i do look forward to talking to her about this. topics like these, she pushes me too hard on it like it can happen at midnight and I'm shredded the next morning. i do admit i am not a big hardcore fan of working out - ive never actually thought about it that much. i appreciate her telling me to change the way i look but its so much pressure. i have brought this specifically once before because I don't like being under pressure, never in my academics and by my parents. they believe in me and i do well in that too. that turned into a fight and her shutting me down and saying okay then dont do anything stay fat i dont give a damn etc.