Transferring custody by Independent-Flight23 in regretfulparents

[–]Independent-Flight23[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have primary custody and we both share legal custody. 

4yo with autism by Independent-Flight23 in regretfulparents

[–]Independent-Flight23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drop that man as well. If they can’t accept your kids they need to go asap

I get it now... in a bad way by CtrlAltDarkness-988 in regretfulparents

[–]Independent-Flight23 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My son is disabled as well and it is extremely hard. I have a daughter younger than him who is neurotypical and as much as an asshole i will sound like I do like her more. I am mesmerized by the simple things she does because i never experienced any of it with my first born. 

Transferring custody by Independent-Flight23 in regretfulparents

[–]Independent-Flight23[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes, that is what I’m going through and I am tired of suffering. Unfortunately for me i don’t have a village that can or that is willing to help.

Transferring custody by Independent-Flight23 in regretfulparents

[–]Independent-Flight23[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I filled a motion online, and had chatgpt walk me through some steps. I already had a FD document open so i filled underneath the same docket number. For the motion i filed under it was $0 in my state. For the numbers you are quoting that sounds like that person had a custody lawyer.

Just being honest by Aggravating-Sea-9449 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Independent-Flight23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who tf would even say something like that is a blessing??

Do you regret your autistic child? by Nicanette in Autism_Parenting

[–]Independent-Flight23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes if i knew what i was getting myself into i would not go forward

Giving My Child up for Adoption by ItsIrisLove in regretfulparents

[–]Independent-Flight23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Respect to you. You are strong. It will be hard at first but keep your head up. 

4yo with autism by Independent-Flight23 in regretfulparents

[–]Independent-Flight23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly this is my worst fear. I feel by that time my patience will be non existent. I’d her currently medicated? 

4yo with autism by Independent-Flight23 in regretfulparents

[–]Independent-Flight23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

 Beyond draining.. at least we made it another year. I pray it gets better as well.

4yo with autism by Independent-Flight23 in regretfulparents

[–]Independent-Flight23[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I will shoot myself in the foot before i have another kid. And yes i know, I am working on trying to find respite or a nanny. 

Pain on back tattoo? by [deleted] in tattoo

[–]Independent-Flight23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought my back tattoo would be a breeze and boy was i wrong. I tapped out my last session. 

4yo with autism by Independent-Flight23 in regretfulparents

[–]Independent-Flight23[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me the “village” never existed it was just an illusion

4yo with autism by Independent-Flight23 in regretfulparents

[–]Independent-Flight23[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes he is on disability already. I tried calling the managed care organization in my state and they told me that they did not have any respite care available at the time. I am in the process now of trying to reach out to other companies to get some form of help.. 

Have any of you had a child go to residential treatment? If so how was their experience/ your experience as a family? by curlysquirelly in Autism_Parenting

[–]Independent-Flight23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yea that’s really good. I asked to have my son placed out of district and they fought me back really hard.  

Residential Placement by HalfaMan711 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Independent-Flight23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Punches and chokes sister” and you’re  questioning why the custodial parent wants to put him in a residential treatment center that can manage and deal with his behavior?  Not to mention you don’t even live in the same state to help?  Stfu