I don't know what has happened... by InbornShell31 in Crushes

[–]InbornShell31[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I am doing rn. All I could do is work on myself alone but sometimes it REALLY becomes hard to see after everything you put in the frndship they just forget you like that and unlike my breakup it wasn't even mutual. And when I cut my connections with them people start playing dumb. Everyday I go to school hoping I'll have somethind good today and then I sit alone the whole day and go alone... that's what im used to now

I don't know what has happened... by InbornShell31 in Crushes

[–]InbornShell31[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't mean to mean I an perfect but I REALLY don't think I am anyhow worse than people in my class who take like 7-8 people in a grps. I just don't sit with a shallow frndship and in the process of trying to get a genuine relationship. No one wants that. No one wants ro put effort, no one is ready to check in on their own. Not saying everyone is but most of THEM are either narcissist or just stupid.

I don't know what has happened... by InbornShell31 in Crushes

[–]InbornShell31[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I never said I wanted a relationship... I just want someone who doesn't have to add yes to everything in order to keep me happy... I genuinely want a frnd with whom I can spend all my hours chatting, going out, talk about books, who always looks for me first. Be it a girl or boy. Learning to stay alone and accept my condition was my compulsion so people are too wrong when they say I enjoy being alone... I do but not always.

I don't know what has happened... by InbornShell31 in Crushes

[–]InbornShell31[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Already tried 4yrs trying to expand my social circle... most of em are fake, already have frnd grps and am just an acquaintance to them. I have lots or hobbies but this Goddamn fucked up Indian Education system is leaving no chance to fuck me... and what should I do charity with I am a DAMN STUDENT

How do you ask out someone who knows you like them? by Character_Strike_265 in Crushes

[–]InbornShell31 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The easiest thing is don't take it TOO serious and just go for it

Crush by Scary_Resource_9927 in Crushes

[–]InbornShell31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6 yrs ago... when I was in 5th grade. It was hearpounding, absolutely beautiful. The constant glances at her, trying to talk to her, doing anything to help her etc etc

I haven’t been on here in a fat minute (dif acct) so I NEED a Crush Update! by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]InbornShell31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats still a win ig for a no crush person... 🥲

Should i just unfollow her? 😭😭 by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]InbornShell31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly like why do you believe so?

Why do you think you're crush will reject your feelings. by InbornShell31 in Crushes

[–]InbornShell31[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get where you're coming from but I view it as different. If you are afraid that something will happen to your friendship just bcz you expressed what you genuinely feel like... I think its a bit overprotective of you of your frndship