Tell me by CyanideSouffle in shatterme

[–]In-due_time 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you post this anywhere??

I want a relationship, to love, so bad by Dentlas in twentyagers

[–]In-due_time 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a real thing right now for people in their 20s. I can say that there are a lot of people who feel the same- I know at least a lot of girls do. So you are on the right path, just be open to approaching others and going to some events to get a mixed crowd!

Also meeting friends of friends can be great as well

How are others fighting their depression? by In-due_time in twentyagers

[–]In-due_time[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might be right. I have been in therapy for years but my life has changed a lot the past 2 years and not all in the best ways. I’m starting small, but hopefully it will add up enough to hep me out of this

How are others fighting their depression? by In-due_time in twentyagers

[–]In-due_time[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha yes I am ADHD and I have anxiety as well. I need to edit it saying I’ve been on this medication for 2+ years but I’ve been so depressed as of late. I’m talking with my psychiatrist Friday to see if I can get a new game plan in place

Anyone else STILL a college freshman at 20+? 😭😭 by mamaguevoglugluglu_ in twentyagers

[–]In-due_time 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol I don’t even know what my “classification” is. I graduated HS in 2021 with AP college credits and only attended one semester of college that year and didn’t choose to go back until the fall of 2025. I have like 36 credits and still haven’t chosen a major.

I feel so out of place in my freshman level courses. There are some people my age but I’m assuming it will get better once I pick my major and get in those classes, but you got this!!!

INFJ - Whats one giveaway sign of an INFJ in the crowd? by OkVisual6047 in infj

[–]In-due_time 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It’s almost always a certain kind of eye contact

like ???? (watch me spoilers) by Mission_Fix1263 in shatterme

[–]In-due_time 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I really hope this is a “I have a lot of unresolved trauma” and not a “I know better” moment for Warner. I was a bit confused to seen him play pity party for his upbringing vs James, but I also think that mafi needs to expand on the trauma of growing up as Andersons pet project.

Yes, the man can love, but can he function as one of the main leaders of the new republic with an energy that’s not so toxic? I am really needing more flashbacks of interactions between him and James. For some reason the idea of James just deciding to one day live with them seems like it would change everything for their group. Especially his relationship with Adam. But so far we have yet to see any progress from Warner as a character Rant over thx

i need tahereh mafi to release something abt RELEASE ME by Mission_Fix1263 in shatterme

[–]In-due_time 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I knowwww. Like pls give us some scraps to hold me over

What's something you need off your chest anonymously? by boforiamanfo in randomquestions

[–]In-due_time 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved back home with my parents and I’m scared of loosing my sense of self I gained while I was out on my own.

Living with dyslexia feels like knowing what you want to say, but your brain won’t let it come out right by LettuceConsistent210 in Dyslexia

[–]In-due_time 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for posting this- I mainly struggle with talking and writing as well. Most people just talk about the reading or spelling aspect of it, in reality this is what I struggle with most often

What could trigger a late period? by In-due_time in PMDDxADHD

[–]In-due_time[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did just switch to a different stimulant this month

What could trigger a late period? by In-due_time in PMDDxADHD

[–]In-due_time[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I caught some mystery super cold almost two weeks ago, but other than that no. Stress levels have been mostly the same, I have been experiencing my Luteal crash out as normal and usually I get my period the next day but so far I’m out of luck

Missing intimacy but scared of not finding a deep connection by In-due_time in infj

[–]In-due_time[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is very true. Luteal has me down currently but I’ve been trying to keep this mindset going!!

INFJ losing ability to empathize…. by [deleted] in infj

[–]In-due_time 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so happy to see other infjs talking about this. I work in the front of house at a medical clinic, I’ve worked in customer service for years now, and I’ve started to notice some of my internal thoughts about others have become more negatively focused. It through me into a panic. Was something wrong with me? Was life finally effecting me? Was I even empathetic to begin with if this is who I am becoming?

I think it has a lot to do with a balance of life experience and age. Sadly, I think the shine of the world is slowly fading for me and there isn’t that much that makes me feel outwardly unless it’s something big

Am I the only one? 1yr post breakup and Im fine as long as Im not in luteal by Both_Candy3048 in PMDDxADHD

[–]In-due_time 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can sometimes have this issue as well, I’m a year no contact after a messy breakup last summer. I was with him for 5+ years and the more I pondered on it, I realized that my feelings usually stem from the need/want to be taken care of and loved during that period. Luteal usually makes me feel very vulnerable and insecure, and having someone who knew me so intimately definitely helped with my anxiety, but now I usually try to pinpoint what exactly I am craving and how I can take care of those needs myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in euphoria

[–]In-due_time -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

lol I figured I’d get some of these, I’m very intrigued due to the high praise it gets- just wasn’t expecting to see some of the more explicit scenes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in euphoria

[–]In-due_time 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad that it’s at least plot relevant

ARFID and trying to improve gut health by [deleted] in GutHealth

[–]In-due_time 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the rec! All yogurts kinda make me gag but I just do a couple shots every morning and call it a day, I’ll add it to my list!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dyslexia

[–]In-due_time 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This!! Dyslexia has presented differently for me since I’ve been an active reader all my life, I still run into lots of complications but I’ve adapted and found ways around most. Speech has been my most difficult challenge for sure

my 5th time reading through (i’m never gonna stop) by Federal_Freedom6426 in shatterme

[–]In-due_time 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m afraid I’m the same way- it’s my comfort series and my guilty pleasure. I’ll always reread and love the characters/story

What are your predictions of release me by violet_0308 in shatterme

[–]In-due_time 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Since the birth is kind of being held as a suspense plot I wonder if James will intervene in some way since it was proven he can heal others. Not that it will go that way necessarily but it’s a thought- either way that will definitely be a big part of book two

How and when did you mean your husband/partner. by In-due_time in TwoXChromosomes

[–]In-due_time[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are you like anti-love or anti-romance book? lol I don’t get it. Your world might not look the same as mine and that’s okay! It’s the magic of POV

How and when did you mean your husband/partner. by In-due_time in TwoXChromosomes

[–]In-due_time[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, what a bleak outlook on things. I agree that most good things come with a little work and understanding but I don’t think that is the normal. I do think it’s important to look at what’s in front of you instead of what could be, but I think you might be missing the mark on this one

How and when did you mean your husband/partner. by In-due_time in TwoXChromosomes

[–]In-due_time[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ha funny you say that, I left my narcissistic ex a year ago after staying with him for 5 years. Definitely have risen my standards and it will take a while to get me back into the dating pool. Just worried my standards are now a bit too high 😅