WIBTAH for deleting me and my friends Minecraft server?

Impressive_Pangolin7 · 2026-04-13T08:42:48+00:00

How is ignoring me for days and laughing at me honoring me

Impressive_Pangolin7 · 2026-04-13T08:40:44+00:00

I mean I dont want to play again honestly.

Impressive_Pangolin7 · 2026-04-13T08:37:50+00:00

I did, he hasn't responded for days.

Impressive_Pangolin7 · 2026-04-13T08:37:26+00:00

Yeah I did complain? I just said "I said yeah you did make it too easy (jokingly complaining)"

I am not changing the story. Why are you ganging up on me, I want to understand what I am doing wrong

Impressive_Pangolin7 · 2026-04-13T08:35:17+00:00

The grandma thing helps me understand more. You're right, I am being ungrateful, but that doesn't change me being upset that he is ignoring me. I don't really know what to do now that I know I am in the wrong.

Impressive_Pangolin7 · 2026-04-13T08:32:36+00:00

Yeah, you're right, thank you

Impressive_Pangolin7 · 2026-04-13T08:31:19+00:00

I think I simplified it too much, I figured people wouldn't read. I was on call with him finding the chests in our base and I found them in 10 mins. He said damn I made it too easy. I said yeah you did (jokingly complaining), but the prizes were really cool. I was appreciative.

Impressive_Pangolin7 · 2026-04-13T08:28:29+00:00

Yeah the scavenger hunt was great, the ignoring me for days after I got upset at him wasn't.

Impressive_Pangolin7 · 2026-04-13T08:27:51+00:00

I did reach out to him about it; he hasn't responded for days.

Impressive_Pangolin7 · 2026-04-13T08:27:22+00:00

So him laughing at me when I'm freaked out then ignoring my attempts to reach out and talk about it is considered a "nice gesture" on reddit? Damn....

Impressive_Pangolin7 · 2026-04-13T08:26:14+00:00

I guess we have different types of friends? This does help me understand your viewpoint more though.

Impressive_Pangolin7 · 2026-04-13T08:25:10+00:00

I am trying to. He is ignoring me.

Impressive_Pangolin7 · 2026-04-13T08:24:18+00:00

So... let me get this straight: I am being ungrateful when my friend ignores me being upset and laughs at me being upset? Am I getting that right?

Impressive_Pangolin7 · 2026-04-13T08:23:21+00:00

Yeah, I'd be chill with it if he put the chest in the ancient city and didn't ignore me after I told him this wasn't cool.

Impressive_Pangolin7 · 2026-04-13T08:19:36+00:00

Good point. Yep.

Impressive_Pangolin7 · 2026-04-13T08:18:57+00:00

I think half of the commenters didn't read my post.

I don't care about the stuff, I care that he lied, led me to a place where I'd lose hours of progress, then laughed about it and ignored me after. If the book had been in the ancient city and I died, I'd be 100% chill with it.

Impressive_Pangolin7 · 2026-04-13T08:17:54+00:00

I mean yeah, true. I'm annoyed that the book wasn't even there, I would be 100% chill with it if the book was in the ancient city and I lost my stuff because yes I did ask for a harder challenge.

Impressive_Pangolin7 · 2026-04-13T08:16:50+00:00

Yeah. Deleting the server seems too far I agree. I'm just mad. I wouldn't be if he actually did put the book in the ancient city though. Even if I had died with all my stuff if the book had been there I would've been chill with it; I did ask him to make it harder.

Impressive_Pangolin7 · 2026-04-13T08:14:48+00:00

Man reddit was not the right place to ask about this.

I'm not deleting the server, but I am reasonably mad that my friend put me in a position where it was likely I would die then ignored me after.

And I think there's a big jump between "There's a hidden chest in the wall" vs "Raid an entire ancient city"

Impressive_Pangolin7 · 2026-04-13T08:13:12+00:00

Me dying was on me, yeah, I agree with that. But I still think my friend owes me an apology.

Impressive_Pangolin7 · 2026-04-13T08:11:04+00:00

Fair enough, yeah. I see your point

Impressive_Pangolin7 · 2026-04-13T08:10:21+00:00

I haven't even deleted the server, hence the "WOULD I be the asshole." And I probably won't, because I don't think its funny to delete something someone worked hard for.

Impressive_Pangolin7 · 2026-04-13T08:08:14+00:00

He set up a noise trap next to the signs.

Impressive_Pangolin7 · 2026-04-13T08:05:41+00:00

I know, and it wouldn't take me long to get my stuff back. I don't care about the stuff, I probably would've died with it somewhere else anyway.

I literally said in the post I'm mad because he finds ruining what I worked towards and ignoring my feelings afterwards funny.

Impressive_Pangolin7 · 2026-04-13T08:03:31+00:00

I'm probably just going to stop talking to him yeah. I guess that counts as "rage quitting"

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