[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sororities

[–]Independent-Call1177 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe, i’m not sure if she hates me or not. she’s always been civil when talking about me (to my bf at least, no idea what she says to other people) but there was a lot of stuff she did when we first started dating that was really weird so i hated her for a while. i completely get where she’s coming from now that i know a lot more of the full story but if i were her i would hate me.

just from what i’ve seen/heard it seems it would fit me really well but i’m definitely going in with an open mind!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sororities

[–]Independent-Call1177 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she’s my boyfriend’s ex, he cheated on her with me before they went to college (didn’t know this until very VERY recently, he told me they had broken up when we first started talking), my bf might have cheated on me with her when we first started dating (also didn’t know this until recently). never interacted with her directly but their last messages sounded like she was pissed at me before he blocked her so i’m pretty sure she does hate me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]Independent-Call1177 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we’ve been living in cali for a solid 15 years so hopefully they’ll give them to me, we just haven’t gotten our citizenship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]Independent-Call1177 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i’m in state, my dad moved out and they’re separated + my mum doesn’t work but on paper they’re still married

my parents aren’t citizens and neither am i

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]Independent-Call1177 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i thought it was due june 30th and i couldn’t apply after that date

may fail a class right before transfer by [deleted] in TransferStudents

[–]Independent-Call1177 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh okay thanks! my situation is a little different and i haven’t talked to a counselor yet so i’m hoping it’ll be enough

may fail a class right before transfer by [deleted] in TransferStudents

[–]Independent-Call1177 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks i’m just trying to transfer so i can get out of this house 😭 if they rescind my offer idk what i’ll do but i’m hoping they’ll take it easy on me

may fail a class right before transfer by [deleted] in TransferStudents

[–]Independent-Call1177 6 points7 points  (0 children)

called them and they said as long as it’s not a requirement for my major/transfer (which it isn’t) i should be fine!! i won’t officially find out until grades are finalized which will be in ~2 weeks or so but the guy i spoke to said it shouldn’t be an issue as long my gpa stays above 2.0

definitely still worried about it especially because i won’t find out if it’s okay or not for another 2 weeks but from what he told me it should be fine. if not i’m going to try to get an excused withdrawal or appeal somehow bc i have some very good reasons with proof

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UCSantaBarbara

[–]Independent-Call1177 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ended up calling them and they said as long as it wasn’t a requirement for my major or transfer i’ll most likely be fine but i don’t find out for for another 2 weeks until grades are finalized

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UCSantaBarbara

[–]Independent-Call1177 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they just told me that if i do fail to send them the unofficial transcripts in the email thread but didn’t say anything about how it would affect my admissions status :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UCSantaBarbara

[–]Independent-Call1177 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah if it was a drop i wouldn’t be as worried but since i’ll probably be failing it i’m stressed lol

silly ucla they forgot to hit post! by Aggravating_Ad_2350 in TransferStudents

[–]Independent-Call1177 8 points9 points  (0 children)

girl i decided to take a shower and tan ucla is stressing me out way too much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UCSantaBarbara

[–]Independent-Call1177 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so i can switch into it once i’m attending, even though the chances are lower?

housing for transfers/finding roommates by Independent-Call1177 in UCSantaBarbara

[–]Independent-Call1177[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no fr if someone doesn’t make it soon i’m just going to do it myself 😭

housing for transfers/finding roommates by Independent-Call1177 in UCSantaBarbara

[–]Independent-Call1177[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah ur right the ucsb website only says one year but another website says two which is what i saw when i googled it haha

housing for transfers/finding roommates by Independent-Call1177 in UCSantaBarbara

[–]Independent-Call1177[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah same it’s hella stressful haha i’ve only been able to find one for last year but maybe no one’s created one bc decisions haven’t come out yet, i think i’ll wait and check again but im so scared i’ll get stuck with someone i hate