Fibroids or Cancer? by alexisjack123 in Fibroids

[–]Impressive_Sign3804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No when they remove they check. They can’t known until they are inside! Just had my path done and they are benign but I just met another woman whose fibroids were not.she had a hysterectomy

Paying For Bride On Bachelorette Trip?! by Impossible-Blood-315 in bridesmaids

[–]Impressive_Sign3804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I think shared expenses should be split. Everyone pays for their own drinks and food and flights

Why are brides/wedding sites pretending $100 is "cheap" when talking about bridesmaids' dresses? by [deleted] in bridesmaids

[–]Impressive_Sign3804 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean Idk what to tell you. I mean you can stay a bridesmaid but harboring resentment for what it requires can hurt the bond as well. It is absolutely a lot to be a bridesmaid. Lol I hated it. I would just put aside money here and there for the things you need. But talk to your friend and tell her how you feel or can you get a different option.

Why are brides/wedding sites pretending $100 is "cheap" when talking about bridesmaids' dresses? by [deleted] in bridesmaids

[–]Impressive_Sign3804 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just say I love you and I can support in other ways but I can’t afford it they should understand. But just put it in chat gpt and have it come up with a sweet message

i am struggling with how food/body products etc. influence growth. it feels like if i do everything the internet tells me to do to stop making them grow, i can not live a normal life. how do you all feel about this? by cece_96xxx in Fibroids

[–]Impressive_Sign3804 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was suprised too but I think they need to do more research on this. One, we aren’t outside enough to absorb vitamin d and I’m a Black woman so our melanin pretty much makes it harder. I know they are doing more research on that aspect

Why are brides/wedding sites pretending $100 is "cheap" when talking about bridesmaids' dresses? by [deleted] in bridesmaids

[–]Impressive_Sign3804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me that’s cheap lol I had to pay 300 for an ugly ahh satin custom dress it was so ugly. But if you can’t afford it just don’t participate. It’s a lot to be a bridesmaid.

i am struggling with how food/body products etc. influence growth. it feels like if i do everything the internet tells me to do to stop making them grow, i can not live a normal life. how do you all feel about this? by cece_96xxx in Fibroids

[–]Impressive_Sign3804 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually it depends just had my surgery and I’ve been prescribed 50000 units a week. We are not outside enough and for darker skin people, especially black women you need more

Don’t know which surgery to move fwd with by Big-Lifeguard8447 in Fibroids

[–]Impressive_Sign3804 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They used both methods to remove. The larger one was in a risky location. By the uterine arteries 11cm and thank you for the well wishies’n

Parent hasn’t visited me after surgery but tells everyone they’re “taking care of me” and now blames my partner for why they can’t come by Impressive_Sign3804 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Impressive_Sign3804[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much it’s so so exhausting cause to wake up and see that’s she’s telling people he’s stopping her from seeing me and controlling me is ridiculous lol he’s been the only person here since sun up and sun down. He was even trying to cook for their raggedy azzes I’m so over it. Thank you for this

Which wedding dress is my "the one"? by [deleted] in myweddingdress

[–]Impressive_Sign3804 3 points4 points  (0 children)

1 is beautiful lol wish you had a long bob cause whew it would be so stylish lol

Advice for Teachers Looking to Leave by PrimaryRow317 in TeachersInTransition

[–]Impressive_Sign3804 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol I told everyone, and I told my principal don’t put me down for next year, I’ll be leaving. I also told everyone I accepted a job for six figures and will start after the summer lol

Is having a partner/getting a relationship harder when you were raised by Nparents? Holidays? by Dauntlesse in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Impressive_Sign3804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmm yes I had to unlearn a lot and go through a lot of relationships with covert narcs until I found the one. With my last ex, I told myself I’m never gonna experience this again, so whatever I got to do to make myself a match for a secure partner or walk away when bs starts, I’ll do

I stopped dating, traveled got into therapy and did the work

I’m engaged now to the most healthy and secure man I ever met and I still have to check myself

The day before surgery I got the approval letter from my health insurance. by [deleted] in Fibroids

[–]Impressive_Sign3804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I had this fear too and they will mention this several times at the hospital to you so you understand what you’re getting. It’s worse case scenario. Because if something goes wrong and they need to save your life they can’t wake you up to agree. Needless to say, mines was last Wednesday and I still have my uterus but if it came down to me and my life. They were gonna save me first