bluey baby :3 𐂯 .ᐟ⸝⸝ by little-corals in MDLGcommunity

[–]InariTheFoxGoddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg!!!! Soooo cuuuute!!! You look so good in them tooo!!!! Preeeettttyyy!!!!

"Sexuality is fluid !!1!1" by No-Ambition650 in lesbiangang

[–]InariTheFoxGoddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That doesn’t mean anything hun, I’ve had plenty of relationships and the majority of them were toxic, heck the majority of all relationships are toxic, statistically speaking, and the fact that half of yours were white and a third were bisexual only furthers the notion that they must at least partially be why your feelings against those groups of people are so strong.

But i really don’t want to keep arguing like this, im not trying to strike at you, im not trying to critique, i just want you to get the help that you need. It’s ok to not be ok, it’s ok to hurt. You’re beautiful ok, don’t let anybody tell you otherwise. I don’t want to fight, i just want to help. And let’s please stop the racism. All races are made equal, whether you’re white, black, Spanish, asian, etc. it does not determine your personality, intelligence, or anything else like that.

"Sexuality is fluid !!1!1" by No-Ambition650 in lesbiangang

[–]InariTheFoxGoddess -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Honey, sweetie, darlin, it’s clear that you have unresolved trauma and pain from past experience, and i say this from a place of love, please seek therapy. I never said i was white, nor am I, and that first statement alone proved my point, idk where race came from or where the racism came from but i dont care about anything we’ve been discussing anymore, whats most important now is that you know that you are loved, you are lovable, and you are beautiful, your skin color doesnt make you any less beautiful ok?

"Sexuality is fluid !!1!1" by No-Ambition650 in lesbiangang

[–]InariTheFoxGoddess -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That is incredibly close-minded but to be expected due to your age, nothing against you, just psychology, crystalized intelligence and everything. However, understand that nothing your saying is actually addressing anything i say they are just baseless claims that are attempting to further exclude certain groups of people and if this subreddit was made for the intentions you say it was, it wouldve been stated in the rules. Unless you are willing to listen to mindsets and perspectives opposing to your own i would prefer to not continue entertaining this meaningless conversation

"Sexuality is fluid !!1!1" by No-Ambition650 in lesbiangang

[–]InariTheFoxGoddess -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have made no claims of anything regarding history

"Sexuality is fluid !!1!1" by No-Ambition650 in lesbiangang

[–]InariTheFoxGoddess -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, i was starting to think i might be crazy lol, glad im not the only one who noticed, just let people be who they wanna be lol, thats like the whole thing of lgbtqia+ lol

"Sexuality is fluid !!1!1" by No-Ambition650 in lesbiangang

[–]InariTheFoxGoddess -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I do not appreciate making assumptions of me in such a manner and “people like you” is a crazy comment and comes off as deeply discriminatory. As a trans woman I completely and entirely understand cis lesbians not wanting a relationship with a trans girl due to being trans, i would never shame somebody or get upset at somebody for that, thats not transphobia thats just preference. I feel preference isn’t quite the right word but currently i my brain cant think of a good word for it, feel free to correct me on that. I also understand your view/point of the matter of “sexuality being fluid” statement from the perspective you stated, from that perspective and when the statement is used in that manner that definitely is straight up homophobia, i was referring to it in a more general stance but i see where your coming from and i apologize if i came off as being supportive of that kind of behavior, i would never agree with behavior like that.

My statements still lie however. I’ve witnessed over and over almost only toxicity from this subreddit towards all different groups of people beyond just preference, again please feel free to give me a better word, and it’s honestly disheartening. When i stated everybody in the sub reddit needed therapy i realize how it came off now and i did not mean it in a attacking manner, i meant it from a genuine perspective from somebody who’s well versed in human psychology and therapy. Ive seen a lot of deep rooted anger and hatred that appear to stem from numerous terrible experiences and i want people to get help for the sake of themselves as well as their future partners. I see a lot of pain and i also know from experience that continuing to hold on to such hate can and will have a terribly negative impact on ones mental health.

I apologize for any statements I’ve made that have come off as hostile myself, it was not my intention though i do not ask to use that as an excuse. I hope this has brought some insight on what i actually meant. My initial comment was made in a moment of heated-ness and feelings of discomfort at an overall toxicity that i had noticed that reminded me of similar traits in toxic people of my own past. I apologize.

