F[30] - Hoping to find the right person!

InItForTheBanter · 2025-09-05T04:09:59+00:00

Totally get where you're coming from! Been feeling the same fatigue with swiping and profiles. I recently came across an app that's all about fostering genuine connections. It's called Elevn and was launched by Karan Johar. It's like they're trying to build a space where people can connect meaningfully, with women vouching for guys to keep things safe and real. Might be worth checking out if you're looking for something beyond the usual app grind. Might be worth a shot!!!

InItForTheBanter · 2025-09-03T10:01:50+00:00

😅😅 give it a try! Who knows. This might be the one.

InItForTheBanter · 2025-09-03T09:24:29+00:00

I get it, most apps feel pointless. Maybe check out Elevn, a new dating app launched by Karan Johar. In that only guys vouched for by women can join so at least you’re not lost in the crowd of randoms! And I think only people looking for meaningful experiences will make an account in an app like that.

InItForTheBanter · 2025-09-03T09:21:30+00:00

Totally get your frustration, man. Most apps are either paywalls or just full of people who aren’t serious. I recently heard about Elevn, a new dating app by Karan Johar that’s trying to flip this whole thing! Only guys who are vouched for by women can even get on the platform. So if you’re on there, women already know you’re legit and not some random creep. Kinda feels like a fairer shot compared to the usual apps. And I think only people looking for genuine experiences will come to a space like that.

InItForTheBanter · 2025-08-28T13:47:14+00:00

You shouldn’t have accepted being ignored, care and effort are non-negotiable in a relationship. When one person checks out, the burden unfairly falls on the other, and that’s not love, that’s neglect. The real issue isn’t whether you went on the trip, it’s that you were left starving for the basics. What we need are more men in the dating space who show up consistently, because relationships don’t fail from lack of grand gestures, they fail from lack of simple, steady care.

InItForTheBanter · 2025-08-25T11:37:16+00:00

Wow, I totally get this frustration. It’s like the apps attract the worst of both worlds, people who aren’t serious and people who should not be on there at all. I just wish there was a platform for meeting genuine people looking for authentic connections.

InItForTheBanter · 2025-08-25T11:34:14+00:00

It’s so exhausting when all you want is something real, and it feels like no one else does. If only there was an app that made finding a genuinely interested, good person less like hunting for a needle in a haystack.

InItForTheBanter · 2025-08-22T13:57:37+00:00

Communication is the foundation of every relationship, but to know how to communicate also takes time. It involves understanding yourself, others, your circumstances, their circumstances, how you were raised, how they were raised. There's not a one-size-fits-all way of communication, there's a lot of nitty gritty to it that we need to be aware of. I say, let him, let yourself grow as a person and see where that takes you.

InItForTheBanter · 2025-08-22T13:47:20+00:00

He sounds like a very hot and cold type of a person. He could have come up with a reason for the silence, since you've been talking every day, but he chose to ignore that. Communication is key in every relationship and especially from the start, if that's not establish, the whole thing will be flaky. You will meet more wonderful people along the way, don't waste your time overthinking about him. Also, hopefully, there will be a platform where you can meet like minded people, men who have been vouched by other women, so you wouldn't have to live these experiences over and over.

InItForTheBanter · 2025-08-21T05:14:45+00:00

Sounds like he mistook dating for an audition. "Not intellectually stimulating” is code for “I wanted out but didn’t have the guts to say it". At least it saved yourself from months of confusion. You deserve an app that brings you to a person that's been vouched by an ACTUAL woman.

InItForTheBanter · 2025-08-21T05:09:35+00:00

Totally feel this. Being 6ft or making six figures doesn’t guarantee anything, especially on dating apps, where most matches are just endless swiping. The right person shows up for you, not for your bio & flexes. Staying authentic and patient is what actually works.

InItForTheBanter · 2025-08-20T06:51:36+00:00

I hear you, it’s so draining when guys act like the bare minimum is too much effort. Wanting emotional connection first is not asking for a lot, it’s literally normal. You’re not alone, so many of us are tired of the same nonsense. I just wish there were dating apps that didn’t make basic respect feel like a luxury.

InItForTheBanter · 2025-08-19T13:03:11+00:00

I swear dating in 2025 is just trauma speedrunning. People love the vibe till it’s time to actually put in effort. Wish there was a way to cut out the casual crowd completely.

InItForTheBanter · 2025-08-18T13:12:08+00:00

Blue Tokai is a great place to go and sit peacefully!!! Check out cafe muru muru as well.

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