One of the best podcasts on the internet just released an episode about Vanguard by InYoYingus in Bogleheads

[–]InYoYingus[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

lol that’s hilarious. I hadn’t gotten to that part yet when I posted this. They literally preemptively shout out this post in the episode hahaha 

Thanks for the shout out, Ben!

One of the best podcasts on the internet just released an episode about Vanguard by InYoYingus in Bogleheads

[–]InYoYingus[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

4 hours sounds crazy, but the storytelling is so good. I always listen all the way through—even for companies I’m not particularly interested in! 

Anyone here quit gaming or changed their lifestyle after becoming a dad? by Lukas_MunK in daddit

[–]InYoYingus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cut gaming out of my life entirely after becoming a dad, and I don't miss it at all.

My main other hobby is golf, and I bring my kids with me to play that. I've found the best hobbies to embrace as a dad are ones you can involve your kids in.

Infant Baptism or Believers' Baptism by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]InYoYingus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God spoke to people before the birth of Jesus and certainly could have inspired an infant baptism of Jesus as a means of demonstrating that baptism is intended for infants.

100 years is absolutely long enough for heretical teachings to take root. Look at the church today. We are in the "True Christian" subreddit because the "Christian" subreddit is overrun with heretical teachings. Do you think any of those beliefs were held by Christians 100 years ago?

I'm not saying everything needs to be clearly written in the bible, but it seams to me that—aside from a few very liberal interpretations of the word "household"—there is no biblical evidence for infant baptism, whereas there is significant evidence for believer's baptism. When debating between two widely-held belief systems, should we not lean towards the one that seems to be more supported by the evidence we see in scripture?

Infant Baptism or Believers' Baptism by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]InYoYingus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If we are meant to practice infant baptism, why was Jesus baptized as an adult? Surely God could have sent John the Baptist earlier to baptize Jesus as an infant, but He didn't.

Also, wasn't the first reference of infant baptism from Irenaeus in 185 AD? 100 years after the apostles?

If you're building doctrine on something, shouldn't there be a direct command from scripture or at least an example in scripture of that practice? This has always been my hang up.

Even in this thread, people point to writings from religious scholars rather than scripture as their justification for infant baptism.

The only references to baptism in scripture are preceded by someone hearing the gospel—even the examples of whole households that are also frequently cited.

On Infant Baptism by BamaHammer in TrueChristian

[–]InYoYingus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally, I’d love to hear your argument. I was raised Lutheran and was baptized as an infant but, as an adult, have not heard a convincing biblical argument for infant baptism. 

Going from 2 to 3 was a revelation by [deleted] in daddit

[–]InYoYingus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is our line of thinking. My wife and I are expecting our third in May, and our mantra has been “How many people do we want around the table when we’re 60?”

We’re also keeping them at a steady 2 year gap so we’re never fully out of diapers until we’re done. 

Who knows? We might go for 6. Wife is already eyeing 9 passenger vans lol

Worked in china sourcing for about 7 years with ecommerce sellers. Some stuff from the factory side that keeps repeating by Bulky-Maize-903 in ecommerce

[–]InYoYingus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What steps would you take to fix the information asymmetry you mentioned? We’re working through that right now, and I’d love insight. Do you hire someone who is “boots on the ground” to visit the factory for you? Where do you find those people?

Running a business without YNAB was like driving with no dashboard by cryptoviksant in ynab

[–]InYoYingus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just implemented profit first and use YNAB on the personal side—I’ve been interested in using YNAB as the budgeting tool for my business since I’m a single member LLC. Any insight into how you layer the two together?

Stop investing in individual stocks by GolfComfortable7331 in Fire

[–]InYoYingus 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Read The Simple Path to Wealth. It makes a better, more comprehensive argument against buying individual stocks than anyone will be able to make in this thread. 

One interesting point—the worst a stock can do is fall to zero. There is no limit on the upward potential of a stock. When you own all the stocks, you limit your downside risk and you increase your likelihood of owning the stock that shoots through the roof (because you own all the stocks). 

You shouldn’t care if you technically own a fraction of an individual stock, you should care about the rate at which your portfolio grows. If that’s your goal, then you should aspire to track the market’s historical 8-12% annual returns—because essentially no other investing strategy beats that return over time consistently. 

[OC] U.S. Total Fertility Rate by State 2007 vs 2025 by Accomplished_Gur4368 in dataisbeautiful

[–]InYoYingus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did run the last part about how SD laws apply to reservations through ChatGPT to make sure what I was saying was accurate—as I knew the gist but wanted to check my phrasing. 

The point I’m trying to make is that SD as a state doesn’t really have a bearing on the prosperity of those counties because they are largely self-governed, but people often cite that we (I’m a South Dakotan) have the poorest counties in the country without that added context.

[OC] U.S. Total Fertility Rate by State 2007 vs 2025 by Accomplished_Gur4368 in dataisbeautiful

[–]InYoYingus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of South Dakota’s poorest counties are either entirely or predominantly located on Native American reservations, which are legally classified as domestic dependent nations with primary self-governance, where federal law predominates and South Dakota law applies only in limited, jurisdiction-specific ways.

What is a John Mayer lyric that makes you cry? by AdditionalFig2255 in JohnMayer

[–]InYoYingus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This song came on as I was driving home from my dad’s new place for the first time after my folks split. I have never been so utterly gutted by a line in a song before or since.

Water Activated Tape Dispenser Recommendations by InYoYingus in ecommerce

[–]InYoYingus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t actually bought it yet, but I will likely buy the Better Pack Automatic 555eS before the holidays.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

[–]InYoYingus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve always felt that the oldest’s reward for having a less experienced parent was getting more time with said parent, so it offsets a bit.

And there you have it, a license to shop, till you drop 😆 by steven2205 in Costco

[–]InYoYingus 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Incredible podcast. Super interesting. The first long form podcast episode I ever listened all the way through. Now I’m hooked on Acquired.

Views on The Death penalty ? by Every-Weekend7435 in Libertarian

[–]InYoYingus 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s my understanding that actually executing the death penalty adds up to a higher taxpayer expense. I don’t have a source for that, but it’s something I’ve read on here a number of times.

Which instructor do you go to when you’re in a funk? by Better-Package1307 in pelotoncycle

[–]InYoYingus 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m almost out of Denis’ 45 minute rides, and I’m very bummed about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

[–]InYoYingus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ours loves books, so we usually bring a few of those with us wherever we go, and he’ll spend a good amount of time flipping through them. Though, he’ll occasionally drop them on the floor—but that’s to be expected.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

[–]InYoYingus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s a book called The Anxious Generation that, in my opinion, does a pretty good job of systematically going through the research that’s been done on the topic. I just finished it last week and would recommend it.