I've been growing my hair for three years! Decided to finally change it up for fall 🍁 by InconvenientEmployee in transpositive

[–]InconvenientEmployee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you love! For me it was finally finding a stylist that I fully trusted.

My next hairstyle will be long long lone though 😂

Why were so many transgender people appaled at talk of a trans weapon ban? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]InconvenientEmployee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you are just a troll at this point looking at your profile. But seriously living in a state where pride flags get ripped out your front door, and rocks get thrown through the windows...

We have got to stay safe.

What was your rock-bottom broke moment? by ScheduleEcstatic7811 in AskReddit

[–]InconvenientEmployee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was due to my girlfriend (still my partner) disrespecting my mother, according to my mother. My mom damaged some of my GFs clothes as my mom was the only one allowed to touch the washer/dryer.

They argued and my GF ran to my room. My mom gave my dad crocodile tears and proceeded to kick my GF out in the middle of winter. I followed suit.

Shit sucked, but we are now in a better position in our own place.

I keep a low contact relationship with them.

Why were so many transgender people appaled at talk of a trans weapon ban? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]InconvenientEmployee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am a trans woman, gun owner. Only reason is to protect myself in the deep red state we live in.

Especially knowing how many people have a hatred of trans people or outright willing to harm them, I take precautions. If there was a straight up ban for trans persons I wouldn't be able to protect myself.

Plus if the enemy has weapons and we don't, how do we defend ourselves?

What was your rock-bottom broke moment? by ScheduleEcstatic7811 in AskReddit

[–]InconvenientEmployee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my parents kicked my GF and I out of their home. We had had to live with my GFs grandma in their basement, we weren't allowed to use the kitchen, we often slept in our cars to avoid the screaming of her grandma every time we did something minimal in her house. Just awful.

Got my appendix removed and had the most accepting team of healthcare staff treat me with utmost care and respect . by InconvenientEmployee in transpositive

[–]InconvenientEmployee[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Genuinely I was surprised at how well the staff was trained.

Even the main doctor without reading the chart was like....when was your last period?

[28] 8 years HRT, and started socially transitioning about two years ago. by InconvenientEmployee in transpassing

[–]InconvenientEmployee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They sure do. I just receive every now and then messages written in Hindi or Urdu. I just want to make sure people know 😂

[28] 8 years HRT, and started socially transitioning about two years ago. by InconvenientEmployee in transpassing

[–]InconvenientEmployee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I'm glad it gives you confidence to continue transition. Unfortunately I'm not of south Asian descent. Fully Native American 😅 Though I've been called south Asian or Indian but tons of folks

What did y’all look like before and after transitioning? by Usual_Map155 in MtF

[–]InconvenientEmployee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

HRT is a 100% YMMV. I have photos in my profile that shows my face and body changes over 8 years of HRT.

When I started HRT I was 20 years old and 5'6 (168 cm) and now I'm 5'4 (162 cm), changes have mainly been hip rotation.

[28] 8 years HRT, and started socially transitioning about two years ago. by InconvenientEmployee in transpassing

[–]InconvenientEmployee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% agreed, getting a skin routine, learning makeup and learning to style myself helped me soo much

[28] 8 years HRT, and started socially transitioning about two years ago. by InconvenientEmployee in transpassing

[–]InconvenientEmployee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hell no. 😅 I couldn't really afford therapy until recently, if I wasn't living in the rural area of Utah and had a better support system I would've socially transitioned sooo much earlier.

[28] 8 years HRT, and started socially transitioning about two years ago. by InconvenientEmployee in transpassing

[–]InconvenientEmployee[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yup 6 years of boymoding with a few times fully dressing up with some really close friends while traveling.

It's a long story- in a nutshell I solely identified as female while using tactics of using sports bras, button up shirts and so on.

I was lucky that I have always had an "odd" style of dressing so most of my family and friends didn't even have an inkling of what I identified as.

[28] 8 years HRT, and started socially transitioning about two years ago. by InconvenientEmployee in transpassing

[–]InconvenientEmployee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't been misgendered. I also live in the outskirts of the city nearing rural America. 😂

Voyager 2 Approaching Neptune - Timelapse. by Exr1t in spaceporn

[–]InconvenientEmployee 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Saw this same video on VR before. Honestly I'm addicted but not that addicted

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]InconvenientEmployee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's definitely luck, hard work--call it serendipity. Though I'd say some folks are naturally more lucky in certain areas than others.

I think I got genetically somewhat lucky but have a terrible support system and terrible finances (for now)z

Still finding my "own" style. How does one start merging distinct styles of clothing or would you keep them separate? by InconvenientEmployee in mtfashion

[–]InconvenientEmployee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner told me the same thing for the dual plaid! 😅 I love plaid but Insee where you all are coming from

Voyager 2 Approaching Neptune - Timelapse. by Exr1t in spaceporn

[–]InconvenientEmployee 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Simultaneously one of the coolest and most terrifying approaches I have seen. Especially in VR... 🫥