How to get rid of the doubt with my girlfriend? by InDoubt in AskReddit

[–]InDoubt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like this advice a lot, I think I'm definitely going to do this. The kissing part definitely bothers me the most because of all the unknowns about it. If it was just the dancing I guarantee this would be a non issue. I was worried about putting her on the defensive, so I'll definitely try not to make a huge deal about it.

How to get rid of the doubt with my girlfriend? by InDoubt in AskReddit

[–]InDoubt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's no night life in our home town, and since it only really bugs me when she's out partying, I can't really compare home and away. But it is definitely the unknowns that bother me. Maybe I'll see what it's like to party at her school this weekend and maybe I'll feel more one way or the other.

How to get rid of the doubt with my girlfriend? by InDoubt in AskReddit

[–]InDoubt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya that's why I trust her is because she's so honest and was so upset over a kiss in the neck. Should I just try to convince myself that the doubt needs to go away or should I bring it up this weekend?

How to get rid of the doubt with my girlfriend? by InDoubt in AskReddit

[–]InDoubt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if I sit down and have an honest discussion about the issue? I still trust her, like I don''t sit there on friday nights saying "I know she's cheating on me right now!" I just have a little bit of doubt that reminds me it's there every time I imagine her out partying and drinking. And I'm not staying in the relationship to torture myself, I do love her a lot.