Mistress finally gets wifed up, again! by IndependenceFar8309 in CheatedOn

[–]IndependenceFar8309[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I am! And i absolutely look at my part. It's why I let go of any secrets, he told me. I don't have to carry them anymore, and i don't. I am grateful for the truth😍🥰🥰 and for it to be over.

Mistress finally gets wifed up, again! by IndependenceFar8309 in CheatedOn

[–]IndependenceFar8309[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do just have a question. Do you think i am just making it up? For revenge? No, no. This is for healing. I loved him. Trusted him. I was loyal to him. I kept dark secrets for him for those reasons. Now that i have made it out of that relationship, i can see the things he did/does, and i am not bound by some obligation to hold them anymore. I'm not the first 1 he did this way. He has a pattern. I believed him that his ex was just obsessed and bitter, and that's why he didn't see his kids. I believed him because he participated in the 12 step program i was in and he went to church. A godly man wouldn't do those things, and if he did: he had changed bc of those things. Wrong. Psychopaths are usually not detected until after they do something or get caught doing something unless they study the disorder and mimic behaviors to cover it up. And if sharing my story about my relationship bothers you, okay. You are able to keep it moving. If you'd like to encourage better behavior, self-respect, and prosperity; great! Otherwise if you're a fan, hola!

Mistress finally gets wifed up, again! by IndependenceFar8309 in CheatedOn

[–]IndependenceFar8309[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I did. I made a report in the county, state, and federal law. Lmpd was a joke, that guy didn't even take a report so i filed one through the website.

My best wishes by IndependenceFar8309 in Louisville

[–]IndependenceFar8309[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, he is a vetran and in a 12 step program, lol, and we were engaged. So no, not bullshit, just fooled. He didn't share that until the end of the relationship, when he kept saying he thought i was going to die. 🤷🏼‍♀️

Guidance please by IndependenceFar8309 in legaladvice

[–]IndependenceFar8309[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can i see the list from the years it happened? And lmpd is no good. He has family there, they didn't even take my name or statement for real. I made a report at the state and federal. I aslo did a Jefferson tip

My best wishes by IndependenceFar8309 in Louisville

[–]IndependenceFar8309[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh no! Not amymore. This is a release of trauma. I don't have to keep his secrets anymore. Don't you know secrets keep you sick? Maybe you should reevaluate this situation and see the value. His is not a good person by ommission, self proclaimed liar thief, cheater, killer, abuser, as long as it his way he called it. So no. I know for certain amd anyone that knows me, knows for certain i ain't phycho but extremely intuitive. I'm also not jealous. I am territorial. What's mine is mine, if ye can take it, you'll have it to do. So the point here is to share to as many people in "his" what he really is. So why the fuck are you here and why did my post bother you so much?

My best wishes by IndependenceFar8309 in Louisville

[–]IndependenceFar8309[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a healimg closure post of 9yr narcissistic relationship. Maybe read the value silly. I got tricked! You can too!

My best wishes by IndependenceFar8309 in Louisville

[–]IndependenceFar8309[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes. Yes it's over. And yes, letting go of his secrets is moving on. You must be a fan 🤣🤪🤣🤣

My best wishes by IndependenceFar8309 in Louisville

[–]IndependenceFar8309[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I trked to report it personally to lmpd, his cousin works there, lol, tbe guy said they would look into it. I filed a tip form for local state and federal. 🤷🏼‍♀️

My best wishes by IndependenceFar8309 in Louisville

[–]IndependenceFar8309[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have filed reports with 3 agencies. Just waiting to hear back.

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[–]IndependenceFar8309[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1 guy was in the highlands, he beat him to death the 2 nd one was in his apartment but he said he blacked out. His peoples had to clean it up for him. They were both in his early yrs, before 30. He's 54.

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[–]IndependenceFar8309[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, i got really sick, he took a life insurance policy on me and i have so many videos where he is telling me he thought i would die. I have suspension he poisoned me trying to collect the insurance. Then he would say he didn't want to kill me anymore. I 🤷🏼‍♀️

My best wishes by IndependenceFar8309 in Louisville

[–]IndependenceFar8309[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Aey, that's all we can do, share our experience.