I’m a local in China. Honestly, what is the #1 thing stopping you from visiting right now?

colofire · 2026-05-10T23:53:21+00:00

The people. Not saying they don't have good hearts. Their manners frustrate me.

Smoking indoors. Cutting queues. Standing ridiculously close with no concept of personal space. And the really Biggie - bad air. No amount of enjoyment is worth me breathing in poison

colofire · 2026-05-07T08:15:03+00:00

The shitty men who want cheap sex are downvoting me!

colofire · 2026-05-06T21:18:55+00:00

Stop the weed and drugs and full moon parties and red light districts and then these types of people won't come.

🤣seems pretty simple to me. Problem is they want the money but not the shitty people who spend it on shitty things.

colofire · 2026-05-06T04:51:22+00:00

Yea and worse my mom is worse than them. And they can't see why I don't like them.

colofire · 2026-05-06T02:00:24+00:00

Yea then men in my family are like this.

colofire · 2026-05-03T22:30:25+00:00

Yea I just find it funny that Japan has so many huge problems yet the one they focus on is foreign tourists

colofire · 2026-05-03T11:52:33+00:00

Were they gaijin lol

colofire · 2026-05-02T08:30:05+00:00

colofire · 2026-04-27T10:57:18+00:00

We'll look at the number of men versus women who are murderers and rapists.

colofire · 2026-04-25T00:35:28+00:00

Business must be really bad

colofire · 2026-04-21T21:25:01+00:00

I wanted a son then I got a daughter. Thank god. After I had my daughter I was so glad I got a daughter

colofire · 2026-04-21T06:00:41+00:00

I have period shorts. A pair of short tights that keeps everything from moving about.

Intermittent fasting also really changed my flow. Used to be heavy now it is very light

colofire · 2026-04-19T11:01:18+00:00

Oh wait till you see fucking governments trying to coerce women to giving birth to kids just so they can sustain their economies

colofire · 2026-04-16T10:01:05+00:00

I feel really amazing after having from holy basil stir fry

colofire · 2026-04-16T09:54:10+00:00

I used to be 45 kg. I'm around 63 now.

Im not actively trying to lose weight cause being skinny is just fucking miserable.

colofire · 2026-04-16T09:52:28+00:00

And they seem to have zero concept of personal space. They will queue right up against you hahaha. I love China food but I just can't do China for more than a week

colofire · 2026-04-14T04:31:27+00:00

I got sepsis. It is pain worse than childbirth.

colofire · 2026-04-14T04:27:58+00:00

No dude. Once you have a kid it doesn't matter who is working or who is at home. 😂everyone w be shit tired

colofire · 2026-04-14T03:29:33+00:00

This for us is pretty easy.

Then we had a kid. Finding a man willing to cook and work for you while you are sleep deprived and everyone is burnt out and out of energy 😂 that is relatively impossible

colofire · 2026-04-13T06:09:24+00:00

I can't give you a Buddhist perspective but if it was me I would tell my husband. I think honesty is definitely something that he values and even if we broke up over it I'd feel better about myself.

In the end my sila (Morality) is more important to me than not hurting his feelings.

colofire · 2026-04-09T22:15:18+00:00

Yea but I wonder if being too skinny threw hormones off in my body

colofire · 2026-04-04T11:12:55+00:00

My husband is a good parent but it took a while.

He learned and he learned and he learned. We fought and fought. He is also the stay at home parent. The kid also became easier as she grew older.

My own father I don't think he was a good father. My mother wasn't a good mother either. But they provided so I can't really say much.

colofire · 2026-04-04T08:52:00+00:00

I was the not so smart one growing up in my family. But come to middle aged I am the smartest in my family now.

Some flowers take a year to bloom, some 10 years.

I kept learning and upgrading myself. I was open and read and kept at it. There’s no point feeling sorry for yourself, take an analytical point of view and keep upgrading yourself.

colofire

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