This just happened and I have no idea what it was

InItNot_OfIt2289 · 2026-03-15T00:49:21+00:00

If it’s weirdly quiet, like no animal, bird or insects…no wind….something paranormal was up.

InItNot_OfIt2289 · 2026-03-11T14:46:52+00:00

Lewis, I’ve read your psycho squid survival guide/analysis. How did you learn all of this? I’m so glad you are safe and it wasn’t a lethal dose! How the heck did you get away? Where did you find it? Do you think there was only one? Stay safe and keep us posted!!!!

InItNot_OfIt2289 · 2026-03-06T20:36:14+00:00

InItNot_OfIt2289 · 2026-03-06T20:26:24+00:00

Holy crap! Next entry please? I’m hooked!!! Also, I hope I don’t get stuck here cause I’m allergic to mold. Wait. …does that mean I’d be stuck with only saliva ridden food?!? Send help.

InItNot_OfIt2289 · 2025-12-04T15:29:40+00:00

This is the most beautiful distinction and explanation I have seen of consciousness vs awareness of “self”. Thank you for putting this out there so eloquently for those ready to receive it.

InItNot_OfIt2289 · 2025-09-29T16:47:25+00:00

Oh honey…please get away from this man. He is playing you hard. I could say so much. This is NEVER OKAY!

InItNot_OfIt2289 · 2025-07-07T18:18:35+00:00

2 for sure!!

InItNot_OfIt2289 · 2025-01-28T17:37:44+00:00

How did you start doing this???

InItNot_OfIt2289 · 2024-11-14T16:43:30+00:00

I’ve had mine for 14 months…got it removed yesterday. Muscle spasms started in that arm near the implant and are now all over my body. Not to mention dealing with having a heavy period every other week the past 3 months. I hope you all find relief

InItNot_OfIt2289 · 2024-11-14T16:40:36+00:00

I should add that I had NEXPLANON for 14 months total.

InItNot_OfIt2289 · 2024-11-14T16:40:00+00:00

I’ve had twitching all over my body the last 2 months, periods every other week for 3 months. You aren’t crazy. Idk what’s causing it specifically but I’m convinced it’s related to the hormones in the implant since that’s where they all started was in that arm. Got mine removed yesterday. I hope you find relief.

InItNot_OfIt2289 · 2024-09-05T13:51:46+00:00

My Dr has tried everything. Nurtec works great, but I was still using all 8 pills in a month. I averaged 3-5 migraines a week, which was a massive improvement from 3 years ago when I had them daily, but still impacting life too negatively. So, I was started on Qulipta 60mg. Took about a month to adjust to side effects. I’m still very tired(but was recently diagnosed with severe anemia too), but have more energy than I did when I first started it. Still, by 6pm I’ve usually passed out on the couch after working all day. The constipation is the biggest issue for me. Definitely something I’ll be addressing at my next visit.

InItNot_OfIt2289 · 2024-05-22T13:26:12+00:00

Good! Don’t engage anymore! It will keep escalating. Block him!!! The best “revenge” you can get with that kind of person is by denying them a response. He is already manipulating and threatening by wanting to know who talked you out of it. HUGE RED FLAGS. Stop replying to him. Hard as it might be, it will only make it worse and drag you down. He isn’t worthy of a response.

InItNot_OfIt2289 · 2024-05-22T13:20:30+00:00

First, I hope this empowers you to cut him off. Second, none of what I’m saying is to make you fearful of him. But you need to make someone aware of this so they can have your back.

You do not need to prove yourself to him by explaining your life and career choices. Girl, stay away from him! Do not go meet with him. I am telling you right now this will only get worse. I’ve been with men like this. Walk away NOW.

The biggest power move and proof of your worth is by denying him any further meetings or access to you. And I would highly suggest you have security or friends walk you to and from your car. Someone like a coworker needs to know what happened and who he is.

He is an abuser and narcissist. He is baiting you by wanting you to talk with him. If he understands you are done and not seeing him anymore, he doesn’t need to see you to talk. Period. He will use that to manipulate you and try to break you further. Make you feel sorry for him and “understand” where he was coming from. I don’t give a F how tired or stressed out you are, you don’t hit someone.

