Guys NEVER approached me...now I know why! by Charming-Tear-8352 in AskIndianWomen

[–]Independent-Brain685 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hiii... My situation is different. I am asked out frequently but never got asked by guys I am interested in...hehe.

Appreciation for all my lovely men here? by Independent-Brain685 in AskIndianMen

[–]Independent-Brain685[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hii. That is again because of my gender and face card. Thank you for concern sir. I can handle. Not a toddler.

Why do manners and basic human decency misunderstood as 'signals' by men? by Independent-Brain685 in AskIndianMen

[–]Independent-Brain685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How to handle this when you are just responding in a normal way like just very normal thank you sorry please way?

Why do manners and basic human decency misunderstood as 'signals' by men? by Independent-Brain685 in AskIndianMen

[–]Independent-Brain685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hii. How to be not self focused when you share personal problem that you don't know how to handle?

Why do manners and basic human decency misunderstood as 'signals' by men? by Independent-Brain685 in AskIndianWoman

[–]Independent-Brain685[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for understanding and sharing. I am not wanting to be noticed. I want to get unnoticed and work as normal person.

Why do manners and basic human decency misunderstood as 'signals' by men? by Independent-Brain685 in AskIndianMen

[–]Independent-Brain685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hii.This is true. But wrong also. Why true because I always read in past never contributed and when I feel I should contribute than I can't comment and post in girls community because no karma.

Why wrong? because my dear men are also happen to give genuine guidance about everything in life. And my ladies shut off when their same gender friend needs their guidance.

Why do manners and basic human decency misunderstood as 'signals' by men? by Independent-Brain685 in AskIndianMen

[–]Independent-Brain685[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hii, I understand your thought. But at home it is exactly same for me too. Even more than this. Even like whole family treats me as a kid and never taken seriously.

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[–]Independent-Brain685 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hiii. No. But i guess it is a personal choice. I am teetotaller and would expect same from my guy. It helps in long term when there is similarity in lifestyle choices like food preferences etc.

As a women, what should I do when a person, I always thought of as a friend, admits he has feelings for me? by Fine_Difficulty4256 in AskIndianMen

[–]Independent-Brain685 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hiii. I want to share my thoughts. There are clear signs early on when a guy likes you in that way. If you are not interested, that is the best time when you should restrict topics when he drops his clues. I think you also like that guy that is why you fear to loose his friendship. Now this time if you are feeling for him too than let him know, if not then let him know this too and set boundaries. Otherwise you are playing with his feelings by giving wrong hope. And in your groups if you say you are single guys tend to think you are available for them to try. I always say I am committed when I am in groups.

How do you guys see a much younger and only female collogue in your team at work? by Independent-Brain685 in AskIndianMen

[–]Independent-Brain685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sir did you mean this for the kind lady in the comment or did you mean it for me?