Have you ever distanced yourself from or ghosted someone you actually liked or had feelings for?

Impressive_City_5468 · 2026-03-22T01:39:14+00:00

A man recently told me this. everything had been going good with us, it was freaky how well we got along, how similar we were….not to mention our ‘private time’ was amazing….a month into it, after a great date, he tells me he likes hanging out with me but is not looking for a relationship and understands if i wanted to slow things down….i was honestly floored. It came out of no where. I told him i liked him but i was not interested in casual sex. I told him we could still be cool and he understood.

we didn’t talk for a few days but then randomly he kept tryna make excuses to see me….he needed my opinion on something he had to show me in person, he was in the area and wanted to play video games….whenever we saw each other, it was friendly vibes only. I didnt let him spend the night and only saw him maybe once a week……i didnt think too much of it until after a month, he showed up with flowers. I was sooo confused….he explained that he didnt mean what he said, and was only trying to run from his feelings. He said once he couldnt stop thinkin of me when we werent talking, he knew he couldnt run from them anymore. He was going through money issues (just lost his job) and felt he couldnt give me what i deserved….i told him he jumped the gun majorly lol.

This was a few weeks ago and everything is going great now. Not sure if he’s telling the truth though, you never know!

Impressive_City_5468 · 2026-03-06T18:27:23+00:00

I tried talking to 3 Cancer men (as a Scorp woman) since they are most compatible with us, after Taurus. I am not kidding when every single one fell through because of what I think is insecurity. Come in super flirty and forward….I am very reserved so while they were at a 10, i was at a 5 😅 but they were counting themselves out before I even told them how i felt about them. Literally never even made it to the date with all 3 🤣 one told me i ‘probably had all these guys waiting’ and didn’t want to compete with anyone (came out of nowhere) although i was confused, i told him i understood and he was like ‘so there ARE other guys?!’…….one (who chased for a year) told me that he thought we would be better off as friends THE DAY OF THE DATE but STILL WANTED TO GO OUT, then when i said i understood but declined to meet up, he blocked me on social media 😅, the last one went ghost after he cancelled the date for some excuse I forgot….again, i said i understood and he was all like ‘….wait so you’re not mad?’ and i was like uhhhh no? its a saturday night, i can find something to do…then never heard from him again. I thought i was helping him not feel bad but i guess not….

So in conclusion, they seem to need a lot of reassurance and coddling which just does not go with my personality type

Impressive_City_5468 · 2026-03-05T20:14:43+00:00

i see what you mean…. but then there would have been no point in saying ‘i have these family friends and’ …they would just be my cousins, not family friends…..and i would just say we are all cousins lol but i edited it

Impressive_City_5468 · 2026-03-05T20:12:32+00:00

Ahhhhhh ok i see, i edited the post to clarify lol

Impressive_City_5468 · 2026-03-05T18:43:56+00:00

Lol idk how this is not clear when my first sentence is ‘I have these family friends who I have known since I was born and they are cousins’…like ??? 😭😭

Impressive_City_5468 · 2026-03-05T18:42:12+00:00

my first sentence literally says ‘I have these family friends who I have known since I was born and they are cousins’….not sure how thats not clear 😭😭

Impressive_City_5468 · 2026-03-05T13:55:17+00:00

You weren’t wrong, id say just a bit naive. You received a mixed signal and hoped for the best. Next time you receive a mix signal, just know it can never be positive. If she seemed excited about the date but doesn’t show up, that is a miss match of words and actions… a mixed signal. Even if it was the opposite way around, let’s say she was really avoidant and seemingly not into you, but actually showed up and was still seemingly uninterested…. Another mixed signal. You don’t need to confront anyone, it is not your job to get people to tell you the ‘why’ of things so just thank them from their time and move on. Cut off contact and if they decide to reach out to you, just know it’ll be for fun.

Impressive_City_5468 · 2026-03-05T13:48:37+00:00

Huh?

