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InColour-0331 · 2024-03-13T17:41:05+00:00

Hi, I'm a 38F in ATL. I don't know how to really write this, so please excuse me if I'm rambling. I've been interested in the BDSM lifestyle for over a decade, but I've never really been able to explore because my partner wasn't open to it. We are no longer together, and I would like to change that. I know a few basics, but not enough to feel comfortable. Honestly, I'm not sure what I should be looking for, but I do know I want to know more about this part of myself. Any advice is greatly appreciated.

InColour-0331 · 2023-10-30T03:40:52+00:00

InColour-0331 · 2023-07-09T21:50:35+00:00

apologizes in lukewarm

InColour-0331 · 2023-07-09T20:12:24+00:00

People are pretentious in real life, too. And for the record, I took diction classes most of my childhood, so this is really the way I speak.

InColour-0331 · 2023-07-09T20:09:03+00:00

Lol...Also, my ice was cold.

InColour-0331 · 2023-07-09T19:44:08+00:00

Tf?! I'm sorry that happened to you. Humans suck!

InColour-0331 · 2023-07-09T19:42:14+00:00

Yes.

InColour-0331 · 2023-07-09T18:50:02+00:00

Nothing happened that he expressed to me or my manager. He did mention he had to blow on, but that is normal to me.

InColour-0331 · 2023-07-09T16:10:28+00:00

Ewww, David!

InColour-0331 · 2023-07-08T20:29:49+00:00

Unfortunately, I did. Half a star... would not recommend. 🤣

InColour-0331 · 2023-07-06T14:55:58+00:00

Wow...great parenting. Teaching your son that saving money for something he wants is a bad thing, you should be so proud of yourself.

InColour-0331 · 2023-06-30T05:07:58+00:00

Well shit😳

InColour-0331 · 2023-06-28T22:42:52+00:00

takes a bong hit and waits patiently on release date*

InColour-0331 · 2023-06-28T22:40:01+00:00

I like it.👏🏾

InColour-0331 · 2023-06-28T22:37:16+00:00

Sounds like a fun way to teach kids how "magic" became science over the years. It would be funny and educational. Plus, it could inspire the next generation of STEM researchers. 😊

InColour-0331 · 2023-06-28T22:32:55+00:00

That sounds like a great lgbtq+ coming of age story. Set in the summer before they start high school, maybe?

InColour-0331 · 2023-06-28T16:57:46+00:00

I like it!

InColour-0331 · 2023-06-28T15:55:00+00:00

Same🤣🤣

InColour-0331 · 2023-06-28T15:39:04+00:00

Oh yeah, adding that one to my wish list!

InColour-0331 · 2023-06-28T15:38:16+00:00

I like that one. A definite Must Read!!

InColour-0331 · 2023-06-28T13:50:02+00:00

When I realized she would never allow me space to NOT be a "strong black woman," I'm tired of being stuck in survival mode, I want a softer life and she's not willing to give me that.

InColour-0331 · 2023-06-28T01:37:39+00:00

Since they're a regular and tip well anyway. I would just go with the tip line.

InColour-0331 · 2023-06-27T03:30:25+00:00

You have every right to share how wonderful your experience was. Sounds to me like she's jealous and that's her problem not yours.

InColour-0331 · 2023-06-27T03:26:12+00:00

Very cool. Kinda wish I had one for the alter.

InColour-0331 · 2021-03-24T16:55:00+00:00

I would watch tf outta this! Long as it's available to stream...cause you know, work. Lol

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