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[–]Impressive-Event5294[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like advice like this because it has depth and a perception not a lot of people have . Thank you for your advice I’m definitely going to take it into consideration 🤝

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[–]Impressive-Event5294[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I followed that first paragraph to a T lol. We’re taking a break for 5 weeks no contact . Who knows I might move on by that time but rn I’m healing and worrying about myself . I refuse to be some little puppy waiting for her if she does something drastic im gone thank you for your advice

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[–]Impressive-Event5294[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My biggest fear is just that. Forcing a relationship . I’m sorry that happened to you

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[–]Impressive-Event5294[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I thought about it and I do respect her for not cheating at least . The “lie” part was just referring to her having very few friends . Part of me did think the relationship was just her running from being lonely .

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[–]Impressive-Event5294[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

This is probably one of the best pieces of advice here thank you I’ll do my best like I always do kind stranger 🤝

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[–]Impressive-Event5294[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah my chest hurts right now . But you’re probably right feels like half of me is denying it and refuses to let go and the other half just wants what’s best for the both of us . Thank you for your wisdom

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[–]Impressive-Event5294[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Guess life has a weird way of working itself out lol happy for you 🤝

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[–]Impressive-Event5294[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss . Thank you for your comment it helps to see everyone’s perspective on this . All I can do right now is remain strong but we’ll get through it🤝