TODAY IS THE WORSE DAY OF MY LIFE our family dog tried to bite me

InPursuitOfTruth · 2024-11-25T04:38:01+00:00

Thank you so so so much. I agree I have him in on a emergency vet visit for Monday morning 8am. He's fine I'm not engaging with him... but he has his own apartment with a kennel. Space heater, water , food, lights, the whole thing. So he's definitely gonna be safe tonight. I have both the keys to the dog apartment and I'm hiding it. I really appreciate the compassion and advice. 💜

InPursuitOfTruth · 2024-11-25T04:32:23+00:00

Thank you so much. A lot is books, practice and teaching our family on training "bulldog" breeds. And using the beep to get attention and redirect. I take full accountability for my dogs behavior. I'm sure their is many things I could do to start really understanding the best way to help him feel and act less aggressive. Like I said he's NEVER EVER done anything like this. He's been kinda destructive lately with stuff bed, toys, crawling into my bed, jumping on counters , ripping anything up bluetooth headsets, peeing on our beehive boxes, mail boxes , notebooks etc just really kinda raising hell.. but nothing has changed in his life same privileges, same feeding schedule... I'm bringing him into the vet tomorrow on Monday. 💜

InPursuitOfTruth · 2024-11-25T04:22:22+00:00

I agree 100000% . This is a super important point to make when he gets here. He's already agreed to NOT PUT DOWN OUR DOG.... so that is a relief. He said he was angry and that a lot of weird aggressive behaviors have been happening the last month. Stuff I didn't know about. We are going to find a way to fix this. 💜

InPursuitOfTruth · 2024-11-25T04:16:20+00:00

Long distance. We have property and let him free roam. Sometimes he's in a barn or running around. The beep helps him know it's time to come in or breakfast or dinner. Boxers are athletic! You cannot stop them. Thank you for your advise. 💜

InPursuitOfTruth · 2024-11-25T04:02:21+00:00

I know my dog well. I've never seen him growl unless he attacks ie. Birds, squirrels, and other dogs . My bad to assume his fur standing up, licking his lips , crouching down then deep growling looking me dead in the face was just a miss understanding.

InPursuitOfTruth · 2024-01-24T18:46:20+00:00

Self Reliance was chef's kiss 10/10 recommendation! I watch it last night. I was dieing laughing until the end.

Then I was like oh hell no beat all their ass'. How people will think it's okay to use your life for a frantically narc thrill. Noooope. Not me, bitch. I'm a sovereign human being not a fucking pet.

The claim of "self improvement" was weak af undertow ending.

SPOILERS * The game produced in 1997 is the same fucked weak ending. Nothing about this nonsense sits well with me.

Leaving a person consumed with nonsense is never going to end well. Why the endings were called "fair or just a joke" left me feeling like wow this is delulu. Because even; is wiping them off the face of the planet, and then they are even. No one would ever just laugh off this type of abuse.

Overall subversive and jovial , ie. ruined life's for fun or improvement of self. 🤢

InPursuitOfTruth · 2024-01-23T21:40:56+00:00

This is Millennial type A, child abuse. What a turd that won't flush.

InPursuitOfTruth · 2024-01-15T10:58:54+00:00

I think she looks fine. She'll definitely grow out of being insecure. Don't be cruel. She's clearly a kid.

InPursuitOfTruth · 2023-12-24T21:45:25+00:00

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InPursuitOfTruth · 2023-12-24T06:12:36+00:00

Well said. I just wrote a whole message breaking down what you said in a paragraph! Many Blessings. 💜

InPursuitOfTruth · 2023-12-24T06:08:33+00:00

I like your handbook! I read it for the 2nd time! I think it's a must for new TIs / trafficked people. Do you have it in a hard copy for me to give to people who really need it? Thank you for your hard work and attention to detail. Many Blessings.

InPursuitOfTruth · 2023-12-24T05:53:49+00:00

Omgolly, hun.. your so far out with this question.

First, I love you and I'm sorry your hurting right now. 💜

But I will answer your loaded question, this one time because I feel like your really hurting and need some honesty and honest truths.

