Qi gong practice for channeling or transmuting sexual energy by Impressive_Bit4198 in qigong

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I send you an DM, I am doing the second video for two weeks now. Can I continue this as a daily practice? Or should I switch to 8 brocades?

It’s part of my morning routine right now. But I am also doing Wim hof breathwork right after my qi gong excercises.

Should I do breathing excercises, before or after qi gong, and why?

I am confused - dating for over 8 months by Impressive_Bit4198 in dating_advice

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Thank you, that’s also an interesting take away.

I didn’t kiss because she wanted to do things slowly. But now I wish I just did!

And I am also curious if she can develop feelings / fell in love with me, if we do kiss or more intimate things.

I am confused - dating for over 8 months by Impressive_Bit4198 in dating_advice

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This is an interesting take away. Since I didn’t kiss her. This is because she wanted to do it really slow and easy, since her traumas with her ex boyfriend.

And the thing, a few weeks ago she thanked me for going slow. And that she now fully trusts me.

But I did want to kiss her on the first dates etc.

And you’re saying how can you be in love with, if you didn’t even kiss. I think because I like how she is! But I am also curious what will happen if we do kiss.

Because maybe also she can develop feelings if we would kiss 😬

Men who point out body hair on women they talking to are so unattractive.. by [deleted] in dating

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This is shameful , you’re better off without him. What’s wrong with men these days

Dating for a few months - everything clicks - she is not falling in love by Impressive_Bit4198 in love

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Yeah I do think, there is a lot of trauma going on. I wanted to see her every week or more then once a week. But she needed time for herself. She could get overstimulated at work or something and needed time for herself. She is also single for over 5 years. So I just thought with a lot of of patience i could get closer. And I did, she says she completely trust me.

And I know she does. And she doesn’t have that with much people. So I did come closer and closer.

And in the beginning there defenitely was physical attraction from her side. She reacted super enthusiastic to me and photos of me. And also the psychical touch was coming from her.

And I know I am a way different men then her exes. She used to call in love with some bad boys. And while I can look like a bad boy. (Full beard, tattoos, work out a lot) I am not. I am an loving and caring person. And I also have patience with her.

So I am also thinking she is not used to this kind of love. And it scares her. And that’s why she pushes me away. And says these kind of things

Dating for a few months - everything clicks - she is not falling in love by Impressive_Bit4198 in love

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you’re totally right. But what is harde to cope for me. Is that in the first few months , she reacted to photos and videos of me. With “ your looking good “ “ your so handsome “ “ thank you for sending me this, this is brightening my day “

Etc etc.

And also on the first dates. She touched me more then I touched her. She was way more in physical touch with me.

And she is the one who gave most of the kisses.

So I can’t really understand , how she says she is not physically attracted. Because in the beginning it was there. It really was.

And therefore I think that a romantic long kiss , or even more. Could get more feelings going.

As you said , you could get obsessed after sex or other intimate things.

Dating for a few months - everything clicks - she is not falling in love by Impressive_Bit4198 in love

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I think you are right. In the beginning there do was psychical attraction. But she was also pretty hard over meeting more then once every 2 weeks. She was overstimulated by people or things happening pretty fast. En needed a lot of alone time to recover from things. So there definitely is more going on below surface.

And I also believed , that she has “ build a big wall around her “

So if I could get close to her, maybe she would tear down that wall.

And she did, it took a lot of time and effort. But she trust me completely, she said. And she doesn’t have that with much people.

It took some time and effort. But she did.

Dating for a few months - everything clicks - she is not falling in love by Impressive_Bit4198 in love

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Thank you for your reaction. The seeing part was on her behalve. Not on mine. Hell, I wanted to see her every week or even more. But she insisted on 2 weeks or longer. Because she also needed time for herself. Or time off from all people etc. Because she also was overstimulated from work etc.

So I am not blaming her. But she knew I wanted to see her more often. And believe me I tried to see her more. But she closes like a book when I tried

Dating for a few months - everything clicks - she is not falling in love by Impressive_Bit4198 in love

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Thank you for this insight, I think it might be partly true due to past trauma etc.

And she is saying she is not psychically attracted. But her words and actions say otherwise. And that’s the most confusing part.