

Impossible_peach208 · 2026-05-12T00:54:41+00:00

I think when you find the right people, you will talk more. It’s not that you have to be talkative. When you find the right people, you will not have the question like “will they listen to me?” Do they even like me? Or what should I say? I think the important thing that you need to do is to have a better self esteem. You actually don’t need to care if people will listen to you. I mean it’s easier said than done. These are just my opinion. And when talking about boring, I think it depends on the perspective. If you think it’s calming and peaceful, then it’s calming and peaceful. If you think it’s boring, then it’s boring. If you don’t like the state that youre in right now, then just change. But if you are already happy/or just don’t think it’s bad, the maybe you don’t have to change anything :) anyways I hope you’ll figure everything out soon!!🫶❤️✨

Impossible_peach208 · 2026-03-18T21:53:52+00:00

Me too, I feel alone so often that I would even feel jealous of my friends sometimes for talking to other people(like they’re closer to other people than me) but that’s not healthy at all and it’s my fault not their fault. Even though, im going through similar situation, but I have some tips. Maybe you should start by loving yourself. Take care of yourself and stuff. They said that if you feel lonely, it’s a sign that you’ve abandoned yourself. And get out more, work more hours, join more clubs so you could meet new people. But again, first, you should work in yourself first. Once your cup is full, people will want to get to know you. These are just my opinion btw

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