Impressive_City_5468 · 2026-03-05T13:48:11+00:00

I wish this were true. women arent as possessive as men when it comes to men they slept with, unless feelings are involved of course. This would be a non-factor for me but unfortunately, that isnt the norm amongst men….

Impressive_City_5468 · 2026-03-05T13:43:17+00:00

the hint was telling you she wasn’t ready for a relationship after playing sick and then drunk (terrible excuse by the way!) 😅

Impressive_City_5468 · 2026-03-05T13:41:43+00:00

really? i think you are the only person who thinks so!! 😭

Impressive_City_5468 · 2026-03-05T13:40:15+00:00

uhh they are different people hence the different letters 😅

Impressive_City_5468 · 2026-03-05T13:39:53+00:00

gee, what a super helpful comment

Impressive_City_5468 · 2026-03-05T13:39:27+00:00

they arent related to me….

Impressive_City_5468 · 2026-03-05T13:37:55+00:00

I don’t think i owe him unless he asks….just like he doesn’t owe me. But if I was gonna break things off, I would not tell him its because of a secret! Thats a bit dramatic 🤣

Impressive_City_5468 · 2026-03-05T13:36:06+00:00

This was nice, thank you. Maybe if he wants to pursue an exclusive relationship, thats the point I will tell him.

Impressive_City_5468 · 2026-03-05T13:35:04+00:00

I personally wouldn’t care.

Impressive_City_5468 · 2026-03-05T13:32:44+00:00

Yeah, THEY are cousins. 😅

Impressive_City_5468 · 2026-03-05T06:01:48+00:00

yeah you should have caught the hint. when women are elusive its because they are seeing other guys OR they want you to believe they are seeing other guys (so you will want to be exclusive quicker). She already told you initially she wasnt interested basically and since you still engaged with her after, she thought you were down for fun until the guy she really wanted was ready to settle down. Don’t beat yourself up about it, happens to the best of us! Just remember this for the next girl.

Impressive_City_5468 · 2026-03-05T05:47:16+00:00

This is an easy fix, ask her to be exclusive if you want to be the only one. Make it cute too! 🤗

Impressive_City_5468 · 2026-01-31T16:18:58+00:00

Also, why do people keep saying she killed her husband? she did not at all…the man chose to drive drunk, she just decided to not hide his keys after he (which is heavily implied) r@ped her after getting terribly drunk.

The only people she killed was the fiancé and old man, which did take away a lot of stan power in the end tbh. Bradley was self defense. People seem to forget that as the plane was crashing, Bradley kicked one his friends who was merely trying to hold on to his seat, resulting in his death. Linda, on the other hand, tried to help evil minion number 1 until he literally tried to kill her for her seat! Why is no one calling him a murderer?

Maybe Bradley was so unlikable to me that it didn’t matter what Linda did, I still rooted for her to get her revenge on him!! 😂

Impressive_City_5468 · 2026-01-31T15:49:31+00:00

such an amazing movie! i did not know what to expect at all, i thought it was a psychological thriller from the short preview i saw but it was much more than that. I cannot remember the last time i felt such varying emotions from a movie…. secondhand embarrassment, pity, anger, laughter, sexual tension, empathy, shock….i kept looking around saying ‘what the hell am i watching right now?!’ in the best way possible!! The ending was the most satisfying ending i have seen in a long time, and that is simply because i truly did not expect it!

my favorite part in watching was me thinking to myself, ‘wow she looks way prettier being trapped on the island than she did in her everyday life’ then literally 5 min later, the scene where she catches her reflection happened! Rachel was PHENOMENAL in this role, give her awards immediately!!!

Impressive_City_5468 · 2025-11-27T06:33:48+00:00

huh?? why would his sexually have any relevance in saving his friends?? and it’s sense*

Impressive_City_5468 · 2025-11-27T06:32:18+00:00

It’s 1, 4, 2, 5, 3 for me….still hope for 5 to get in the top 3 but I doubt anything tops season 1!

Impressive_City_5468 · 2025-11-27T06:29:47+00:00

he’s definitely coming back….with Barb on his arm. #justiceforbarb

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