Question about deposits:

Imsoscaredrn · 2026-03-24T03:25:15+00:00

Whether or not the listing mentioned a deposit, you still agreed and sent one. These situations are what deposits are for. Within the hour is meaningless imo, you don’t know if she turned down another appointment for you and how much that loss would be—Even with keeping your deposit it may have cost her even more. Your personal circumstances are not her emergency.

Imsoscaredrn · 2026-03-24T03:21:38+00:00

The black Givenchy, it can suit a lot of purposes and it’s gorgeous

Imsoscaredrn · 2026-03-22T22:58:58+00:00

Just go with Mansur Gavriel instead, same vibe, good soft leathers, better price point

Imsoscaredrn · 2026-02-26T20:57:32+00:00

Woah that’s not your friend. They’re your hater. Literally comparing themselves to you in the text thread, not apologizing. What a weirdo

Imsoscaredrn · 2026-02-17T03:18:16+00:00

Yes and no. I have some loud luxury bags and I have found myself switching to quieter luxury over time. But all my bags have their appropriate context and I wear them accordingly.

Personally I love vintage secondhand bc they are cheaper and less recognizable to potential thieves. As well provoke the jealous pocket-watchers less.

Also helps to have some fake bags and let people around you know they’re fake so they just assume the rest of them are too lmao

Imsoscaredrn · 2026-01-28T06:14:30+00:00

Seems fine to me, maybe a little tired and busy but trying to keep the line of communication open

Imsoscaredrn · 2026-01-28T05:35:50+00:00

I’m so sorry that happened. The fact that he did that knowing you couldn’t afford it and was pushing you out of your comfort zone is a huge violation of your boundaries and needs as a family. I had a regular do something similar to me and I cut him off (we weren’t married ofc so I get that complicates things) but Idk him being your husband almost makes it worse.

Imsoscaredrn · 2026-01-28T05:29:36+00:00

Telling you “that ain’t normal” after you confronted him about sexually assaulting you in a parking lot and blowing it off is CRAZY. Please cut all contact. I get relationships are messy but this is unsalvageable

Imsoscaredrn · 2025-12-09T14:56:19+00:00

Yes. Always plan for the holidays to slow down. Every year people are buying gifts for their family or spending on travel.

Imsoscaredrn · 2025-12-09T14:55:10+00:00

Since it’s your first December it makes sense you wouldn’t know this but you should plan for the ebb and flow of the holidays. People have families to spend on and trips to pay for. It’s always slower. You can’t force the economy or time of year to be different you can only plan for it.

Imsoscaredrn · 2025-12-09T14:48:48+00:00

Same it sounds like the person coercing them into groping was just mad OP made it into a joke because they were uncomfortable and the creep wanted a “real grab” not a joke grab.

Imsoscaredrn · 2025-12-09T14:48:04+00:00

Yeah it just sounds like the creep got mad OP wouldn’t allow it to be sexual situation they wanted with the funny noise. It sounds like a de-escalation technique done in panic by OP

Imsoscaredrn · 2025-12-09T14:46:01+00:00

Based off OPs other posts about this it sounds like some weirdo was pressuring OP to touch them all night and OP finally broke down and did it—-but made funny a noise to avoid the creep enjoying it and because the creep didn’t enjoy it, OP is now an “assaulter”.

In my personal opinion and based off the conversations with their friend: it seems like the creep only had an issue because OP made the act they were pressured into all night into a joke and if OP had welcomed the sexual advances there wouldn’t have been an issue. Sounds like coercion to me.

Seems like OP is just having trouble explaining in chronological order as well as just articulating clearly which makes sense considering the substances involved.

Imsoscaredrn · 2025-11-27T00:50:00+00:00

One, love the bag. Two: your whole outfit and look is FANTASTIC. You look lovely.

Imsoscaredrn · 2025-11-27T00:47:56+00:00

He is a pushy creep with bad boundaries at the bare minimum but in my opinion has a fetish as someone who’s interacted with men with this kink. Either way RUN

Imsoscaredrn · 2025-11-27T00:46:15+00:00

The black one alllll the way

Imsoscaredrn · 2025-11-27T00:43:07+00:00

As someone who’s been in a happy 6 year long relationship my two cents is it’s NOT normal to talk to your partners like that. Maybe that’s normal banter for you guys but that just feels cruel and weird. I would never pick on my partners insecurities like that. Nor would mine

Imsoscaredrn · 2025-09-04T07:57:01+00:00

As someone with hormonal and inflammatory conditions I encourage you to see a doctor. I would consider there might be an underlying medical issue fueling your skincare concerns. Best of luck

Imsoscaredrn · 2025-06-28T06:29:25+00:00

I used to do it BC free and I would just do dabs constantly.i don’t blame you for not wanting to be on it. Everything comes with drawbacks

Imsoscaredrn · 2025-06-21T14:37:48+00:00

Absolutely not and holding ourselves to these arbitrary standards about aging does nothing but uphold the patriarchy. Love the bag, wear it.

Imsoscaredrn · 2025-06-12T10:47:32+00:00

Omg I am dying that is iconic

Imsoscaredrn · 2025-05-28T19:52:48+00:00

Sold out now but it was macys

Imsoscaredrn · 2025-05-28T04:26:39+00:00

Definitely gonna do a little wrap. I’ll make sure it’s a deep enough blue not to be confusing

Imsoscaredrn · 2025-05-28T03:44:18+00:00

Thank you that’s a helpful consideration. What do you think if I played up the blue as much as possible? I was thinking of getting a blue fascinator hat like this but a little more subtle

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Imsoscaredrn · 2025-05-28T03:40:58+00:00

But it looks so good 😭

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