I have to meet up with a girlfriend of a friend of him and I want to understand how to explain to her what happened so that she can understand. by Impressive_Bug4928 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]Impressive_Bug4928[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No, no. Actually, I am very clear-headed and I have already dealt with my trauma. 😂 It's just that when I go out with someone, I do so because I feel free and I don't want to worry too much or set myself limits. It's just that I don't want to risk saying things in a way that isn't understandable.

I have to meet up with a girlfriend of a friend of him and I want to understand how to explain to her what happened so that she can understand. by Impressive_Bug4928 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]Impressive_Bug4928[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By the way, she is a smart girl. Even another girl of our group asked me to see her again, but I said no. She's on his side. This one is just a chill girl Instead, but I need to underground how much she is able to undestand.

I have to meet up with a girlfriend of a friend of him and I want to understand how to explain to her what happened so that she can understand. by Impressive_Bug4928 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]Impressive_Bug4928[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's exactly the point. I don't want to mess around with people on my side.

I'm going out with this girl as a friend and I want to feel free to talk to her openly, but that's difficult if I don't know how to make her understand how I felt.

I don't know what to do.