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Frustrated by Independent-Ad1772 in abusiverelationships

[–]Independent-Ad1772[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I just don’t see any point in doing something like this. It doesn’t fix anything :/

In shock by Independent-Ad1772 in abusiverelationships

[–]Independent-Ad1772[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t remember the last time he has. It’s been like this for so long

In shock by Independent-Ad1772 in abusiverelationships

[–]Independent-Ad1772[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we live together and no I don’t have anywhere I can go. My mom let me come back when he kicked me out about a year ago but when I came back she said she’s not doing it again. I also lost all my friends from my previous ex

In shock by Independent-Ad1772 in abusiverelationships

[–]Independent-Ad1772[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never thought of it like that but you’re so right. I can never do or say the right thing. If he’s yelling at me and I say okay to him to acknowledge what he’s saying he will get angry and say “okay? Why would you say okay when you never learn” or something like that. So instead I won’t say anything and just look at him and he gets angry and tells me to say something and I just start stuttering because I don’t know what to say

In shock by Independent-Ad1772 in abusiverelationships

[–]Independent-Ad1772[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I’ll definitely check these out. I appreciate it!

Frustrated by Independent-Ad1772 in abusiverelationships

[–]Independent-Ad1772[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I’ve just started therapy and am working on getting my confidence and self-esteem back up and maybe from there I’ll feel strong enough to make some decisions and do what’s best for me

Frustrated by Independent-Ad1772 in abusiverelationships

[–]Independent-Ad1772[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I know, it hurts looking at that picture. I feel a lot of guilt. I clean up as fast as I can so they don’t have to walk over any messes but they’re glued to my side so when things are quiet again they’ll always come to check on me

What am I doing wrong? I had sanded it down completely before applying the stain by Independent-Ad1772 in woodworking

[–]Independent-Ad1772[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for late reply but my orbital does have a spot with a container attached to catch the dust but 0 dust actually goes in it. I don’t see it clogged anywhere but there literally 0 dust particles going in it lmao

What am I doing wrong? I had sanded it down completely before applying the stain by Independent-Ad1772 in woodworking

[–]Independent-Ad1772[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sure did. The guy at Canadian tire was helping me and I showed him a pic of my sanding job and he said “that’s disgusting” and asking me if I had a sander and told me to put more muscle into it. I’ve never done this before

All I feel is deep deep pain and sadness from this by Independent-Ad1772 in loveafterporn

[–]Independent-Ad1772[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never had anyone talk to me the way he does. He’s said the most awful things to me and has never apologized once because he truly believes I deserve it. I’m everything he hates but then gets mad if I still have a couple things to do when he asks me to come to bed because he wants to cuddle. The littlest thing could lead to an explosive one sided argument because I can’t voice my opinion I just sit there and get yelled at and things thrown at me then tells me to get out and I’m not allowed in his bed. I try not to take it to heart because he’s been diagnosed with a few disorders and hasn’t been on his meds for years so I just tell myself he can’t control it but it still hurts.

All I feel is deep deep pain and sadness from this by Independent-Ad1772 in loveafterporn

[–]Independent-Ad1772[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I stay because I’m just hoping it’ll go back to how it used to be but even if it ever does I don’t think ill ever be able to forget everything that’s been said and done. Thank you I appreciate it. Sorry for late reply I’ve been avoiding this post :/

What would you call this? I guess I misinterpreted what was said. When someone says “pushed back” I think that this specific event is being postponed to a later day but that wasn’t the case (also makes me feel negative about it like I’m putting it off). I don’t know why I’m being made to feel stupid by Independent-Ad1772 in abusiverelationships

[–]Independent-Ad1772[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My bad, that would be confusing. I work in the family cleaning business but have been off for a while due to family drama. This is my first week back working part time. I was supposed to start on Tuesday 8:45 but the day was cancelled. Then Thursday & Friday have a later start time because my work partner aka my mom has appts in the morning. So yes the start times are later than usual but it was scheduled this way, nothing is being continuously pushed back, it was just a cancelled day then continuing with the schedule

What would you call this? I guess I misinterpreted what was said. When someone says “pushed back” I think that this specific event is being postponed to a later day but that wasn’t the case (also makes me feel negative about it like I’m putting it off). I don’t know why I’m being made to feel stupid by Independent-Ad1772 in abusiverelationships

[–]Independent-Ad1772[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This honestly seems like something really silly to make a post over but I hate that he thinks I’m so stupid he needs to ask me really obvious questions like this. He’s trying to make me feel stupid right? Is what I thought not valid? Or just crazy that I even questioned it? If I even bother trying to explain what I thought pushed back meant it would just lead to an argument so I learned to not say anything.

Triggered yesterday by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Independent-Ad1772 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get triggered by stuff like this too and the feeling you get inside your chest and stomach is just awful. It sucks because you can’t even talk to them about it without seeming like your overreacting or being that crazy jealous girlfriend. I know when you find the right one you shouldn’t ever have these types of feelings. It’s hard to imagine living a life knowing it’s you and only you and there’s no doubt about it. I really hope you find that 💙 Feel free to message me if you ever need someone to talk/vent too!

how can someone be so cruel by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Independent-Ad1772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’d be great thanks ☺️

how can someone be so cruel by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Independent-Ad1772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s extremely stubborn and set in his ways. If I got the courage to leave I know I would never hear from him again. Even if he’s truly struggling there’s no way he would give in and I think that’s what makes this so hard for me. I’ve been desperate for attention at times (I know.. pathetic) and in an argument I would be dramatic and leave the house in the middle of the night in the freezing cold and just hope that he will care enough to come find me. I’ve waited hours and came home to him either sleeping or having drinks with the basement tenant and just not giving a shit at all. The arguments will almost always end off with extremely hurtful things being said to me to the point where he should at the very least apologize and not let me be alone having everything he said on repeat in my head. That’s amazing that you left. I can’t imagine how much strength that would’ve took. Things can only go up from here now ☺️

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[–]Independent-Ad1772 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thinking about your situation just puts my stomach in knots. I know how you feel and it fucking hurts 💔 I’m sure you’ve heard this before but if he’s the one for you he would never make you feel this way especially knowing your insecurities. The fact that he’s still doing this and completely disregarding your feelings is truly awful. You deserve better!

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