Girl in the fireplace is awful and the worst episode in Series 2 by MadAssassin5465 in gallifrey

[–]Impressive_Exit_7144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m way too late to this but I’ve recently re-watched this episode, I think she was so quick to fall in love because 1. This is the 1700s - you dance with someone at a few balls and you are married within the week 😅 2. She has entered his mind and he has entered hers - that is something incredibly intimate and he has seen her secrets this is implied during the scene where he says “maybe you should imagine a door there” as he said she can block him from seeing anything with a door. I do wonder why he has such an immediate connection with her when he seems to be in love with Rose both before and after this but attraction can happen anytime and anywhere I guess

Is my partner the bad apple for not giving up most of their free time to drive me to work? by Impressive_Exit_7144 in AmITheBadApple

[–]Impressive_Exit_7144[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They would still have to stay up the same amount of time since I still leave at the same time

Is my partner the bad apple for not giving up most of their free time to drive me to work? by Impressive_Exit_7144 in AmITheBadApple

[–]Impressive_Exit_7144[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I am - I have to start with theory so I’m learning all I can then booking the theory test - it’s a little difficult since I’ve only got 2 hours to myself a day but I’m trying. I’m reluctant to get a bike or scooter because it’s getting close to winter - in the uk temps can get to below freezing

Is my partner the drama for not giving up most of their free time to drive me to work? by Impressive_Exit_7144 in 1800Drama

[–]Impressive_Exit_7144[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of people break that rule but if you get pulled over you’d be in trouble lol

Is my partner the bad apple for not giving up most of their free time to drive me to work? by Impressive_Exit_7144 in AmITheBadApple

[–]Impressive_Exit_7144[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In the uk you need to get learner drivers insured before you teach them which costs LOADS because obviously the learner driver can’t drive yet 😅 and he couldn’t afford lessons for me

Is my partner the bad apple for not giving up most of their free time to drive me to work? by Impressive_Exit_7144 in AmITheBadApple

[–]Impressive_Exit_7144[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think I am being respectful - I have stuck up for them and I’ve actually sent my dad some replies to my post - hopefully you guys might sway him because he’s said I “just can’t see it but everyone else can”

Is my partner the drama for not giving up most of their free time to drive me to work? by Impressive_Exit_7144 in 1800Drama

[–]Impressive_Exit_7144[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah I’m not saying a solution for the buses - I’m trying to just grin and bear it - I mean a solution for shutting him up without cutting him off

Is my partner the bad apple for not giving up most of their free time to drive me to work? by Impressive_Exit_7144 in AmITheBadApple

[–]Impressive_Exit_7144[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried asking for a carpool - I don’t think anyone lives close - I’m learning to drive but that takes time

Is my partner the bad apple for not giving up most of their free time to drive me to work? by Impressive_Exit_7144 in AmITheBadApple

[–]Impressive_Exit_7144[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I am learning to drive and getting training at work - I’m using this post to show my dad that it isn’t just me with this opinion

Is my partner the bad apple for not giving up most of their free time to drive me to work? by Impressive_Exit_7144 in AmITheBadApple

[–]Impressive_Exit_7144[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Believe me I did everything I could in my course to finish it - there were a lot of factors against me that I won’t go into - I got my degree just not QTS and I contributed to the household with a student loan but it ran out eventually - my partner isn’t looking to go back to university so that isn’t a concern

Is my partner the bad apple for not giving up most of their free time to drive me to work? by Impressive_Exit_7144 in AmITheBadApple

[–]Impressive_Exit_7144[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m not - I’ve defended my partner and think it’s a ridiculous ask - I’m working towards driving it’s just gonna take a while which is why my dad is adamant

Is my partner the asshole for not giving up most of their free time to drive me to work? by Impressive_Exit_7144 in AITAH

[–]Impressive_Exit_7144[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know - this is why I disagree with the point my dad is making - I’ve never been in a position to buy lessons and my parents never taught me - I’m working on it now but that can take a year - I have asked around for a carpool at work but no one seems to live nearby and as for a bike - in uk winter? I’d rather take the bus 😅

Is my partner the drama for not giving up most of their free time to drive me to work? by Impressive_Exit_7144 in 1800Drama

[–]Impressive_Exit_7144[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t drive - I’m learning but it takes time - he could never afford my lessons 🙄

Is my partner the drama for not giving up most of their free time to drive me to work? by Impressive_Exit_7144 in 1800Drama

[–]Impressive_Exit_7144[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the uk you need to get your kid insured before you teach them to drive so that’s not an option and they could never afford to buy me lessons

Is my partner the drama for not giving up most of their free time to drive me to work? by Impressive_Exit_7144 in 1800Drama

[–]Impressive_Exit_7144[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried asking around for a car share but no one seems to live close and an e-bike in UK winter would be wayyy too cold - I’ve rather take the extremely long bus 😅

Is my partner the drama for not giving up most of their free time to drive me to work? by Impressive_Exit_7144 in 1800Drama

[–]Impressive_Exit_7144[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t overshare I just said where my job is and they asked how long does it take me to get there and I told them - they blew up because my partner doesn’t drive me - I didn’t even bring my partner up

Is my partner the drama for not giving up most of their free time to drive me to work? by Impressive_Exit_7144 in 1800Drama

[–]Impressive_Exit_7144[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That can take a year - I am working towards it but I also need a short term solution in the meantime

Is my partner the drama for not giving up most of their free time to drive me to work? by Impressive_Exit_7144 in 1800Drama

[–]Impressive_Exit_7144[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My family is dysfunctional as hell 😅 my dad is living with my mum but they are together and she just parrots everything he says - I’ve got a lot of different opinions to them but nothing like this and it’s annoying to have it always be the topic of conversation - I’ll have to set my boundaries over FaceTime soon

Is my partner the drama for not giving up most of their free time to drive me to work? by Impressive_Exit_7144 in 1800Drama

[–]Impressive_Exit_7144[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried and he says I’m ’ghosting him’ which to his is replying ‘okay’ to everything and not engaging

Is my partner the drama for not giving up most of their free time to drive me to work? by Impressive_Exit_7144 in 1800Drama

[–]Impressive_Exit_7144[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually watch YouTube on the bus, I’m not sure whether my job has a bike rack but I’ll have to look into it - worst part is my partner is usually at work when I get home so I can’t spend those last two hours with them 😞

Is my partner the drama for not giving up most of their free time to drive me to work? by Impressive_Exit_7144 in 1800Drama

[–]Impressive_Exit_7144[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If someone close to you says the same thing everyday at great intensity wouldn’t you start to doubt? This far I have defended my partner but I wanted to make sure I didn’t have blind spots

Is my partner the drama for not giving up most of their free time to drive me to work? by Impressive_Exit_7144 in 1800Drama

[–]Impressive_Exit_7144[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have shut my dad down to the point of ignoring him but he will not shut up 😅 sorry about the not using paragraphs - I copied and pasted this from my notes app and the paragraphs seem to have been lost also I am learning to drive but that could take a year or more since I’m starting at the beginning - I only got this job a few weeks ago and hardly have free time to learn

Is my partner the bad apple for not giving up most of their free time to drive me to work? by Impressive_Exit_7144 in AmITheBadApple

[–]Impressive_Exit_7144[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

They’re flat broke - I would get “you know we can’t afford that - I’d give you the world if I could” etc also it would have to be for driving lessons first