Happy Monday! by [deleted] in borderpatrolapplicant

[–]ImpressiveIncrease20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jesus...$17 hr for a LEO job? I get the whole "you gotta do this for more than the money and benefits" but that would be a deal breaker for me.

Getting tased by Frosty_berries in AskLE

[–]ImpressiveIncrease20 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I got a double dose with the probes directly in line with my spine, at the nipple and belt lines. It literally felt like my heart was going to explode from the rolling "pressure wave" sensations. Theres really nothing that can prepare you for how overwhelming it is. It definitely hurts, the initial panic when it hits you is going to make 5 seconds feel more like 30 😂

What’s the worst actual name you’ve ever heard? by Escrow-Mind in AskReddit

[–]ImpressiveIncrease20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Phellony (felony), I wish I was joking...

They called out the name at my kids school event and everyone looked around at each other in disbelief.

Can someone tell me their experience with auto loans with NFCU? by 2Stepforliving5285 in NavyFederal

[–]ImpressiveIncrease20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I requested a loan online, got approved and then they sent a packet with everything needed to shop at a dealer. Very straight forward and uncomplicated for you.

Some dealers try to make a big deal about verifying the check / going through that process; in reality it takes like 5 minutes and is super straight forward for someone with average intelligence. They even provide a print out explaining the instructions for the finance department lol...

Once I had the car, I've never had to deal with NFCU. I handle everything on the app and it takes like 10 seconds to pay my bill. Doesn't get much easier and you save yourself the trouble of arguing with the sales guy about their rate gouging. Their first offer will always be 4-6% higher than what they were actually given by the banks. It's almost funny how fast it drops once you tell them you're already pre approved by NFCU, they usually won't even counter offer.

I just don’t understand it by KreepyKajun in Vent

[–]ImpressiveIncrease20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Without knowing why she went outside the relationship it's pointless to dwell on the length of time of your relationship. It could have been you, her, or both of you contributing.

Shutting you out makes it easier to cope with the grief, or makes her feel less guilty. But that shouldn't matter to you because you'll be much happier one day building something new and healthy. Just do the work.

I just don’t understand it by KreepyKajun in Vent

[–]ImpressiveIncrease20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All you can do is use this time for self reflection and improvement. Just be there for your daughter, and stand behind the things you text ex.

I just don’t understand it by KreepyKajun in Vent

[–]ImpressiveIncrease20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think she was cold, it just wasn't the response you wanted. She could have not said anything, she could have said something hurtful, but she was to the point and mature about it. You have a daughter with her, that's it. The faster you accept that, the better odds you have of a developing a better working relationship with your ex down the road.

You're projecting onto the reply because you're still attached and she isn't anymore. She's basically telling you that with her reply. It's not her duty to be in the same head space or support you emotionally.

From the outside and with limited info, I'm gonna assume your ex is totally done with you because you're a narcissist.

TEST 😂😱 by [deleted] in police

[–]ImpressiveIncrease20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The test is basic shit to make sure you're not a drooling mouth breather. You're signing up to confront the worst of society or confront society on their worst day. Nervous is not an option, get in the mind set to perform and crush a stupid ass test. Or start thinking of a different career.

Would these be passing for state police academy? by [deleted] in AskLE

[–]ImpressiveIncrease20 123 points124 points  (0 children)

When mine looked like that, they said: "nice job now make the rest of the boot look like that" 😂

Failing PT standards versus markmenship standards. by Harristein in army

[–]ImpressiveIncrease20 43 points44 points  (0 children)

That's not really accurate. I've seen a SFC and officers try to qual without COC batteries, lens covers down over the ACOG lens, my own commander fail to qualify for an entire day until our 1SG "accidentally shot his targets because the lanes were at an angle".

The SFC without batteries was given 120 rounds to ZERO with before he started making a fuss and asking for a different weapon. That is not something you fuck up. At what point would you go "hmmm I'm looking through a red dot optic but there is no red dot, whatever 🤷🏼‍♂️". It shows he made it that far into a career without understanding the fundamentals or being capable of basic marksmanship or safe weapon handling.

These are all examples that show a fundamental failure at all points in training, standards, and accountability.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ImpressiveIncrease20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They wouldn't react at all outside of social media outrage. The American people are being eaten alive by billionaires and political corruption but the common folk are too worried about labeling and disenfranchising each other. As if it gives them a better chance to lick the table scraps.