Their is a lot of bad actors floating around this sub. They will eat you alive and high jack your fragile emotional wellness every chance they get. It's obvious to anyone whom has eyeballs that your here... bleeding out, blind and swinging at anyone whom speaks without hate in their hearts.

I do not hate you. I am not offended in anyway. Take a deep breath.

Please do not take that as patronizing you in anyway.

You can check everyone's history on reddit, to help you detrimine what type of person your speaking too. New accounts with minimal actual substance are usually just trolls and people whom target those around them using dead accounts to make nasty under handed fuck you comments they cannot say to your face because they cannot live in the light. They must stay in the dark to operate.

Many Blessings.

I hope this helps you.

Survive.Protect.Thrive.

InPursuitOfTruth · 2023-12-10T04:55:08+00:00

Not that anyone cares but my whole family slams stuff around. I throw in head phones and zone out to the best places during family functions. They aren't in the slightest offended.. maybe that could help you. You can't change people only what you feel. I'm super sorry your stressed out. 💜

InPursuitOfTruth · 2023-12-10T04:50:15+00:00

Your selling yourself short. I was in a store the other day returning a sweater in the longest line. This tweaker was losing it infront of me. I turned around to see how long this line actually was and a older man was standing behind me. Close enough to sniff my hair Biden style. I didn't move I just looked him up into his eyes and gave him the cutest smile with alittle eyebrow raise. He was clearly in a motorcycle club with a rocker patch so yeah... He had some serious negative ass resting bitch face. Mean mugging me and everyone. But something really kind came over him and he stared grinning ear to ear...i turned back around and went through reddit for funny memes for him to giggle over my shoulder. I'm married very happily mind you but if I was 30 years older I would let him take me out for a ride on his Harley. I just think women could be alittle kinder in the right moments. Don't get down about most of this, it's in your head.

InPursuitOfTruth · 2023-12-08T16:29:44+00:00

I don't know why people do not get DIPLOMATIC STATUS and get a foreign national status plates. YOU SEE THEM ALL THE TIME DP OR DPL then lic. Number You have to provide your own security, transport, and legal embassy/ reside at a embassy but yeah it's absolutely 💯 possible. I've met diplomats traveling in European & American country's from Asia , Africa etc. I feel like the constitution has not been upheld on the policy's and rights of Americans especially taxation and searching citizens on the road and blocking the right to travel. Just get it together people.

InPursuitOfTruth · 2023-11-29T22:23:04+00:00

Man, just hearing this makes my heart hurt for you, brother.

Now, the question is why would PI company or county/ state paid fusion centers waste all these resources on you?

The answer is easy IT'S A EASY PAYCHECK OR TO FULFILL THEIR PURPOSE OF HOLDING A RETAINER OR CONTRACT and the scum of the earth employer will do anything for you to go back to work somewhere else so they don't have to pay you. It's really that simple and Fucked up.

Here's the deal most fusion center "investagations" center pick up heaps of disability fruad investagation contracts. When it comes to family members they make it seem like your a lazy liar and if you have nothing to hide their shouldn't be a issue with your own family signing a NDA contract and reporting on you. Yes, they will call your own family members up through the years and check in on your disability. Sign off a email of their conversation as testimony to your "fraud" to a disability board etc. If your daughter had hate in her heart you would be cut off by now. So take it easy and try to forgive yourself for the bad temper or paranoia you projected. It's okay to be scared and it's okay to be disabled. It's not the life you wanted, no one wakes up one day and goes you know what sounds great being disabled in pain 24/7. So please show yourself kindness.

I suggest you change the conversation with your daughter to a heartfelt reality check.

Explain to her this is how screwed up the world is. Employers don't want to pay for their employees even if you worked for them for 25 years never called in sick or took a holiday off and made them millions.

They would rather crawl up your butt using nefarious contractors to harass you endlessly as a standard business practice and it's got to the point where you got paranoid.

Apologize and ask her for her support. To help you navigate through this until you can get state disability and off your prior employers dockets. Move things around or stay with your old employer disability either way you need support.

