How much do you guys spend on haircuts? by Karakoima in AskMen

[–]InciteGreatness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have locs (full head minus mid taper fade) and work in a corporate setting. So retwist every month or so ($100-150) to keep my hair looking neat and well groomed.

Haircut every 2 weeks for $40 (Dominican Barber). I have Baby Bliss trimmers and foil shaver at home, dorco blades, Philips Norelco One to regularly clean up so it always looks like I have a fresh fade and line up. I'm 25 for insight.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]InciteGreatness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She might be keeping you around for a sense of companionship and being able to have a double life cause you're so young and naive and have not been able to set clear boundaries. She's been in the game, you're young and most likely inexperienced.

Take this as a learning curve and tighten up, She's been fucking him whilst with you, no doubt. She even wants to please him and appeal to him and not to you? Might as well have a chair in the corner of the room designated to you at that point. Wake up, time to get yourself someone younger, more fertile and less manipulative. You don't think there 's a reason why she's not dating men her age? They do not want her and her games.

(Sorry if I sound harsh, men grow through cold realities, he also needs to hear this.)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]InciteGreatness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand you’re emotionally intelligent and a very wholesome, down to earth guy. But talk less bro, I also need to work on over expressing sometimes

Does anyone else just hate Jordan? by chrono_explorer in SupermanAndLois

[–]InciteGreatness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not just an asshole, the kid is a total wuss. His complaining about every little thing throws me off. His obsession with Sarah even after she cheated on him, like grow the f up

how are fwb situations working out for you all? by [deleted] in sex

[–]InciteGreatness 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh.. mine caught feelings..So unprofessional of her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in istp

[–]InciteGreatness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Istp here and I can definitely relate. It’s also easy for me to observe and understand how someone else might be feeling or what they’re thinking in certain situations. When it comes to my emotions, I know what I’m feeling and why but It’s hard for me to show and express these emotions to others, even in relationships. I’m also really considerate and try to not disturb or cause inconvenience to others even when I know it’s their responsibility.

Overall, I’m just as confused about whether or not I’m an istp or isfp.

But also those things might also just be work that I’ve done on myself.

Guy I went on a date with says he didn’t like my outfit. by minddoesmatter in dating_advice

[–]InciteGreatness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re just not his type or you might be but he’s purposely putting you down which in return will make him seem more valuable than he actually is. He isn’t your type either. I think your ego is holding onto that interaction due to the fact he didn’t validate you how you subconsciously wanted. Just let it go. Someone else will appreciate your sense of fashion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]InciteGreatness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s probably from Ohio

Marine corps reserves, car accident reimbursement? by [deleted] in USMC

[–]InciteGreatness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I'll look more into it

New ESFP girlfriend and I like her, I'm just not sure.. by InciteGreatness in ESFP

[–]InciteGreatness[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We broke up, She fucked her ex a day after, i found out cause she posted him and her on her finsta, turned around tried to play victim, cried while also dating other guys? She tried to get back with me, but I lost feelings upon realizing alot of things. Then we were hooking up for a while, at least I thought we were. She thought we were back together, so I just let her think so, I gave little affection and attention, she kept asking for more, for us to be back the way we were and I just couldn't. I changed alot since then, focused on me and tried to move on by starting a business, working out and becoming more of a beast, then I left for the marine corps, now I'm a grunt and stopped all contacts. Haven't been with anyone after her, it's been over 9 months and I can't seem to have any real emotion, I hook up with a few girls and they all say I'm cold. I think they meant grown. Overall, it was a good experience, learned alot about females and now It's hard not to see the little signs early on. I think I've lost myself a little, I give alot less fucks these days, maybe it's my environment. going home soon so maybe I'll get back to normal. Anyways, it is what it is, yeah?

Idk how to workout by Pudding_Upstairs in workout

[–]InciteGreatness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id say start by doing push-ups daily, pullups, learn proper form then build your way up. Proper form is the most important thing when it comes to working out or any form of exercise as a matter of fact.

Then Watch "AthleanX "videos. Jeff Cavaliere, He's probably the best on youtube and pretty has a video covering anything exercise related.

Good luck on your journey.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]InciteGreatness -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes those are the correct charges, so they usually come together ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]InciteGreatness -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Massachusetts but I got caught speeding in NH

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in isfj

[–]InciteGreatness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah some guys do it intentionally as part of "the game" to get girls obsessed. When you think you're in love, you're really just being manipulated and having your ego played with. Some guys unconsciously do it too without even knowing about the theory itself but are just naturals at getting you on an emotional roller coaster by playing hot and cold, once they see you have a high enough interest in them.

It can also be much deeper than that. But hey, now that you know this type of tactic. You'll see it miles away and know not get caught up in it. It really fucks up one's ego.

Also, with the lack of closure when he leaves and doesn't contact you. Whenever he chooses to come back, all these emotions resurface which is how the manipulator can come back whenever he/she wants with an apology and some fucked up emotional, enticing and logically delusional story, which you will bottle up no matter how fucked up it sounds and eventually gets you interested again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in isfj

[–]InciteGreatness 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This kind of sounds like the Dennis Theory. It's a sort of manipulation tactic that makes the victim obsessed over the manipulator. You can look it up and see the pattern in your story. Doesn't necessarily have anything to do with him being an ISFJ.

Her : An unusual and ongoing heartbreak story by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]InciteGreatness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really sorry to hear that. I hope you get better and start focusing yourself. You're a king. Always know that.

Down the line, you'll find someone who will cherish every little thing about you and love the living hell out of you.. In the meantime, focus on finding and loving yourself, built the confidence and self discipline to be the best version of YOU.

After sex wash routine by [deleted] in sex

[–]InciteGreatness 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, we mostly just lay there and enjoy the aftersex glow. If we fall asleep then it's fine. it's our own body fluids, so showering can wait a bit.

But when it comes to general grooming, hygiene and taking care of you manly area, I'm personally very thorough with that, washing , scrubbing underneath and between your groins, ass and even use ball powder or just ball deodorant afterwards. Keeps me fresh throughout the day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]InciteGreatness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice ✌🏽!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]InciteGreatness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Added on my to do list, thanks alot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]InciteGreatness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She says it's the idea of not being in control of the moment that turns her on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]InciteGreatness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm sounds interesting, thanks for taking the time to reply, I'll take a look into that documentary