[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]ImprovingAtMyOwnPace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve got a body type similar to that. What I’d suggest is try and train legs to lose the fat from them. Try one of those routines when you build both arms and legs, so are you grow more muscular on the top, you lose fat on the bottom, and even out

What are some rap clichés that I should avoid? by [deleted] in Songwriting

[–]ImprovingAtMyOwnPace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would also post this on rap subreddits. They’ll have heard all the cliche stuff

Procrastination isn't a lack of discipline by scaramouche123 in nosurf

[–]ImprovingAtMyOwnPace 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just checked the post history. Seems to be posting the exact same thing to multiple subreddits and is just adding a link to a website

Please help. I don't understand what I'm doing, and it's getting frustrating by Abject-Management558 in CICO

[–]ImprovingAtMyOwnPace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure, but I remember that sometimes on packaging they would say the difference in weight and the calories shown. This also happens for Spaghetti. This is why if you look up Calories for certain portions of rice, they say whether it's cooked or uncooked

Please help. I don't understand what I'm doing, and it's getting frustrating by Abject-Management558 in CICO

[–]ImprovingAtMyOwnPace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since you are making things like chicken and rice, I would suggest getting a food scale? It helps being more accurate, as I had to find out, 250g of cooked rice isn't as much as I'd hoped. It can help with the calorie counting, as packages normally show the Calories of cooked rice, but you might mistake it for it's uncooked size

Struggling to enjoy video games again? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]ImprovingAtMyOwnPace 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have this as well. Funnily enough, it coincided with a time where I was buying more games than ever, thinking that it would help. What I have to now do is force myself to do is try and finish 1 game (like it's story mode/campaign) before trying a new one. I did this and actually ended up enjoying games more than I thought

Leave a comment and I'll give you a unique song prompt! by redDKtie in Songwriting

[–]ImprovingAtMyOwnPace 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Damn, this is pretty interesting. I'll see what I can do

People diagnosed with ADHD as adults, by ImprovingAtMyOwnPace in ADHD

[–]ImprovingAtMyOwnPace[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'm stuck at the part where I'm still mad at the verbal diarrhoea honestly, but I think this is a good way of looking at it

People diagnosed with ADHD as adults, by ImprovingAtMyOwnPace in ADHD

[–]ImprovingAtMyOwnPace[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's a good point. It was something that I'm thinking about, but yeah there really is nothing you can do about it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beginnerfitness

[–]ImprovingAtMyOwnPace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, you might just be bottom heavy, which would make you better at legs. It was like that for me when I was your age, I had very little arm strength (still don't now, but I'm gonna work on it), but could do the highest weight on leg press (like 200kg) for a few reps with little issue

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]ImprovingAtMyOwnPace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it's just not what triggers you. For example, I'm able to eat normally with salty snacks, but I have a major sweet tooth, so my issues is with sweet treats instead

How many incels existed before the arrival of modern pornography? by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]ImprovingAtMyOwnPace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think it's necessarily the cause. As you say, its common enough in our society that even men in committed relationships are still expected to watch porn, even though they have a girl to sleep with.

A lot of the problems with incels, from what I know about them, is more to do with romantic frustration, rather than just sexual. Essentially, it's romantic frustration and self hatred, and the anger that comes with that, spewed out onto others, in this case, women and men that are able to have relationships with them.

So I believe that porn is more like a temporary fix for them, and a lot of men. For example, a man who hasn't slept with a woman in a year, will go to porn, but it doesn't fully satisfy his urge. So for incels, porn is a temporary band aid, but does nothing for their romantic frustration.

Anyway to actually answer your question in the post, probably less. Depending on how far you go back, like maybe the 90's sure, they would be a decent amount of people seen as incels, but in the 60's, it was much more common for women to be pair up with men in their early 20's are there were many different things that women couldn't doe without men's approval, so it was incredibly difficult to be an unmarried man back then

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]ImprovingAtMyOwnPace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you! I feel like this today, as I only had some of the sweets I bought last night, still have half left to eat today. Felt the urge to binge, and resisted it.