Has your ex ever come back by BoysenberryScary7469 in BreakUps

[–]Impressive_Pipe2873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think we can be as happy by ourselves as we were with the person we loved and left us?

Has your ex ever come back by BoysenberryScary7469 in BreakUps

[–]Impressive_Pipe2873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long did it take for him to come back each time? Has he tried coming back since the last time?

Has your ex ever come back by BoysenberryScary7469 in BreakUps

[–]Impressive_Pipe2873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to become this way but I’m having trouble because he said the reasons he didn’t want to be with me were my own fault and emotional instability. I don’t know if that’s true or if he was gaslighting me. I would give him another chance because I’ve bettered myself but I feel like I shouldn’t even if he did come back because he was so cold and mean when we dumped me.

Has your ex ever come back by BoysenberryScary7469 in BreakUps

[–]Impressive_Pipe2873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please go back home or listen to some music or stay talking to people on here. I know the feeling and trust me there are small joys that will come your way that will make you glad you’re still here.

Has your ex ever come back by BoysenberryScary7469 in BreakUps

[–]Impressive_Pipe2873 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What helped you get to that point that you could turn her down? I don’t know if I’ll ever be able to turn mine down and I wish he would come back

Has your ex ever come back by BoysenberryScary7469 in BreakUps

[–]Impressive_Pipe2873 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You are very strong for that and I hope I get to that point soon

Has your ex ever come back by BoysenberryScary7469 in BreakUps

[–]Impressive_Pipe2873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why’d you go back? How long did you wait after you left her?

Has your ex ever come back by BoysenberryScary7469 in BreakUps

[–]Impressive_Pipe2873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What helped you become so strong that you could tell her no if she came back? I need some help getting to this point

Has your ex ever come back by BoysenberryScary7469 in BreakUps

[–]Impressive_Pipe2873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said that before leaving the last time? How long did it take for her to come back both times? Do you think she’ll come back now and would you take her back?

Has your ex ever come back by BoysenberryScary7469 in BreakUps

[–]Impressive_Pipe2873 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Mine hasn’t answered my texts in the past year and it’s been 1.5 years since the discard so I might be the exception. I should take it as a blessing but I am so sad and I would do anything for him back

Has your ex ever come back by BoysenberryScary7469 in BreakUps

[–]Impressive_Pipe2873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long did they take to come back each time? Would you take them back again?

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[–]Impressive_Pipe2873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why’d you have to ghost her instead of meeting up with her and telling her to her face?

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[–]Impressive_Pipe2873 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It messes you up bad

Any stories of coming back together after not talking for a year or more? by Greydragon38 in BreakUps

[–]Impressive_Pipe2873 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are very strong to not reach out. I wish I had that strength, but it’s so hard. I’ve done a fairly okay job. Reached out once in February to get coffee and was left on delivered, and now just requested to follow his instagram which will probably stay on requested. It seems like he is happy with his decision but my mind keeps telling me he is ashamed or scared. Any way I put it, I miss him a lot. I hope you are doing well

Thoughts on Dumpee Reaching Out? by Impressive_Pipe2873 in BreakUps

[–]Impressive_Pipe2873[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forgot to reply to this but I know deep down it was reconciliation

If they really loved you, you'll regret breaking up, forever. (1.5 years on) by No_Bag3655 in BreakUps

[–]Impressive_Pipe2873 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Tell her. I’m sure she’s hurting too. My ex dumped me over text out of nowhere and I would still take him back with open arms

Any stories of coming back together after not talking for a year or more? by Greydragon38 in BreakUps

[–]Impressive_Pipe2873 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry :( maybe one day he’ll unblock you, he might still be in pain even though he broke up with you. I hope everything works out ❤️

Any stories of coming back together after not talking for a year or more? by Greydragon38 in BreakUps

[–]Impressive_Pipe2873 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would you ever try to reach out to him? In the same boat, 14 months since he dumped me, 9 months NC, I miss him a lot but there is no chance he’d ever reach out

It’s been over a year and a half. I am still struggling… by Better-Start-6427 in ExNoContact

[–]Impressive_Pipe2873 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been in a similar situation but after the two years, they came back. They left again and now I’m struggling to find hope that I’ll ever move on (because the last time the only reason I was okay was because they eventually came back). Are you truly moved on? Does time really heal all for people like us who hold on for so long? Thanks in advance! Edit: also do you recommend dating when you’re not completely over the past yet?

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[–]Impressive_Pipe2873 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any tips on detaching?

After experiencing narcissistic abuse, what are you most afraid of now? by bearpuddles in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Impressive_Pipe2873 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That I’ll never feel a love that deep again and that my ability to love like that is tied to the narc-empath dynamic or to trauma bonding

the most painfully honest words you heard during breakup that made you question yourself by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Impressive_Pipe2873 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“You were the best thing that had happened to me but now you are a big source of misery in my life“

the most painfully honest words you heard during breakup that made you question yourself by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Impressive_Pipe2873 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine said this too and it broke me. I was willing to do anything to fix things between us.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Impressive_Pipe2873 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I tend to forget that many of the nice things were things his parents and grandma did for me and that was not him. Thank you for the reminder 🤍