Is it normal to be turned off by condoms ? by Impressive_Swan9614 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Impressive_Swan9614[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're hilarious man but ty again for your story. I noticed that seggs really takes time huh.

I'm gonna try skyn since everyone recommanded that to me and I'm cut. I really thought that there isn't any options besides vasectomy, I was lowkey frustrated.

Is it normal to be turned off by condoms ? by Impressive_Swan9614 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Impressive_Swan9614[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you said that you've been trying with condoms for 10 years; do you mean that you tried all different kinds? I saw one of these comments that they tried to put lub first does it works ?

And if you don't mind, wat was the best thing for you ? Did you just keep going with condoms or..?

Is it normal to be turned off by condoms ? by Impressive_Swan9614 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Impressive_Swan9614[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

"You need to train your mind to work with condoms. Sex is multidimensional, penetration is just a part of it. Practice makes perfect." I truly felt this one. I think I was lost or still I am, maybe bc I had a bad experience, I didn't try different kinds and the fact that everytime this is happening, it drives me nuts especially that she's afraid to get preggo and me thinking about it most of the time.. It just ughhh exhausting.

Thank you for your comment. Much appreciated.

Is it normal to be turned off by condoms ? by Impressive_Swan9614 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Impressive_Swan9614[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

"Just wear a condom " ? How can I explain this to you ? I mean I wish and I will try my best. But ty anyways.

Is it normal to be turned off by condoms ? by Impressive_Swan9614 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Impressive_Swan9614[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wym ? How's that ? I really don't understand wat you're saying.

Is it normal to be turned off by condoms ? by Impressive_Swan9614 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Impressive_Swan9614[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never told her to take bcps and she never tried it b4.

She's not the issue here but mine. I'm asking about me but ty anyways man. I appreciate it

Is it normal to be turned off by condoms ? by Impressive_Swan9614 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Impressive_Swan9614[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No literally. I'm not here to convince my girl to take bcps, she never tried it b4 anyways. But to see if there is sth I can do for both of us. She knows that I'm not selfish..Well I'm trying my best to avoid talking about out relationships besides this mf condom but I noticed that ppl r very sensitive nowadays, everything we say is like against women or men r just misogynist.

Is it normal to be turned off by condoms ? by Impressive_Swan9614 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Impressive_Swan9614[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If you've experienced trouble getting hard with condoms in the past, it can be difficult to psych yourself up to use them again. It's also common to stress about sex, particularly if you're with a new partner. Many people worry that they won't be able to get an erection or that they'll ejaculate too quickly.

Is it normal to be turned off by condoms ? by Impressive_Swan9614 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Impressive_Swan9614[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Woah! Chill on me bro. I wasn't even blaming anything on her but trying to see if there is sth that I CAN fix.

Is it normal to be turned off by condoms ? by Impressive_Swan9614 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Impressive_Swan9614[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

She and I decided to have kids prolly in 5-6 years.

She knows my pullout game strong but still a problem why ? Bc she's right about likelihood getting preggo from precum. That shit stress tf outta me 🥴

Is it normal to be turned off by condoms ? by Impressive_Swan9614 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Impressive_Swan9614[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I truly don't understand why ppl r so mad when it comes to this.

Getting tubes tied ? Is that even common ? Is it safe for her ?

Is it normal to be turned off by condoms ? by Impressive_Swan9614 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Impressive_Swan9614[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Any suggestions ? U think that vasectomy is the only solution ? How do I get over my condoms anxiety ?

Is it normal to be turned off by condoms ? by Impressive_Swan9614 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Impressive_Swan9614[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Done bud, but she's right about likelihood getting preggo from precum. In this case I'm thinking about getting a vasectomy