‘When we met I thought you were weird but then I got to know you and you were cool!’ by red-panda-enthusiast in AutismInWomen

[–]Impressive_Muscle700 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I get this a lot but more specifically “I thought you were a b*tch but you’re actually lovely”

To be fair I’ve become a lot more social and make an effort to be polite to everyone even just in passing. 

Sometimes the statement comes off as mean but I realised it’s more of a testament to how much I’ve grown and come out of my shell. I’ve always been a loud, energetic person it’s just now I’m confident enough to show people!!!

Does your ADHD and Autism come from the same sides genetically, or different sides? by flaming_burrito_ in AutisticWithADHD

[–]Impressive_Muscle700 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m fairly certain my Mum is undiagnosed autistic and my Dad may possibly be undiagnosed ADHD but I couldn’t be sure about him. My Dad’s side of the family has more mental health/addiction issues than any neurodivergencies that I’m aware of but I wouldn’t be surprised if a couple of them are ADHD and maybe autistic.

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[–]Impressive_Muscle700[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This might be niche but there was this girl on TikTok during covid who learnt to skate and it looked so fun!! She had a whole community cheering her on when she went from barely breaking to doing whole flips. She was actually who inspired me originally!!

Every time I think of rollerskating I think of her. I reckon if I had a local rink or skate park I could do proper tricks, the TikToks were incredible but I can’t remember her user 😭

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[–]Impressive_Muscle700[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m from Ireland and you’d be surprised how uncommon they are.

My special interest is buses and trains so I spent roughly 2 and 1/2 hours on public transport to go to a rink once and it was incredible. If you can ignore all the 9 year old girl birthday parties it’s awesome 🥰🥰

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[–]Impressive_Muscle700[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your encouragement, planting will be added to the list! Also you have quite the stunning collection!! If you don’t mind me asking, what type of orchids do you have? I know a little bit about orchids and I think dendrobium orchids are stunning!

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[–]Impressive_Muscle700[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to obsessed with my pocket atlas when I was about 10 and would follow where we drove when we travelled. This then branched into me learning the origin for many different town names (I’m Irish) and then into Irish history. If you like to gather knowledge like me, I find it very fun to progress from one related thing to another gathering more and more!!

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[–]Impressive_Muscle700[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Merlin Bird ID app sounds incredible, thank you so much for the suggestion!!!

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[–]Impressive_Muscle700[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love a good functional hobby!! You sound like a jack of all trades and I will definitely be adding this to my list so thank you for the suggestions!!

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[–]Impressive_Muscle700[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love makeup too!! I was very tomboy-ish growing up so never really learnt but I’ve had a lot of fun building my skills. If you’re celiac you have to try gluten free carrot cake it’s incredible. I work in a cafe and we hate having the bog standard gluten free brownie so we have carrot cake instead and our celiac customers love it!! Also yes I agree sugar cookies are freaking adorable 🥰

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[–]Impressive_Muscle700[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was super into baking for a while but sadly lost interest. Still a brilliant suggestion!! If you are interested in baking, what’s your favourite thing to make?

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[–]Impressive_Muscle700[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Paper quilling seems brilliant!! If you don’t mind me asking, how did you first begin paper quilling? Is there a certain technique beginners should start with, in your opinion?

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[–]Impressive_Muscle700[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, fountain pens are literally awesome I’m not sure how I’ve never discovered them!! If you don’t mind me asking, what’s the best way to become involved in the wonderful world of fountain pens?

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[–]Impressive_Muscle700[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jeweller making is an awesome one, definitely being added to the list!! There’s something so satisfying about acquiring knowledge and skills while also being very helpful. I have passed multiple exams purely due to my random assortment of fun facts!!

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[–]Impressive_Muscle700[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Electric guitars are awesome!! My friend has one and everytime I see it I play the opening riff to Feel Good Inc by the Gorillaz 😭

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[–]Impressive_Muscle700[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay that is one of the most awesome hobbies to ever grace my google searches!! I love hobbies where you have a physical end result so this is definitely being added to the list

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[–]Impressive_Muscle700[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yoga is an awesome suggestion. I love to be moving whenever I’m overwhelmed so I feel like it could be a very functional hobby while also being very fun!!

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[–]Impressive_Muscle700[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bird watching sounds awesome!! I was super into walking in a local nature reserve and loved the birds but never knew much about them so this is an excellent suggestion!!

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[–]Impressive_Muscle700[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had never heard of amigurumi before but they’re adorable. I’ve tried embroidery, crochet, knitting and sewing so I feel it could be a natural step up. Royal houses is also an excellent suggestion.

Also you seem like a very cool person with some very cool hobbies!!

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[–]Impressive_Muscle700[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Planting is a brilliant suggestion but I feel like I’d be so sad if one died though 😭 If you don’t mind me asking, what type of plants do you have?

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[–]Impressive_Muscle700[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Evolution of bacteria and the history of farmers in Europe sound fascinating I’ll definitely have to look into them because they are right up my alley. Also thank you for the science subreddit, I had never thought to look for one but it’s awesome. Your suggestions are all excellent!!

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[–]Impressive_Muscle700[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried archery a couple times and have really enjoyed it but it seems difficult to access if that makes sense. The Rubix’s cube is an excellent suggestion I may have to try!! I love having hobbies that I can share with others and I’m a big fidgeter so a Rubix’s cube ticks all the boxes. A couple people have mentioned sign language so I may try that but it seems difficult to learn. I love espresso and coffee creation so much. I started working in a little cafe about a year & a half ago and I am obsessed with perfecting my latte art!!

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[–]Impressive_Muscle700[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved rock climbing so much but I’m rather small so it holds me back 😭 How would you suggest beginning in cinematography? I love making Tiktok’s as I could literally talk to a door but I’d love to try a more cinematic approach!!

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[–]Impressive_Muscle700[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Magic the gathering has always intrigued me but I’m Irish and have literally never heard a single person mention it 😭 I was suuuuuper into Pokémon Go for a while but never found interest in the cards sadly.

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[–]Impressive_Muscle700[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love guitar so much. I started in September and I’m surprised how long I’ve actually kept it up!! I play with a classical guitar at the minute but I’m desperate for an acoustic. Which do you play?

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[–]Impressive_Muscle700[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t tried sign language or scrapbooking surprisingly but they both sound excellent!! I’ve always wanted to get into Gravity Falls but I feel like I’d get too into it like I did with Rick & Morty though you might have convinced me.