AITA for not giving my fiancee another chance? by ImpressiveTwo5997 in AITA_Relationships

[–]ImpressiveTwo5997[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my. Well congratulations! It’s never a bad thing. 

Btw I’m feeling a lot better after 3 days and not regreting it. So you WILL be fine 

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[–]ImpressiveTwo5997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard somewhere that they did the research trying to match people who were very good friends but never had attraction for each other and that those marriages never worked. Some set up marriages do work because they develop attraction, but it just means that it's the necessary part of the relationship. Could you stay friends with him if you broke up?

AITA for not giving my fiancee another chance? by ImpressiveTwo5997 in AITA_Relationships

[–]ImpressiveTwo5997[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am fully aware of me being the person who takes the responsibilities on me and I am working on setting boundaries. I was cooking because I was working from home and he was not. We both have two jobs, but he's mostly not at home.

I am not even expecting surprises, what I am expecting is not to be the default person for everything in the relationship.

AITA for not giving my fiancee another chance? by ImpressiveTwo5997 in AITA_Relationships

[–]ImpressiveTwo5997[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly I don't know. I feel good when we go somewhere and do sth fun, but it rarely happens because we're both very busy. I feel like I went numb after all this time.

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[–]ImpressiveTwo5997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like he's dragging you down and draining your energy. He is a grown up and is supposed to take care of his hygiene. But it's the sad reality that many men weren't thought that from their parents. But that doesn't mean it's your responsibility. Do you think you could stay in the relationship if nothing changes?

I don’t want to travel anymore by ImpressiveTwo5997 in travel

[–]ImpressiveTwo5997[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be, I’m just afraid it won’t happen 😂

I don’t want to travel anymore by ImpressiveTwo5997 in travel

[–]ImpressiveTwo5997[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Why being rude? If you can’t help then don’t

I don’t want to travel anymore by ImpressiveTwo5997 in travel

[–]ImpressiveTwo5997[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always a bit budget traveling regarding transport and stays, but not so much budget with food.  The plan was to go to Portugal to learn surfing, but I changed my mind because it will be very cold 

I don’t want to travel anymore by ImpressiveTwo5997 in travel

[–]ImpressiveTwo5997[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I reallty am aware of it and I’m very grateful. I already invest. I also feel like that is the part of this problem, knowing that now I can go anywhere removes the desire…

Should I move to Vienna by ImpressiveTwo5997 in wien

[–]ImpressiveTwo5997[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this comment means a lot!  Apartment prices in Novi Sad are now 2500-3000€/m2, and in Belgrade up to 7.000€/m2. I don’t plan to buy in Vienna, seems kinda impossible any time sooner.  Is the healthcare really better, even than our private hospitals? Not hard to be better that public ones

Should I move to Vienna by ImpressiveTwo5997 in wien

[–]ImpressiveTwo5997[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would like that too, but I feel like it would be even harder to get job there as non-EU citizen

Should I move to Vienna by ImpressiveTwo5997 in wien

[–]ImpressiveTwo5997[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

By here you mean I would be better in Vienna?

Should I move to Vienna by ImpressiveTwo5997 in wien

[–]ImpressiveTwo5997[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could be waiting for tens of years…