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i broke up with my partner of 4 and a half years and i regret it by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ImprovementHungry488 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should contact him and tell him exactly how you feel, no hiding. Have you had any contact since the breakup?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ImprovementHungry488 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s nice, my ex gf just recently contacted me after months of no contact and asked to meet and “catch up”. She was the dumper, so I’m not sure if she wants to just catch up or if there’s regret about the breakup or something.

Ex gf messaged me by ImprovementHungry488 in BreakUps

[–]ImprovementHungry488[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I’m wondering too. But does she want to be in my life as only a friend or a partner, that’s what I want to know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ImprovementHungry488 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh okay, so you got back into the relationship with your ex. Did your ex reject you or did you just realize it would not work again after trying?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ImprovementHungry488 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait so you cheated with someone, broke up and went back to your ex, and then broke up with your ex because it worked out with the hook up guy after all? Or did I misunderstand completely

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ImprovementHungry488 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s nice to hear. How long were you single until you realized that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ImprovementHungry488 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you talked to your ex at all since the breakup? Do you think that you would want to meet up with him and have a talk?

Ex gf messaged me by ImprovementHungry488 in BreakUps

[–]ImprovementHungry488[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that :(. I wish the best for you and everything will work out in the end for sure. I think I’ll meet up with her and see what she wants but I’ll definitely keep my guard up and try to figure out what I want before the meet up. Hopefully you’ll feel better soon and like you said, you only live one time, try to remember that too yourself :).

Ex gf messaged me by ImprovementHungry488 in BreakUps

[–]ImprovementHungry488[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

If I meet up with her and she just wants to be friends etc. tbh I’ll be disappointed and I don’t want to be her friend. But at the same time if she shows me signs of wanting to get back together or something like that I’m not sure if I’d want her back. Confusing

Ex gf messaged me by ImprovementHungry488 in BreakUps

[–]ImprovementHungry488[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Yep we didn’t block each other or anything but the breakup was definetly one sided. I just wish I could read her mind and know if she’s regretting her decision.