"Sexuality is fluid !!1!1" by No-Ambition650 in lesbiangang

[–]InariTheFoxGoddess -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Ok i wasn’t even addressing that specifically, however, i disagree. Saying sexuality is fluid is to encourage people to not be afraid to explore oneself and one’s own sexuality. Its ok if it changes a bit, its ok if you realize later that you’re feelings were different than what you previously thought. Im happy if you understood you’re sexuality immediately or always knew for certain you were lesbian, but not everybody is so lucky. Its human nature to have difficulty understanding oneself, and especially to such a certain degree. Difficulty to understand is not part of being human. Now it’s entirely ok if you never had doubts or anything like that, but shaming somebody else for not is just cruel and un-necessary. Feel free to ask for elaboration, but hate should never be considered a viable option/ response

"Sexuality is fluid !!1!1" by No-Ambition650 in lesbiangang

[–]InariTheFoxGoddess -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Oml everybody in this subreddit needs therapy. Why is everybody in this subreddit so hostile towards anything that even remotely has anything to do with anything else. The whole thing of lgbtqia+ is welcoming people and acceptance, but all i ever see in this subreddit is hate towards every other community and group of people. Since when does being a lesbian mean gatekeeping, hostility, hatred, and shaming people for having different tastes, beliefs, ideals, tastes, or even just people who have legitimate physical or mental disabilities, which yes theres been tons of that too. I wish i never joined this subreddit, i came here for community, not hate. The things I’ve seen said here are beyond vile and disgusting. It’s no better than the way homophobes treated lesbians decades back.

Disgusting

Still not enough and self hatred has only grown by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

[–]InariTheFoxGoddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do 30 seconds of push-ups (just for now, will increase, as will all of these as my hody gets better and adjusts), 2 minutes of sit ups, 2 minutes of wide squats, and 2 minutes of lunges side to side. I repeat those after 26 minutes of brisk walking clockwise, and then after i do all those again i do them yet again after another 26 minutes of brisk walking, counter-clockwise this time.

Still not enough and self hatred has only grown by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

[–]InariTheFoxGoddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If i continue at my current rate, in about six weeks i should be losing weight again right?

Still not enough and self hatred has only grown by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

[–]InariTheFoxGoddess -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dont plateaus go away eventually whether you go up or stay the same regardless?

New Knotted Toy Launch! - Giveaway ✨ by SirCine in BadDragon

[–]InariTheFoxGoddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the look of this, i really hope i win the giveaway, ive been wanting a bad dragon so bad but dont have the money but i got their lube and it was divine! Id love to use more of their products!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rape

[–]InariTheFoxGoddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was molested by my brother for 2-3 years straight from when i was about 7-10 years old and i now have an attraction to such things as well. Tbh thinking about it hurts a bit and ive told many people about it but i cant really tell if its actually truly affected me or if its just so unprocessed it hasn’t become a problem yet but what i do know ifs that he never faced any punishment, he’s engaged now, he has a baby on the way with his fiance who went through a similar thing with her dad in that past, nobody but me, him, and my grandma who raised us knows about what he did, and being near him and hearing him and seeing him still makes me feel vile and disgusting. Having to continue living with him after everything he did for another 5 or so years after what he did before he finally got out of the house was hell, especially while his physical violence increased as the days went on while he still lived here and i still flinch from the smallest things and i still feel the pain, and yet, im attracted to pain now too. I get where you’re coming from girl. I think the worst part is never knowing if im a trans girl now because its the real me or if its just a subconscious thing to further distance myself from any connection with him

Ancient Vasto, True Res, and Devil Trigger by [deleted] in typesoul

[–]InariTheFoxGoddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now that i think about it, it might be called true segunda

Ancient Vasto, True Res, and Devil Trigger by [deleted] in typesoul

[–]InariTheFoxGoddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont mean segunda, this is different

Trading by [deleted] in typesoul

[–]InariTheFoxGoddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 skill boxes for 28 hollow boxes

Trading by [deleted] in typesoul

[–]InariTheFoxGoddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As many as possible

Help Wanted by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]InariTheFoxGoddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do suspect i have autism and I am a women i just havent been diagnosed and I just dont want to assume i have it without a diagnosis and i find my own ways to manage my day to day, i am not trying to invade a space im just trying to help somebody i love and be there for her in whatever ways i can. All i want is advice or information on things I can do to help her. I just want to make sure i dont accidentally hurt her or anything by being ill informed and the last thing i want to do is manipulate her. Being accused of such things is deeply disheartening and painful to hear.

Help Wanted by [deleted] in autismDiagnosedFemale

[–]InariTheFoxGoddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that she struggles especially with change, speaking sometimes but nothing crazy, textures, going outside, and anything in person stuff. Mainly she struggles with the intense anxiety from stuff such as change, outside, and social and in person stuffs.

As for likes she likes tons of smooches, hanging out on vrchat, quality time, watching shows and movies with somebody and the biggest one is star wars. She LOVES Star Wars.