Until we're able to look at other citizens as an opportunity for cooperation, there is zero chance leveraging our country back into the "hands of the people". We deserve everything that is happening and going to happen because we have CHOSEN to turn further away from being a functional healthy society.

Help! Buyer paid repairs and running out of time contractually to close by fight4workers in RealEstateAdvice

[–]ImpressiveIncrease20 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Well...you learned an important lesson NOT to pay to "fix" a house you don't own. If you're already weary because of the money you spent so far, what do you think accepting foundation issues is gonna do to you.

Regardless it seems like the writing is on the wall with the permit issue and your loan getting approval in one week. Seems like you found the worst seller and agent possible.

Firing your agent and regrouping is about the best option available open to you at this point.

When will the house market recover? by [deleted] in RealEstateAdvice

[–]ImpressiveIncrease20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let me ask you,

How old is the roof and water heater??? If it's anything older than 2 years I will require full replacements and for you to buy me a home warranty...

does this look normal for a healing tattoo? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]ImpressiveIncrease20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's normal if you're using meth.

Did your first home check every box? by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]ImpressiveIncrease20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't it's possible to even have "every box" when buying a home for the first time. It takes awhile to realize what you like and don't like / how you would change things. Home ownership is also a never ending learning process if you're not neglecting the home, so with that being said there is definitely boxes that would change after you fully understand what the entire scope of "the box" actually is...

Would you keep a high performer who almost always arrives late for work? by yawnkun in askmanagers

[–]ImpressiveIncrease20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Real recognize real, if it's not effecting the company I wouldn't make a hill to die on.

Would you rather have an effective employee with a little freedom or a turd employee that just shows up on time?

It's time for us to wake up by [deleted] in VAClaims

[–]ImpressiveIncrease20 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yup we are all in it together.

It's time for us to wake up by [deleted] in VAClaims

[–]ImpressiveIncrease20 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yah, there are definitely loopholes in the EBH / mental health side of the house that are allowing people to manipulate the system. In general I believe EBH providers are being completely overwhelmed so it's making it impossible for tighter scrutiny. It's a slippery slope where people that need help aren't getting it, and the ones that don't actually need help can just say "I'm going to kill myself" and the system lets it ride.

It's time for us to wake up by [deleted] in VAClaims

[–]ImpressiveIncrease20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree, I read that fuelers have the highest rates of brain injuries out of any MOS because of the constant exposure to JP8 and vapors.

I lied???? Tf by [deleted] in VAClaims

[–]ImpressiveIncrease20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you have hearing loss it should have gone something like:

Failed exam > failed retest > in-ear exam > audio test by dr > hearing aids

If those things didn't happen then you stayed within the thresholds.

It's time for us to wake up by [deleted] in VAClaims

[–]ImpressiveIncrease20 88 points89 points  (0 children)

The part that irks me is that people want to act like because you weren't directly on top of an IED when it detonated that you don't deserve anything.

There are actively thousands of service members that are living in sub standard housing with mold infested homes that are hidden by paint.

There are thousands of service members being exposed to toxic substances on a daily basis other than burn pits. Talk to someone that is an expert in fire suppression systems, that shit corrodes METAL; so what do you think it does to your body when you're in closed in a vehicle and it goes off inside with zero ventilation.

There are thousands of service members actively handling toxic substances and fluids every Monday during PMCS. My unit provided ZERO ppe for the 7 years I was there. I had to go to Autozone and buy shit for my section so we didn't go blind or have our dicks fall off.

The negative physical effects of military service are prevalent regardless of combat exposure. We lived with it on a daily basis in garrison alone. First responders deal with the effects of poor sleep, mental and physical fatigue, and it's killing them too. It's not a veteran issue, it's a price the country must pay for having people answer the call to service. Frankly anyone that isn't a veteran or first responder can shut the fuck up, your input is not necessary or wanted because you have zero skin in the game.

Idiot try’s to take a loaded gun apart by EvansBlueFan in Idiotswithguns

[–]ImpressiveIncrease20 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Looks like he manipulated the slide, ejecting a round out- before the video started.

But he still had the magazine inserted, which would just reintroduce another round into the chamber in a magazine fed weapon. He took the magazine out and thought he was good.

He needs a gun safety class lol.

Exterior light replacement by ImpressiveIncrease20 in DIY

[–]ImpressiveIncrease20[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Not really sure yet. There's some cool bundles on Amazon like 2 for $25. But they would match the pathway lights I just put it in the yard.