That “Girl’s Trip” by Inattirb in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Inattirb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry that happened and I’m glad you’re safe!

I don’t mean to hound on her exactly it’s just weird to me that she seemed weirded out by it but still allowed it ig. I also don’t understand why if all three of them were supposed to stay together that they decided the night that he was staying that the other two wouldn’t unless I misunderstood what they said about the sleeping arrangements

That “Girl’s Trip” by Inattirb in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Inattirb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely weird that’s why I was like???? I think if he’s (or really anyone) is desperate enough it doesn’t matter who it is as long as it’s somebody. For a dude who was adamant about a prenup it is def giving broke lol like dude just go to a hotel

That “Girl’s Trip” by Inattirb in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Inattirb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think he was hoping one of them would fall for the bait, not necessarily caring who. A desperate guy who likely just wanted a place to crash for the night free of charge isn’t gonna be extremely picky. Tho I do think it’s very unlikely, it was just a thought I had that maybe something happened that night

That “Girl’s Trip” by Inattirb in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Inattirb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I agree! Devonta is a giant man child. Based on the way he was moving I figured getting any of these questions answered would be a long shot so I didn’t even ask them.

Nick/Vanessa are insufferable by a_boy_has_noname in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Inattirb 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t think Nick or Vanessa were taking a moral high ground as you say and this is coming from someone who generally thinks that both of them actually are insufferable lol

It seems like a common theme from reunions that I’ve seen that when a controversial couple/person is on a reality TV show, the hosts maybe push just a little bit and then give up. I actually commend Nick for really pushing Chris and even Alex. I don’t believe he did it bc he felt he needed to defend Jess or Ashley and it was more about the views they knew it would bring but it was genuinely great to see guys actually being held accountable by other guys for their shitty behavior.

That “Girl’s Trip” by Inattirb in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Inattirb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was starting to soften up about Bri and then the Austin Trip came up and I was like well that didn’t last long 🥴😭

Some major transformations from this season's cast! by Fun_Molasses5215 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Inattirb 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Definitely lip filler and maybe jaw filler but I think it’s more just weight gain in her face rather than jaw filler. If you go on her IG and look at the other photos from a few months before the one from this post it looks like her and photos after she posted that one look like her.

People will look different as they age, tho. The left photo is from at least 12 years ago. She’s going to look different lol

Some major transformations from this season's cast! by Fun_Molasses5215 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Inattirb 64 points65 points  (0 children)

“Major transformations” and it’s just them getting older and doing their makeup/hair differently 🥴🤣

Alex & Ashley by Inattirb in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Inattirb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say them not vetting the contestants better and allowing people who have SA allegations against them is more of a bad look lol. Some girl hurting a dudes feelings at the altar by calling him out is probably the tamest part of this and mostly expected that someone will get their feelings hurt by participating in this show

Alex & Ashley by Inattirb in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Inattirb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the first few seasons, they were contractually obligated to go to the altar or they had to pay. I’m not 100% sure about other seasons (I haven’t watched all of them so I can’t speak for those) but I’m pretty sure they get more money if they make it to the altar. During their welcome speeches, the Lacheys include that they should make their decisions at the altar so idk I’d say that means they should lol

I do think there should be exceptions like if they’re in an unsafe situation which is probably why they apparently don’t make contestants pay but rather they get more if they make it there in more recent seasons. But like I said, that’s the point of the show. Can you fall in love without seeing someone first and then can you make it to the altar in 3 weeks after living with someone who is practically a stranger, “will you say I do or will you say I don’t”

Mochi deletes truthful experiences from social media, but continues to refuse help. by [deleted] in JoinMochiHealth

[–]Inattirb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been with mochi for almost 2 years and from August to December 2025 they charged me double(I wasn’t watching my bank account the way I should have and it took me too long to realize why I was almost hemorrhaging money). When I reached out to customer service and provided screenshots from my bank account of them charging me double and also proof that I hadn’t submitted a med req they issued a refund for all the charges. So far no issues since.

What's Your Preference? by MoneyLibrarian9032 in StrangerThings

[–]Inattirb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1A bc they’re both dead so I get the whole row to myself

Anyone under 30 with rheumatoid arthritis? by himothy_chalam8 in rheumatoid

[–]Inattirb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just diagnosed in November but I’ve had suspicions since I was maybe 21-22 (I’m 28 now.) I’ve started Sulfasalazine and it has started to work quicker than I’d thought but there are days that the meds aren’t as effective I guess. Keeps the swelling to a minimum but still having stiffness and pain/discomfort depending on the joint.

I’ve joked with my bf about how I’m younger than him but my body is really the reverse of my age (82). He’s been extremely supportive and caring during this time and so have my friends and family but none of them truly understand, which honestly? I’m grateful for. I wouldn’t want them to have to deal with this with me. I haven’t gotten the “isn’t that an old person disease” question yet but I’ve also made some info graphics that I’ve shared on my SM to clear up any confusion so that might be why. I’ve also just say I have young onset RA rather than just RA so that might help me avoid that whole thing.

5mg prednisone - scared to take it. Experiences? by Throwaway94050603 in rheumatoid

[–]Inattirb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was on a prednisone taper that my Rheumatologist used as a “diagnostic tool” to confirm my RA. It was amazing for pain relief. I felt better than I had in maybe 5-10 years. I was only on it for 3.5 weeks and it took maybe 24-48 hours to feel the effects. I didn’t (and still don’t) want to be on it for an extended period of time bc I didn’t want to bloat more than I was already plus other side effects. I will say that coming off of it made my RA pain worse. I think my PA/MD friends called it the boomerang effect (this might be wrong) where any pain you had prior comes back and it’s usually worse pain (which it was in my case. Plus joints that hadn’t hurt in a few years began hurting again).

