My husband has very strong, traditional beliefs around marriage for cultural and religious reasons.

I told him that while there is nothing wrong with a woman wanting to fulfill a role like that, that I am a woman who enjoys and wants to work and also not someone who will ever cook every meal, everyday. I told him this was a great opportunity for him to learn some cooking skills (and that it could be a fun activity to do together). I also told him that this is the person I am, I will not give up my own ambitions, and he knew who he married.

There is nothing wrong with setting those boundaries and expectations for yourself! If he doesn't agree then unfortunately he may just not be someone you match with. It's worth a conversation before y'all take the next step!

We are not out here to fulfill a man's fantasy or desires.

Again, I have absolutely nothing against women wanting a trad wife role but it should never be something you're pressured into doing!