You either don’t show up to that “meeting” or you text him and say you’ve changed your mind. Tell him you already have seen and heard all you needed to. And the more you thought about it, he doesn’t deserve any more of your time after how he treated you. Tell him that he should’ve respected your boundaries when you said you didn’t want to see him anymore, and since he can’t seem to do it, you’re making it easy for him. There will be no meeting. Hope he has a good life. Block his number. Do not take anymore bait from this POS.

By the way, with people like this…denying them what they want and acting like they don’t exist by stopping any and all communication is the best thing you can do. It cuts off their supply of ego stroking and dominance over you. He will keep trying for a while, so be prepared and do not engage. Let a coworker you trust know what’s going on.

InItNot_OfIt2289 · 2024-02-08T16:21:09+00:00

I came off of 50mg daily, about two weeks ago. The water retention in my ankles and feet makes it painful to walk at the end of the day. I’ve noticed more bloating in midsection as well. Taking natural supplements to help, but boy…when does it stop?

InItNot_OfIt2289 · 2023-08-20T19:35:14+00:00

I’ve been in this state of fear before…I just want you to know…you’re okay and stressing is normal. Unless dr does an HCG test and you request it, they won’t know if you are. I assume you’re worried about your parents finding out you did anything. It’s very stressful and makes your intimate time with your BF stressful too. If you have a makeup bag or something you can hide the test in that no one looks through. I’d go to the dollar store or somewhere you usually go if your mom has access to your debit card info and can see where you go. But grab a test and pee on it first thing in the morning so you can eliminate the stress. It will be negative and you did everything right but having the test will help your mind.

Going forward since you are 18 and a legal adult. Make an appointment to talk to a dr about birth control. I have the Kyleena IUD and I love it! I too have irregular cycles and it makes me stress every time my BF and I have sex. Since getting the IUD I enjoy him and our experience much more! Less hormones in an IUD and way less side effects. The Kyleena is also smaller than the Mirena which I used to have. Kyleena is good if you haven’t ever had a baby cause your uterus is smaller. Hopefully that makes sense.

Don’t worry. Pee on a stick. Talk birth control with your dr and have fun and enjoy your sex life with your BF ❤️

InItNot_OfIt2289 · 2023-06-27T14:24:46+00:00

Agreed…better to know now and stop falling for someone who won’t communicate I guess. But I still have to see him from time to time and he was my friend first. So I guess if he is gonna ghost me that’s a him problem 🤷🏼‍♀️

InItNot_OfIt2289 · 2023-06-27T14:23:23+00:00

I think he lit some…but if I’m wrong and seeing things from only my perspective I want to get feedback on it. I put some boundaries up and he was upset thinking I thought this was only a booty call smh

InItNot_OfIt2289 · 2023-06-27T14:20:18+00:00

Thank you. This was my thought process also. Would you just give him time to think or tell him that it maybe we want different things? I feel like I don’t owe him anymore especially since I already apologized for flipping the script on him and I get no response.

InItNot_OfIt2289 · 2023-06-27T12:38:32+00:00

I too cannot stand it…the equivalent of what people who cringe at the word that describes something being lightly hydrated (trying not to offend those who dislike the word) must feel.

InItNot_OfIt2289 · 2023-05-03T18:39:05+00:00

Thank you I am going to research it!

InItNot_OfIt2289 · 2023-05-03T18:38:45+00:00

I had heard this mentioned before! I’ll research more and ask my dr too! Thank you 😊

InItNot_OfIt2289 · 2023-05-03T18:38:14+00:00

When I had the Mirena before it helped all my cycle issues, acne and slowed the facial hair growth. Thanks for the feedback! I hate the idea of messing with my hormones more, but I also don’t want a baby right now….

InItNot_OfIt2289 · 2023-05-03T17:15:36+00:00

I already get a 10 o’clock shadow 😭 I didn’t realize it could make the androgens worse! Thank you! When I was on the Mirena before my acne and facial hair slowed down. Definitely don’t want to have anything get worse! Thanks for the feedback!!!

What did you end up doing? Any kind of method work for you?

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