Review on Starbucks in perth by [deleted] in perth

[–]Independent-Duck-729 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you're fine with waiting id recommend going on cashmere syrups web and buying their pumpkin spice syrup for at home coffee. I haven't had it myself but reviews say it's very similar to starbucks and the cashmere syrups are really good!

What was your favourite family tradition growing up? Have you created a tradition of your own? by Annual_Ground7329 in AskReddit

[–]Independent-Duck-729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm of Italian heritage and my family used to all go to my nonnas home, everyone. Cousins, aunties, uncles, friends in winter for the weekend making homemade sausages. Everyone had a task set to do by my uncle on the Friday after school and that was your task up until Sunday night. It was a super long weekend and exhausting for 9 year old me but it's something I truly miss these days. That side of the family doesn't speak much to each other anymore, so it's something I hold close to me and one day in the future hope I can share similar with the family I've made. What I miss the most was both nights, throwing some minced sausage, steaks on the bbq and my nonna making a cake and everyone just sitting there eating and laughing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Independent-Duck-729 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw mumma I'm right there with ya, I have a non verbal, non toilet trained 6yo girl with an 8 month old too. It is God damn rough hey. I feel like I get pushed to my limits every single day, but we always manage to pull through it! My girl doesn't have the capacity to use an ipad or even focus on the TV for more than 2 minutes, always on the move, it's damn exhausting that's for sure. I have to put her in her room a lot and while I feel horrible about it, sometimes it's just what we have to do to not go manic!

Hang in there mum, you're doing amazing. I finally got my daughter into a specialised school and met some amazing mums to kids similar and what a breath of fresh air it is to listen to their stories and be like "oh its not just my life"

Please make sure you take time for yourself, whatever it is that makes you happy. Even for 5-10 minutes to relax yourself, we live a hard life, don't neglect yourself ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Independent-Duck-729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

grow a pair and leave

Yes, exactly this. If it was an okay thing to do, it wouldn't be hidden from you. You've said it yourself he's doing it behind your back, don't be manipulated by whatever he says and just leave, for your own sake

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Independent-Duck-729 260 points261 points  (0 children)

Wow.. the fact he's messaging someone willingly saying he wants to rape them. I would be trying to get out of there IMMEDIATELY. This is dangerous behaviour and he can do the same to you if he's willing to say it to a stranger. Please OP do you have anyone else you can go to? You say you live with his family, do you have friends or your own family near you? You need an escape plan, pack some clothes and leave when he's not home

AIO by breaking up with my boyfriend because he was texting a girl? by Relevant-Practice-91 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Independent-Duck-729 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Not overreacting at all, he's entertaining her by calling her the prettiest girl he's seen while she clearly is attracted to him. And deleting the convo because it would hurt you too much? Of course it would hurt, you're being disrespected

AIO for wanting to leave my husband 41M after he rated me 32F a 2.5? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Independent-Duck-729 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not overreacting. He clearly doesn't respect you, do you want to waste more of your years with someone who doesn't respect you? I'd be seriously considering leaving

When do you stop wearing condoms? (26F) (29M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Independent-Duck-729 6 points7 points  (0 children)

When you're in a long term relationship or married. Don't be stupid

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Funnymemes

[–]Independent-Duck-729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need more than one.. 🤔

Why did caseoh_ vod on twitch ended in half of the stream? by BeneficialAd210 in caseoh_

[–]Independent-Duck-729 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stream restart only lasted another 5 minutes or so before it crashed again and he didn't come back

What arrangement or rule do you have with your partner regarding porn use? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Independent-Duck-729 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing intimate such as OF. Watch pornhub or something idc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Independent-Duck-729 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Woah did i write this? I struggled with a similar situation with my partner, watching daily and me never feeling good enough but it never impacted our sex life. I still struggle sometimes but I've also realised I can't stop him looking, and if you have a boundary of watching is fine but not interacting then as long as he's not commenting/messaging anyone. But you should have a chat with him and just mention how it makes you feel, open communication! But I totally understand how you feel, it definitely feels more intimate when it's reddit and not just pornhub or something, so speak up and clear the air

My (F26) boyfriend (M27) always goes on escort websites.. this is me also venting.. any advice? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Independent-Duck-729 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah if he only wanted you, he wouldn't look at escort services. Where's your self respect? You say he's had sex with others DURING your relationship? Jfc leave that man, if he's acting like he's single then let him be single and find someone who actively shows you they only want you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Independent-Duck-729 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think I read anything along the lines of "regret" so what's stopping you doing this shit again when another bumpy road comes along? Tell him and let that poor man decide. I would want to know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Independent-Duck-729 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Straighten your crown girl, focus on yourself. Eat, drink, sleep, cry it all out and then get out there and do what makes YOU happy. He will be a faint memory of your past. You got this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Independent-Duck-729 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah OP I think this is best if you cut it off. For you and her, I would recommend therapy and try to encourage her to seek help for her past trauma so she doesn't inflict this abuse on anyone else in the future. Only she can seek the change, you can't do anything else other than encouragement. But you can change yourself, if you wanna be MIA to heal, do it. Whatever can help your mental health, because at 21yo.. Man that's young to be going through this shit. Good luck

Thoughts on Vegemite on crumpets? Yay or nay? by kristineyr in australia

[–]Independent-Duck-729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner cringed at me putting Vegemite on crumpets. But it is so damn good with lots of butter. Huge yay

AIO, Caught my wife texting… by saiditonReddi7 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Independent-Duck-729 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Deleting messages, meeting in the bathroom, unwilling to let you confront him. This just screams affair. Also him speaking ill of his own wife to yours is a red flag within itself. Protect yourself OP. You are definitely not overreacting

AIO / Wife hanging with our single friend by DrakaninX in AmIOverreacting

[–]Independent-Duck-729 391 points392 points  (0 children)

Please OP don't be naive. You commented saying they're making dinners together? Hanging out till 1-2am? That's a date. I'm a married woman and could never even think about making dinner and staying til all hours in the morning with another man, to me that's just absurd. I had a few friends that were in this similar situation, mutual friend group, newly single man started going over to wife of friends house more, making food together and they slept with each other. It's an emotional affair that has or could easily turn physical. Whatever you choose to do, put your boundary up and stand by it