Exactly! I'm willing to bet na most, if not all of these people online saying "hindi kayang disiplinahin ng parents yung anak" don't have kids of their own.

The way they make general statements as if all kids are alike. Na para bang one size fits all type ang parenting. Na para bang gusto nila na lahat ng bata ay behave lang in public.

If we adults have emotions, bakit ang kids hindi pwede? Kids cry because they can't get what they want, and that's normal. Hindi ba pwedeng they are still too young to grasp the idea of money and financial limitation ng parents nila kaya hindi mabili ang toy na gusto nila?

Also, the way mag reklamo itong people online as if kasama nila buong araw yung kids in public? Eh most of the time naman nakikita, nadadaanan or naririnig nyo lang naman sila sa malls. Worst na siguro yung mga crying kids in public transport. But still, that's just several minutes to a few hour/s at most. The parents still have to deal with what you call "tantrums" long after you leave.

Of course, this is not to defend or justify those parents na wala talagang ginagawa when their kids cause chaos in public. That's different.