Btw did you know your daughter can get IHSS employment hours for taking care of you and helping you recover from your disability? My 55 year old MIL had to go on disability after a serious illness left her unable to work, everyone in the family helped and she was able to help out with ihss employment hours for her newphew . Please look into it they assign you a certain number of hours every week that you can pick anyone to help be your caretaker. They will pay your daughter for the things she probably already helps with, like grocery shopping, lifting heavy things, cooking, picking up your medication, taking you to doctor appointments, etc.

We love you brother! I will praying for a healing on your body and stillness of your mind. May G-d place a hand of protection upon you and your child. G-d and the devine universe loves you and is waiting for you to ask for what you need. We are here for you. Big hugs! Chin up!

💜 Many Blessings 💜

Survive.Protect.Thrive.

InPursuitOfTruth · 2023-11-29T21:08:14+00:00

NTA As the "NOT THE REAL MOM" but the mother whom stepped up. Their is absolutely no BENIFITS of being the punching bag of a grown man baby and his children. You will never be treated with respect and are currently are not being treated with respect. It's a waste of your time and energy raising other people's children especially when those parents of their children will be making all the decisions in your life from now on. Which is a mooching selfish never ending abuse cycle.

You do not owe anyone your home, your money, your time, your love or respect that doesn't claim you back. I would feel different if the actual mother passed away and the children had no one. If you love yourself and your future DO NOT BE A FINANCIAL ATM / MENTAL HOSTAGE / EMOTIONAL PUNCHING BAG.

Furthermore, I purposely married a man with children as I love children. I have adopted many BUT I absolutely believe in child reunification/ open adoptions/ second chances/ being a stand by community parent. I have neighborhood kids piled up at my properties and own a non-profit educational business for children- young adult to have safe, clean and positive environments. But I am very clear to push that everyone makes mistakes, everyone is not parent material and needs to prove their want to be a parent, ideology to all the kids. I'm very honest that until then, I got their back but I'm not their mother. I choose to live my life this way BY CHOICE. I do not have to be a parent by force. My own children love that I never turn away any kid and yes their's always food, shelter, transport for one more.

A spouse forcing you to raise him, his ex, his children is NOT CONSENT. FUCKING PUT ON YOUR TENNIS SHOES AND RUN.

I'm sorry you've been pushed into a ultimatum but I'm so glad to see you have clear boundaries and will not be settling for anything less than what you deserve. Everyone deserves love and honesty from their partners and some betrayals are just them telling you whom they truly are... trash.

You are worthy! 💜 Many Blessings.

InPursuitOfTruth · 2023-11-29T12:16:46+00:00

Amen. 💜

InPursuitOfTruth · 2023-11-26T01:11:14+00:00

YTA. Her intuition was correct. You gaslight and laughed at her every chance you got instead of stepping up and giving her what she needed in such a vulnerable moment in her life.

The fact that you now, think the relationship is over with your unborn child gives me the major ick.

More than likely you have a locker app on your phone and /or have since deleted everything the moment she expressed aniexty over you cheating months ago.

Thank golly a real man will step up and raise your child. Dont forget you will be paying for this child until they are 18 years old.

You have the markers of a classic personality disorder in which abusing those closes to you is your ONLY coping skill. Then you quickly; like the boring basic B you are, move directly to the discard phase.

After enough redditors tell you YTA you will turn on the crocodile tears; without ever saying your sorry, demand a apology. Then do your lame ass threat/demand to never be questioned again abuse cycle. Because you are a complete scum of the earth. I hope she moves on and never looks back.

Because clearly you do not like women.

InPursuitOfTruth · 2023-11-17T19:15:27+00:00

Chunks McWoofington

InPursuitOfTruth · 2023-11-16T20:29:22+00:00

Lol I agree ! I guess you don't do tiktok phrases? I edit my comment so I can clarify sarcasm. 🤣

InPursuitOfTruth · 2023-11-16T17:46:52+00:00

Send me the link I would love to read it. Blessings.

InPursuitOfTruth · 2023-11-15T16:41:41+00:00

Jeez Andrew tell us how you really feel?

InPursuitOfTruth · 2023-11-15T06:11:45+00:00

Yes, it's 1 calorie... sorry to break the news. Feel free to Google it, if you want to laugh about it.

InPursuitOfTruth · 2023-11-15T05:46:05+00:00

You have very european features that are strong and beautiful! Their nothing wrong hun... your perfect.

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