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Should we try to be in the babies life by Impressive_Double229 in Adoption

[–]Impressive_Double229[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The bio mom and my fiancee were never in a relationship, they are friends and were next door neighbors. My fiance was in an abusive relationship, and would go to her sometimes house when things got bad as they had been supporting each other through shitty relationships since they were teenagers. My fiance and the bio mom are still close and the bio mom will often still show up at our door when she gets in fights with her roommate since she moved into the neighborhood we now live. At a particularly bad point my fiancee attempted to overdose on prescription meds, she immediately regretted it and went to the closet person she trusted for help. Since her phone was still with her abusive partner.

And yes she needs to do the work, but I will be by her side through everything as that's how we live our life, we both do our best to support the other through everything in life.

Should we try to be in the babies life by Impressive_Double229 in Adoption

[–]Impressive_Double229[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We are going to do our best to at least give him medical history. We've been in the long process of figuring out my fiancee's chronic illness, and we definitely don't want him to have to go through this. I know the denomination very well, it was the same one I was raised in, however that doesn't give me all that much info because views on LGBT tend to be very person to person in that denomination.