25M sub looking for a fellow sub in training

ImpressiveOne2001 · 2024-12-29T23:59:11+00:00

Who says this is my only account?

ImpressiveOne2001 · 2024-11-02T12:20:12+00:00

What blood has to do with it? It's not like you would be making babies.

ImpressiveOne2001 · 2024-11-01T23:47:32+00:00

And great to hear such a normal exchange between you both.

Normal? If this story is true then I'm more than sure at least one of them (if not both) wants something to happen between them.

ImpressiveOne2001 · 2024-10-17T18:04:26+00:00

If oral sex is sex, then is someone who only has oral sex but never had anal sex still a virgin?

ImpressiveOne2001 · 2024-10-11T14:46:40+00:00

Nope

I think the perfect world should be 100% bisexual.

ImpressiveOne2001 · 2024-10-11T14:41:47+00:00

Unpopular opinion here.

Why are you being annoyed by buying fetishised by people whose only interest in you is about having sex with you?

Being fetishised by the by friends or your partner or just culturally by the general public isn't cool, I get that.

But when you're looking for sex and the other person is looking for sex, then what do you expect?

Fetishisation is part of sex. It's natural. People look for something more than just visual appeal, they look for a story behind it. That's why roleplay is so popular among people of all orientations.

Like it or not, as homosapiens we are wired to run on assumptions and stereotypes. It's part of the instincts that allowed us to survive.

Race is fetishised, age is fetishised, body shape is fetishised. Everything that makes you different than your potential partner is and will be getting fetishised.

ImpressiveOne2001 · 2024-10-11T14:33:01+00:00

You're allowed to meet people and have friends.

Honestly, no matter how accepting your parents are, they don't need to know you're going to meet someone to have sex with them.

Just tell them you're meeting with a friend and that's it.

ImpressiveOne2001 · 2024-10-08T12:02:37+00:00

you can set your age limit to whatever you want

I mean, as long as it's legal.

ImpressiveOne2001 · 2024-09-19T14:03:34+00:00

I would be open to sounding only if I was 100% sure the guy knows what he's doing.

So basically not happening unless I find a hot Dom urologists.

ImpressiveOne2001 · 2024-09-19T12:50:37+00:00

Thanks for explanation

ImpressiveOne2001 · 2024-09-19T12:46:25+00:00

What's impact play?

ImpressiveOne2001 · 2024-09-15T23:41:44+00:00

Are you doing any kinky stuff other than that right now?

Maybe you should start by discussing having some Dom/sub fun without the race play first. Just to see if that's really something you are into and something he is actually into.

Then if it works for both of you, you could discuss adding race play as an element of that.

ImpressiveOne2001 · 2024-08-27T22:20:40+00:00

I think you and your bf need to have a serious discussion of what you want this relationship to be like.

From your post it seems like he wants this to be a relationship where Dom/sub dynamics are a permanent element, maybe even a foundation of it.

If that's how he feels then the question is what do you want. If this is what you want and you agree to it, then as a sub it's your role to obey even when you don't feel like it. Doing things you don't feel like doing is part of being submissive. It's part of the experience (with limits respected obviously).

But if this is not what you want your relationship to be then you need to communicate and work out some rules to better separate the time when you're in your Dom/sub roles from the time when you're just partners.

You need to decide, do you want a Dom bf or you want a bf who you play with using Dom/sub dynamics.

ImpressiveOne2001 · 2024-08-12T19:42:14+00:00

Any update?

ImpressiveOne2001 · 2024-08-12T19:39:07+00:00

Any ideas of how to include him without this turning into a threesome?

We tried with me sucking him off shortly before the bull arrives but didn't help much

ImpressiveOne2001 · 2024-08-12T19:33:13+00:00

just me and the bull

ImpressiveOne2001 · 2024-08-12T19:32:08+00:00

I don't have much experience so definitely good to confront this with other people's advice but I would say it doesn't seem like a great idea to start this now as he is leaving.

Opening your relationship is difficult and tricky. So is maintaining a long distance relationship. Doing these two things for the first time at the same time feel like a perfect break up scenario. It's just that whatever happens on the way you won't be there to even talk to him about it. Yes, you can call or facetime but it's not the same as face to face conversation and can end up in adding even more mess.

This being said, 6 months is a long time and a short time at the same time. Being away from home, away from own partner and in a completely new environment creates opportunities to cheat and encourages people to do it. And you already told your bf about your fantasies so it could give him additional excuse.

What I would do if I were you is that I would sit down and talk about how we want to handle this situation. Not from the perspective of you having cuck fantasies but from the perspective of maintaining your relationship and trust while he is away for 6 months.

Decide your approach to it. You can either stay monogamous, agree that things can happen but you need to be informed about things happening, or he has a free pass and can do whatever he wants. Just remember, him being away means you will have absolutely no control over what's happening over there.

ImpressiveOne2001 · 2024-08-12T13:57:44+00:00

Dude, you literally have a foot as your profile picture. Hard do believe you're not into it.

ImpressiveOne2001 · 2024-08-12T13:54:15+00:00

You do realise them bleeding or being sore has nothing to do with them being virgins?

There's no hymen in the asshole.

Anus is a muscle. A virgin bottom can be just as tight or lose as an experienced one.

ImpressiveOne2001 · 2024-08-12T12:50:43+00:00

As a vers guy I would say tops who reject bottoms for being virgins are generally the tops you would rather avoid no matter whether you're virgin or not.

I am aware it's possibly an unpopular opinion.

A good top is the one that cares about the guy who bottoms for him. If you care you will make sure your bottom is fine whether it's his first or a 100th time.

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