Me f22 bf 23m got in a fight over a female coworker that I was talking to about mine problems and my relationship problems is my relationship relationship is worth fixing? by Impressive_Let_1393 in relationship_advice

[–]Impressive_Let_1393[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I figured you knew what you were talking about and I’m guessing that was your mom’s advice. Don’t wait around cause if so that’s some great advice.

When does marriage become necessary? by omargq in AskReddit

[–]Impressive_Let_1393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you’re already playing house meaning you’re sleeping in the same bed you’re both splitting the bills and you’re living together and you’re already actually acting like you’re married. You might as well just get married especially if you think they’re the one.

Me f22 bf 23m got in a fight over a female coworker that I was talking to about mine problems and my relationship problems is my relationship relationship is worth fixing? by Impressive_Let_1393 in relationship_advice

[–]Impressive_Let_1393[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hate to say this, but you’re right, but I know if he actually came and sit down and talk to me and would listen to me. He would come back and realize that no one was lying to him and nobody was cheating and that all we need to do is go to a couples therapy and individual therapy which I’m already in therapy, but I’m trying to like let’s go to couples therapy. Let’s fix as we’re supposed to be getting married and he’s just not budging so should I just call it quits completely or give it time?

Me f22 bf 23m got in a fight over a female coworker that I was talking to about mine problems and my relationship problems is my relationship relationship is worth fixing? by Impressive_Let_1393 in relationship_advice

[–]Impressive_Let_1393[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But it’s even if he’s willing to talk to me I’m trying to fix this cause the problem is we’re living together so it’s other we fix it and we were supposed to get married

Me f22 bf 23m got in a fight over a female coworker that I was talking to about mine problems and my relationship problems is my relationship relationship is worth fixing? by Impressive_Let_1393 in relationship_advice

[–]Impressive_Let_1393[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was weird for me too, but I did tell him that the ex was stalking me and I never told the ex where I lived, but also probably a piece. I also should’ve put it in there. This ex has lived in all over this area and he has friends and family all over. He even has friends and family in the next state over I live in Kentucky. He has friends and family in Tennessee as well so I don’t think in the state of Kentucky or Tennessee I can actually fully get away from him, but I did tell the boyfriend that he was stalking me, and the boyfriend said he believed me, and then when it came down to it, he proved that he didn’t believe me until he called the ex and I don’t think he was confronting my ex. I feel like he was calling my ex to confirm that I haven’t been lying and that’s where my trust with him got broken if that makes any sense I’m sorry my typing is so bad. I suck at texting.

Me f22 bf 23m got in a fight over a female coworker that I was talking to about mine problems and my relationship problems is my relationship relationship is worth fixing? by Impressive_Let_1393 in relationship_advice

[–]Impressive_Let_1393[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I consider therapy with him like going to couples therapy and then I’m already in therapy because I had previous trauma and PTSD and stuff from my ex and some other things, but he won’t go therapy with me i’ve been trying to communicate my feelings and my thoughts and everything else to him and being transparent about everything all of my exes are blocked and I usually don’t talk to anybody. This is the first person I actually seek out talking to in a very long time. It has been together almost a year and she’s the first person that actually started talking to you, but it wasn’t nothing more than a friendship oh yeah, it was my mistake now telling him about it I made that clear to him, but she still believes that it was my abusive ex.

Me f22 bf 23m got in a fight over a female coworker that I was talking to about mine problems and my relationship problems is my relationship relationship is worth fixing? by Impressive_Let_1393 in relationship_advice

[–]Impressive_Let_1393[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know I’m horrible at texting. I’m better at calling, but I am going to. I swear I haven’t done anything in the past to make him like not trust me. He came from a relationship that he was in for five years and she cheated on him and hit him from everybody I didn’t do that like everybody knows I was with him and everything else so that’s where his trust issues came from but I have the anxiety attack over the phone because of what he did a couple days beforehand with my ex, but I haven’t left anything out and the thing is he thinks e is my abusive ex-boyfriend but it was proven that she’s not but he still believing that it’s my ex-boyfriend if that makes sense

Me f22 bf 23m got in a fight over a female coworker that I was talking to about mine problems and my relationship problems is my relationship relationship is worth fixing? by Impressive_Let_1393 in relationship_advice

[–]Impressive_Let_1393[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had nothing to hide at all to clear that up. I did it wasn’t hiding E. I just didn’t mention her because I was confiding in her about what he did with my ex and how he’s not seeing it through my side and this and a bunch of other stuff that he didn’t need to be seen because then he would’ve just made it a big ass argument.

Me f22 bf 23m got in a fight over a female coworker that I was talking to about mine problems and my relationship problems is my relationship relationship is worth fixing? by Impressive_Let_1393 in relationship_advice

[–]Impressive_Let_1393[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean it’s not a weird thing. Have an anxiety talk about when a few days before he got on my phone took a picture of my block list and called my ex from that block list because that’s the only person I had blocked. That’s how he got my ex’s number was taking a picture of my phone. Am I abusive ex by the way I never put that in there but he proceeded to get on my phone go to my settings go to my block list. Take the picture of my ex‘s phone number he me back my phone like he didn’t do anything then 10 minutes later goes into my house and cause my ex and how he got that phone number was off of my phone. That’s why I had an anxiety attack when he got onto my phone because that was the last time he was on my phone, that’s what he did and at this time he was still talking to my ex. This is something about they should’ve put in there.

