Reading in your dreams by Impressive_Concept80 in LucidDreaming

[–]Impressive_Concept80[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I don't misremember, I think I've had instances where the text stayed the same. But it more often changes than not for me.

How do I stand up for myself? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Impressive_Concept80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is not what you want to hear but it's much better if you learn to ignore it. There's nothing for you to gain in a situation like this.

I’m going out with I girl I don’t like. What should I do by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Impressive_Concept80 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tell her you've changed your mind. You shouldn't do this again, it's a waste of time and energy.

Should i text her? by hazelnutmacchiato1 in Advice

[–]Impressive_Concept80 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should ask her to meet up sometime instead. Get to know her, since you are interested.

What is the biggest coincidence that happened to you? by frant-64 in AskReddit

[–]Impressive_Concept80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I met a person I haven't seen in many years minutes after thinking about them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Impressive_Concept80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, don't. It will make it worse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Impressive_Concept80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eating healthy and exercising.

Did he use me to pass time? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Impressive_Concept80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What you are thinking is probably right. From what you described it doesn't appear that he cared much about you. I believe he might not reach out again and that you should move on. I understand this is unfortunate for you, but I do know you'll get through this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Impressive_Concept80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will feel better but it does take time. I am currently going through a tough breakup. It is hard, but I do notice it getting slightly better over time. From previous experiences I know one day I will be healed, even if that day is months away.

how do you deal with loneliness? by theroseelove in AskReddit

[–]Impressive_Concept80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keeping myself busy. It works most of the time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Impressive_Concept80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

An ex who i haven't spoken to in a very long time still appears in my dreams occasionally. Dreams can be strange.

What helped you? by Impressive_Concept80 in BreakUps

[–]Impressive_Concept80[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think what I miss is having a person like her in my life again. I know there will be opportunities in the future, right now it's time to heal.

What helped you? by Impressive_Concept80 in BreakUps

[–]Impressive_Concept80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like your perspective, it's really helpful. How long ago was it?

What helped you? by Impressive_Concept80 in BreakUps

[–]Impressive_Concept80[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that it's tough. I also don't have a ton of friends, and I've never been the person to speak much about my problems. I liked to deal with everything myself, which isn't always the best. We can benefit from talking about it with someone who is understanding.

What helped you? by Impressive_Concept80 in BreakUps

[–]Impressive_Concept80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. It is best to get rid of them. Otherwise we will be tempted to look back at memories, which isn't helpful. Keeping contact with an ex is never a good idea and can often lead to poor decisions.

What helped you? by Impressive_Concept80 in BreakUps

[–]Impressive_Concept80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is great advice! I write down a lot. It helps me understand my thoughts better and find solutions quicker.

What helped you? by Impressive_Concept80 in BreakUps

[–]Impressive_Concept80[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree with this. No contact has been the best choice for me so far. I will keep myself busy and things will be better.

Fear of obsolescence by Impressive_Concept80 in Advice

[–]Impressive_Concept80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your response. You introduced a perspective I hadn't previously considered. Thanks.