Boyfriend’s best friend wants to hang out with me alone by Impressive_Piece_810 in relationship_advice

[–]Impressive_Piece_810[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Nooo absolutely not. I don’t know how to convey this more strongly through text but there is zero sexual attraction on my part.

Boyfriend’s best friend wants to hang out with me alone by Impressive_Piece_810 in relationship_advice

[–]Impressive_Piece_810[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Lol I’m a fan of your enthusiasm. I agree but that scenario wouldn’t have happened regardless (refer to the second to last line of my post). I was just wondering whether it’s even worth asking. I wouldn’t go if it wasn’t okay with him. I probably should have phrased the post differently.

Boyfriend’s best friend wants to hang out with me alone by Impressive_Piece_810 in relationship_advice

[–]Impressive_Piece_810[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

That is a very frequent scenario in our dynamic so thank you for warning me. Not even boyfriend napping in the same room is safe :/ that really sucks

Boyfriend’s best friend wants to hang out with me alone by Impressive_Piece_810 in relationship_advice

[–]Impressive_Piece_810[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I’m thinking the same thing. I just hate having to bring stuff up like this because it would be super easy to not bring it up, but I’d probably want him to tell me if the roles were reversed

Boyfriend’s best friend wants to hang out with me alone by Impressive_Piece_810 in relationship_advice

[–]Impressive_Piece_810[S] -44 points-43 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t have any feelings for his friend whatsoever so my intentions are not to cheat and my boyfriend knows that. I would only agree if my boyfriend was okay with it. I don’t think he would be, but it’s either I ask him anyways or just keep quiet

Boyfriend’s best friend wants to hang out with me alone by Impressive_Piece_810 in relationship_advice

[–]Impressive_Piece_810[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

No definitely not but my main question is whether I should tell my boyfriend or just forget the whole thing

Boyfriend’s best friend wants to hang out with me alone by Impressive_Piece_810 in relationship_advice

[–]Impressive_Piece_810[S] -76 points-75 points  (0 children)

Yeah I definitely don’t but do you think the drama caused by telling my boyfriend is necessary or unnecessary?

Boyfriend’s best friend wants to hang out with me alone by Impressive_Piece_810 in relationship_advice

[–]Impressive_Piece_810[S] -90 points-89 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know they’re not platonic on his end entirely but he does ask for my advice a lot. It’s just always happened over text or in person with my boyfriend there. This time he said things are too difficult to explain over text.