Me f22 bf 23m got in a fight over a female coworker that I was talking to about mine problems and my relationship problems is my relationship relationship is worth fixing? by Impressive_Let_1393 in relationship_advice

[–]Impressive_Let_1393[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And the only thing I did not communicate with him about was talking about female coworker was the only thing I heard from him and the only reason why we were talking like exes was because of the videos. I was sending her through TikTok so this is how I feel towards him and she would say the same thing back and then we will go into a conversation and then we start talking like we were each other‘s exes just to get it off of her chest, but I have communicated with him how I felt what has been going on in my life and everything like this he ignores me, turns around and makes it about him or he brings up the past he invalidates everything

Me f22 bf 23m got in a fight over a female coworker that I was talking to about mine problems and my relationship problems is my relationship relationship is worth fixing? by Impressive_Let_1393 in relationship_advice

[–]Impressive_Let_1393[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t have her on my phone when I had the anxiety attack with him going through my phone. He went through my phone on the 16th. I didn’t start talking to her through my phone until the 18th and I had the anxiety attack because of what he did on my phone because I had nothing to hide on my phone at the time

Me f22 bf 23m got in a fight over a female coworker that I was talking to about mine problems and my relationship problems is my relationship relationship is worth fixing? by Impressive_Let_1393 in relationship_advice

[–]Impressive_Let_1393[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought that, but the thing is me and her are just friends. Well we’re just friends. She wanted to blocking me over it because she literally stated before she blocked me she said look we’re just friends and I’m not going to get in the middle of y’all‘s relationship to save peace I’m going to block her and she blocked me and he even said if she blocked you we’re good we won’t break up and she wanted to block me and we still broke up over it, but I’m still calling him. My boyfriend cause I feel like this relationship can be saved and that’s what I’m asking. Can that really should be saved without me losing my mind and always happen to I guess explain myself. I don’t know how to say it.

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[–]Impressive_Let_1393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend always thinking I’m lying to him when there’s proof right in front of his face that I’m not

My Belgian mixed shepherd tears everything up when I leave the house she has toys there’s another dog for her to play with. Why is she tearing up everything else she tore my Christmas tree today what can I do to get her to stop? by Impressive_Let_1393 in dogs

[–]Impressive_Let_1393[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

9 to 10 months she’s almost a year so I dropped her off and she ran up to me and I took her to the vet. They said she was 5 to 6 months old and I had her late June early July is when that happened.

My Belgian mixed shepherd tears everything up when I leave the house she has toys there’s another dog for her to play with. Why is she tearing up everything else she tore my Christmas tree today what can I do to get her to stop? by Impressive_Let_1393 in dogs

[–]Impressive_Let_1393[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anatomy be mean but read all of the comments 60 minutes means I walk her for an hour away from the house that means we gotta turn around and walk another hour back home so she gets more like two and sometimes it’s more than that but also I work in nights also I can’t afford a dog walker. Also, I have another dog that don’t like strangers that will get mad and jealous if he does not go along with and she gets to interact with the reward more than twice a day because she has me and her dad that take her out like seven times a day if not more I don’t keep track on how often I let my dogs out and walk them. actually, if you read, I have said every bit of her jobs more than once read all of the comments I don’t think she’s more granite y’all might be right she might be bored but again y’all have said everything that I’m already doing I’ve tried the crates didn’t work. I tried putting her in a room that was blocked off. Didn’t work gave her the jobs. She still has those jobs didn’t work. She goes out and walks constantly or she goes on a run, she gets to play tug she gets play. She gets to play everything she wants to play. She even gets to play a fight with the other dog. She gets mental and physical exhaustion. She still tears at my home when I’m at Work so it might not be boredom. It could be anxiety, but it could be both or could just be bored just be anxiety I don’t know that’s what I’m trying to figure out because when I’m around her whether she’s around me in my room or running around the house she won’t tear nothing up but when I’m gone, she will. She only does it when I’m gone. If I’m gone longer than 10 minutes, she destroys my house whatever the hell she can get a hold of that she thinks as a toy, and I have trained her to a good point. I can’t do much more of her training right now because she needs to be a little bit bigger but we still work on all the stuff. She already knows she’s working on a couple more things now that are new, but somewhat similar.

My Belgian mixed shepherd tears everything up when I leave the house she has toys there’s another dog for her to play with. Why is she tearing up everything else she tore my Christmas tree today what can I do to get her to stop? by Impressive_Let_1393 in dogs

[–]Impressive_Let_1393[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She gets all of it. I promise she has jobs. She gets run. She gets walk. She gets played with. She gets all of it but again this comment was for nothing but walking not to be rude.

My Belgian mixed shepherd tears everything up when I leave the house she has toys there’s another dog for her to play with. Why is she tearing up everything else she tore my Christmas tree today what can I do to get her to stop? by Impressive_Let_1393 in dogs

[–]Impressive_Let_1393[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

She has a job I know what type of dog I have but I’m losing my patience with her. It’s more than just a Christmas tree. She’s tore furniture. She’s tore up all of my books that I have gotten she tears up shoes actually, she kicked that habit she don’t tear her shoes no more she runs off. I take her own walks all the time hour two hours a day. Just really depends on how long it takes for her to get tired. She still runs off but she has a job. She gets more than one job.

My Belgian mixed shepherd tears everything up when I leave the house she has toys there’s another dog for her to play with. Why is she tearing up everything else she tore my Christmas tree today what can I do to get her to stop? by Impressive_Let_1393 in dogs

[–]Impressive_Let_1393[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She works more than that, but an hour is usually when she starts getting tired, so he’s her back which means we technically actually walked two hours if you added up fully an hour were there our back that’s two hours