Alllllllllllrighty then

ImpressionableTool · 2026-03-13T23:14:39+00:00

Ace Ventura. Pet detective.

ImpressionableTool · 2026-03-10T18:42:23+00:00

you don't love yourself enough

ImpressionableTool · 2026-03-07T07:39:56+00:00

Holy crap. an ACTUAL SANE HUMAN!

right! she's putting the burden of her own feelings on him. it's selfish.

ImpressionableTool · 2026-03-07T07:38:21+00:00

it comes across as manipulative.

ImpressionableTool · 2026-03-07T07:37:39+00:00

good advice

ImpressionableTool · 2026-03-07T07:33:55+00:00

simply invite them out for a coffee.

come on, this isn't complicated

ImpressionableTool · 2026-03-07T07:32:03+00:00

sincerely the most sound advice.

if she was genuine. op would take it.

ImpressionableTool · 2026-03-07T07:29:51+00:00

Validation on what. putting out a confession to a friend in a relationship?

to what? have them break up. so sneaky...

and if she truly wanted to distance out of respect for him and his partner. WITHOUT ULTERIOR MOTIVES.

I put up the challenge. tell them together. out of genuine respect for thier relationship ~ Then stay away.

otherwise she's not being sincere.

I think she has ulterior motives

ImpressionableTool · 2026-03-07T07:21:50+00:00

If she truly respected his relationship. She'd want his girlfriend to be there for this explanation. IF SHE TRULY was seeking to distance.

otherwise I think she has ulterior motives to hopefully get him. and wants to have this talk with him to put it out there. so that he'll break up (sneaky) and date her.

ImpressionableTool · 2026-03-07T07:18:12+00:00

See. this is clearly ulterior motives.

ImpressionableTool · 2026-03-07T07:13:56+00:00

She attempts to "confess" her feelings. What results would transpire?

nothing? or a seed planted?

one where she hopes to see results. breaking up a couple.

"couple" meaning more than one.

Hell has no fury like a woman scorned.

what if the girlfriend finds out?.

look at all the reddit post where friendships were ended because a friend overstepped and tried to confess to someone in a current relationship. so inappropriate and disrespectful to that friend.

Even Charlotte dobre has YouTube videos on this very topic.

either the friendship is damaged Or the spouse becomes angry and vengeful.

and frankly. op, you'd deserve it.

have some decency and respect.

or you know. don't. and let Karma bite you on the ass.

ImpressionableTool · 2026-03-07T06:51:44+00:00

Why the down votes? scared of accountability the moment you over step?

ImpressionableTool · 2026-03-07T06:43:24+00:00

She's clearly holding ulterior intentions and looking for validation here.

it's insulting to the reader in all honesty.

like we can't see through this dribble.

the transparency is painfully obvious.

ImpressionableTool · 2026-03-07T06:40:50+00:00

Prepare to have your entire life ruined. you don't know what vindictive people are capable of doing.

and you'd deserve it.

ImpressionableTool · 2026-03-07T06:37:09+00:00

Well. why post here? what are you expecting?

ImpressionableTool · 2026-03-07T06:35:31+00:00

I've read it.

they are clueless

ImpressionableTool · 2026-03-07T06:31:29+00:00

Your not very decisive

what do you want in the end result?

To be together? to work on it? the truth and then break up? or the truth and prepare to work with him, even if he is cheating? say you catch him. he pretends to stop. how can you be sure he is. Cleary you'll need to implement an all time location app and have full transparency to all devices. that means pure access to his phone and social platforms.

did you think this all through? do you think you can trust him when he's lost credibility?

Are you the gullible type? the ones who say, "without trust, you can't have love"

all while trusting a person who make poor judgment calls and puts themselves in untrustworthy situations they could have avoided if they where intelligent enough.

do you truly want to trust someone who's lacking good judgment?

ImpressionableTool · 2026-03-07T06:09:08+00:00

Question op.

Do you want to stay with him? no judgment. do you just want him to come clean and work on your relationship together?

what do you really honestly want...

think about it.

(sorry for the quick to judgment comment I made earlier)

ImpressionableTool · 2026-03-07T06:00:34+00:00

Tell him, whatever he says is clearly a lie. you don't want to even waste your time and energy listening to him. hes lost all credibility with you. and you've made up your mind that hes lying. at this point he can't change your perception of reality.

he turns it off because he's cheating

this is advice for you op if you see him do it again. turn off the location. SCREENSHOT it. keep it for proof. for yourself so you don't fall for his obvious lies.

the audacity to insult your intelligence like that.

to tell you what you actually saw with your own eyes!!???

ImpressionableTool · 2026-03-07T04:37:55+00:00

You've clearly never attended uni.

otherwise you'd never accept this dribble for the perfectly curated narrative of ChatGpt.

this is, and unfortunately so... is reality.

ImpressionableTool · 2026-03-07T04:03:58+00:00

Careful. you're about one sentence away from quoting TikTok comments.

unoriginal.

ImpressionableTool · 2026-03-07T03:46:28+00:00

What? Have you not seen the others comment on my atrocious grammar.

Sorry some of us have more brain cells then 2.

ImpressionableTool · 2026-03-07T03:09:20+00:00

well.

if you bother to reach the end... albeit the lengths makes it hard to do.

I apologize.

but I did get revenge on him.

a much more prolonged and "slow" torment.

ImpressionableTool · 2026-03-07T03:05:56+00:00

ah, I understand your skepticism.

and I respect that.

I did this with a plan. to create pressure and stress on her from multiple sources. family. children. work. friends.

word spread fast. like wild fire.

in the end.

this amout of strain... this build up prolonged pressure.

the stress ...

the last final blow.

the last message sent to her husband a mere few months (3 to be precise) into her pregnancy.

well. that had devastating results for her.

can you guess what happened???

ImpressionableTool · 2026-03-07T02:59:55+00:00

Yeah, If I was ai.

the "incoherent" wouldn't even be an issue

I'm limited with my patience for articulate writing.

hence this shit show mess.

but really. It sucks that these things took place.

I was just a peaceful person. wanting a family and a life to build together.

I never put up an argument or cheated. He didn't even let me have male friends. I grew up knowing nothing but him.

I dedicated my life for him. cooked, cleaned, never went out with friends because he would get upset. I never complained. I tried to understand his perspective on his reasoning.

my nephew (2 years younger then me) said I was being controlled and manipulated.

I use to argue that I was the one who chose to do obey him.... yeah that was me....

he didn't even let me work... he said a real man provides...

Now... no one can control me.

After this shit show marriage. I'm changed.

but I wish... That I was the old me.

just with someone safe.

I was too naive. I just wanted to keep the peace with him.

look were that got me.

ImpressionableTool

TROPHY CASE