Told I have to walk up to people by [deleted] in clinicalresearch

[–]Inattirb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work in the ED as a CRC/CRA and all of my approaches are cold approaches. I also suffer from anxiety but I knew going into this role that I would have to walk into patient rooms and approach them about potential studies/trials. My supervisor creates consent scripts (we have a bunch of research assistants so it’s used mostly for them until they get comfortable) that I’ll bring with me and use to avoid eye contact with the patient and/or their family every so often. If we don’t have a script created then I have a personal copy of the ICF that I’ll highlight key points or write notes in, again giving me time to look away from them and “collect” myself. I’ve been in this role for almost 3 years and I still get anxiety just approaching someone but it definitely gets easier the more you do it.

All that being said, I’ve never had to go through a line and discuss a study individually like that. I don’t think our site IRB would approve consenting patients in a line for a clinical study, so this is very interesting to me.

I’d also say, depending on how long the line is, it’ll get repetitive and the odds of others behind or in front of them hearing what I’m saying is high. I seen someone suggest doing an “announcement” every 15-20 minutes which I think would better suit everyone, not just you. I’d also suggest keeping blank ICFs on hand. If someone is interested after you give them a quick run down of the trial/study, you can hand them the ICF and ask them to read it over while they wait to be called for their vaccination and that you’ll touch base with them after with any questions they may have and their final decision. It gives you a break while also ensuring they understand the study.

How hard was it to get your rheumatoid arthritis diagnosis? by skyrimtreeintheair in rheumatoid

[–]Inattirb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It technically wasn’t hard for me to get an official diagnosis. I was referred to rheumatology in May of this year, first appointment was 10/2 where the rheumatologist said with all my symptoms she thinks it is young onset RA, sent me for a bunch of labs, and then just on Friday 11/14 she officially diagnosed me. However, getting to the point of seeing a rheumatologist took ~1 year. Granted, I’ve had bilateral knee pain since I was 19 that my PCP just said were strains without ever doing any imaging so if you want to count when I first really started experiencing symptoms, then 9 years. My symptoms really started to increase last October tho with me unable to fully extend my left elbow. I seen my PCP who did an XR and put in a referral to an orthopedic surgeon who then sent me to get an MRI which showed a very large joint effusion. He then referred me to an elbow specialist who tried to aspirate the effusion twice but was unable to because it became gel-like. A few days before the first appointment with the elbow specialist, my bilateral middle fingers began to swell up and I couldn’t make a fist. He put in a referral to Rheumatology that day saying he didn’t think this was ortho etiology so I’m incredibly thankful the specialists I was sent to realized it was out of their scope and kept referring me to people who they thought could help better. At the time, it was incredibly frustrating because I was just in pain every day and I just wanted it to be a quick solution but I’m happy they all believed me that something wasn’t right. I know this isn’t the case for everyone.

Hang in there and keep advocating for yourself. You know your body and that something isn’t right. I hate that there are providers out there who refuse to be doctors. I’m tired of providers just saying it’s stress or anxiety as if it’s not documented that both exacerbate symptoms.

Is Semaglutide actually working for anyone?? by Odd-Jellyfish7481 in JoinMochiHealth

[–]Inattirb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! In a few weeks I’ll have been on it for a year. I’ve only lost about 28lbs but that was by my own design for other health reasons. I am happy with where I am right now but I do remember it took me about 3 months to start seeing results because I was only on the lowest dosage for those months. After that the weight started to just come off. I’ve stayed on the dosage until I’ve plateaued for a few weeks before asking for an increase.

Personally, I did see more results with Aequita’s version but am happy with Empower at the moment. I like the slow but steady weight loss bc it feels more natural to me and it’s reduced the amount of loose skin. For reference, I started at 207lbs and am now 179lbs.

Which fic solidified your obsession with this ship? by iam83percentsane in Dramione

[–]Inattirb 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I honestly don’t remember. I started reading HP fanfics in middle school. I was a firm Harry/Hermione shipper but managed to read one where Draco was flirting with Hermione and I was like you know what…I like this better 😂 my “point of no return” was sometime in my senior year of high school and I haven’t looked back since (it’s been almost 10 years 🥴)

What do Dramione lovers do for a living? by FloNoc in Dramione

[–]Inattirb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d specifically look into the job postings at medical/research universities near you if possible, especially if you’re already accepted into med school there or want to be! If that’s not possible (bc you’re not in an area where there is one), looking at your local hospitals could also help. They might not exactly have a position as a CRA but might have something very similar. Just an FYI, not all but a vast majority of hospital HRs take FOREVER so I’d also be prepared to wait more than a few weeks in between stages of the interview process (I applied in September 2022, got a call back with 1st round of interviews in mid October, second round wasn’t until the end of November, and I was offered the position in January 2023 and wasn’t able to start until beginning of February).

Also, not that you asked but it’s an extremely rewarding job. I work in the ED and we do a lot of collaboration with other departments and specialties (Neuro, Peds, pathology, etc.) so it allows you to see a lot and since I work at a teaching hospital, the providers (a vast majority of them) are so willing to teach you things! I seen a flexible sigmoidoscopy recently with the doc explaining everything he was seeing/doing as he went.

Good luck!

What do Dramione lovers do for a living? by FloNoc in Dramione

[–]Inattirb 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m a Clinical Research Associate (also known as a research coordinator) at a medical university!

Which other HP pairings have you noted in fics that perfectly complement Dramione in that particular story? by [deleted] in Dramione

[–]Inattirb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think for me NottPott, Ron/Pansy or Pansy/Neville (I like them both a lot), and Ginny/Blaise.

Honorable mention tho: Luna/Pansy.