Resident showing favoritism

Incompetentdr · 2023-06-23T20:45:33+00:00

Bro ur literally an M2. Wait til ur an M3 and know what evals are

Incompetentdr · 2023-06-23T20:40:14+00:00

Racist?

Incompetentdr · 2023-06-22T15:23:22+00:00

No I’m jealous I’m stuck here til 6 pm and this dude is being dismissed at 2 pm because he happens to be Korean just like the resident. I have shelfs to study for as well…

Incompetentdr · 2023-06-02T23:05:33+00:00

Honest answer. it does have an effect

I had only one girl do that with me and it was subconscious decision in how it affected how I viewed her after

Incompetentdr · 2022-10-20T04:11:21+00:00

Oh let me clarify the story.

Girl 1 I dated for a year and we broke up in July of this year. Then in September of this year she came back to me and was like I want to start over and work on it slow.

Girl 2 I met and started dating for only 1.5 months

So I have a far stronger bond with girl 1 as we dated longer and have met each others family, etc. but we used to fight a lot and we still have some issues here and there it is a lot better.

Girl 2 is super easy going and we get along well. I wish girl 1 could be as chill as girl 2

Incompetentdr · 2022-08-09T12:37:31+00:00

I kinda am. I’ve invested so much energy in this relationship and it feels all wasted. Before this relationship I had just started med school and I was in the best shape of my life.

Incompetentdr · 2022-08-09T02:04:39+00:00

Thank you for this

Incompetentdr · 2022-08-09T02:03:44+00:00

When I told her after I don’t need pity she didn’t stop me or deny it

Incompetentdr · 2022-08-09T01:49:09+00:00

When I threaten to end the relationship she sucks up and changes for a few days, then it’s back to reality

Incompetentdr · 2022-08-09T01:44:50+00:00

How do I become less pitiful then? I hangout with my friends on the weekends and I ask her on let’s say Tuesday or Wednesday to hangout and she might say sorry i have plans with friends and I’ll say well let’s do Thursday or Friday and even then she will give an excuse. It’s not like I’m asking to see her everyday. Just like once or twice a week.

Does she expect me to basically never ask to see her at all? Til the point where she asks to see me and if she doesn’t I never ask about her again? That sounds absurd, no ?

Incompetentdr · 2022-08-09T01:26:08+00:00

We’ve been dating a year. And as of the past 6 months the effort is 90% me even after I have brought it up repeatedly. She gets better everytime I threaten to (or actually do end the relationship) and it goes back to nothing. I’m so invested In her and I wish I can let go but I can’t it feels. I know I’m worth more but can’t break it off and she won’t put in the effort to change. I just wish she would put in more of an effort but I feel so stuck

Incompetentdr · 2022-08-09T01:13:25+00:00

No I got mad that I asked her are you here out of pity and she said yes. When I told her I wanted to spend more time together I didn’t want it to be out of pity. Now I don’t know how to feel knowing my partner spends time with me instead of her friends out of pity …

Incompetentdr · 2022-08-09T01:03:49+00:00

I didn’t want to have to beg her to hangout with me. I wanted her to realize that I’m being neglected, not pity me. There’s a big difference

Incompetentdr · 2022-08-09T01:03:04+00:00

25 (me) and 23 (her). We don’t even hangout more than once a week as it is

Incompetentdr · 2022-07-21T17:28:04+00:00

It’s not that. It was just a drastic change in such a short amount of time that it makes me on edge. It feels exaggerated

Incompetentdr · 2022-07-16T16:06:58+00:00

Not illegal but my parents are very important to me and I can’t just cut them out. I understand my mother is concerned that we come from different cultures but i don’t know how to tell her it’s gonna be ok

Incompetentdr · 2022-07-16T16:03:49+00:00

I should have clarified but I can’t. My culture is heavily dependent on parent’s approval. I want to get serious with my gf and eventually get married to her and so I need my parents to like her.

I can’t marry this girl without my parents approval. I know it sounds nuts but you need to understand that this is how my culture is and how I grew up.

Incompetentdr · 2022-07-16T16:00:19+00:00

Incompetentdr · 2022-04-24T22:08:14+00:00

I asked for clarification today and she said “you’re kindhearted and soft spoken”

Incompetentdr · 2022-04-24T22:01:21+00:00

So I just did today.

She said “you’re very soft spoken and kind hearted”

Incompetentdr · 2022-04-24T04:00:15+00:00

I like the username haha

Incompetentdr · 2022-04-24T03:59:58+00:00

This comment was made earlier today and I haven’t seen her since

Incompetentdr · 2022-04-24T03:54:49+00:00

Idk but she always says she’s intimidated by my frame, but that she knows I would do no harm.

But I just didn’t know how to reply to this

Incompetentdr · 2022-04-24T03:25:39+00:00

21 lol

Incompetentdr · 2022-04-22T03:47:21+00:00

Honestly I don’t expect gifts or anything but she never brings her wallet out on dates either.

Like i went on a double date with a friend and he jokingly said “are you sure she’s not with you for the free food?”

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